mixed signals

[AceyR6]

I'v known this girl thru a friend for a while. We got along pretty well. She'd be laughing at my jokes etc. I get her phone number, waited 4 days to call. I call her up, I know she's a party girl, so I'm telling her I got the biggest hangover today. She's laughing like the dumb slut that she is, lol. Then she tells me if she can call me back later, that she was in the middle of a conversation and asks me if this is the number where I can be reached.
I remember that when I initally got her number, she told me that she isn't good with calling people. ( I told her I would give her my number, but I don't give it out to strangers, as a joke)

a day later, she hasn't called. I'm thinking that she actually likes me and this might be some demented test.
I'm thinking of waiting a week before calling again. This a good course of action?

 

[am4591]

Yeah.

 

[Fadero]

I don't think it's a test. I she really liked you, she would have gotten off the phone with whomever she was talking to and would've switched back on the line with you. That's a sign of a high interest girl.

And the fact that she didn't call you back shows that she's not really into you. I'm sorry, but perhaps you need to find a girl who shows more eagerness.

 

[Starman]

You dont have to NEXT her..just stop putting so much stock into this girl..she already admitted to you that she is a flake..and to expect/accept her rude phone etiquette

when she said "Im not good at calling people back"

you should have said "Thats cool, because Im not good at picking up the fone"

That would have set her in her place.

 

[Ronin I]

Originally posted by Fadero
I don't think it's a test. I she really liked you, she would have gotten off the phone with whomever she was talking to and would've switched back on the line with you. That's a sign of a high interest girl.

And the fact that she didn't call you back shows that she's not really into you. I'm sorry, but perhaps you need to find a girl who shows more eagerness.

You don't know this for sure. Maybe her cat was really sick and she was on the phone with the vet - who knows?

Yeah, I'd wait a week and ring her again. In the meantime sarge other girls of course .

Confident persistance is good - as long as you can make yourself not give a sh!t either way whether anything pans out with this girl or not.

 

[Starman]

you may not also realize it..but her "Im not good at calling people back" is a DEFINITE AFC TEST..she is pretty much saying..."If I dont feel like calling you, or calling you whenever I felt like it, would you still be interested in talking to me?
Do you see me as worthy enough to let things pass even if I treat you with disrespect and crap?"

 

[drixsa]

make it a littleless than a week

somewhere like 4-5 days

so she doesnt forget who you are

also dont lie

i hate ppl who make up stories how they were so drunk with this and that