Mixed Signals, Calling all DJ's

[man_o_mystery]

I've been lurking here for a while and I know I can count on you guys for some advice:

I've known this HB7.5 for almost 2 months, went on like 6 dates with her - by the 4th we made out a little bit. Much to my dismay, on the 5th I got a little peck on the lips.

Tonite, I lean in for the kiss and, wouldn't you know it, I get a hug instead. Something ain’t right…Another red flag is that a month ago she said her cell phone got cut off, so I have no way of contacting her anymore. She contacts me and we set something up. I smell bull****...

Now I've been playing it cool, having sex with others, calling her once or less a week, being ****y and even turning her down for a date once but it seems like her IL is dropping faster than asteroids...physically at least.

I don't feel like wasting my time when I could be spending it getting other poon. Should I next? Is this a lost cause? If not what can I do increase her interest?

Note that I ain't looking for a relationship - I merely want to plug her a few times.

Thanks y'all

 

[RaWBLooD]

seems you didnt kiss her right.

 

[TesuqueRed]

Originally posted by man_o_mystery
...I smell bull****...

...but it seems like her IL is dropping faster than asteroids...physically at least.

...Should I next? Is this a lost cause? If not what can I do increase her interest?

Note that I ain't looking for a relationship - I merely want to plug her a few times.

Thanks y'all

ya think?

yeah, her IL took a deep plunge.

can you turn it around? sure.

worth it? no. or not for the effort, unless you need to prove something. or learn something.

if you're getting plenty of action elsewhere, what's the appeal here? trophy hunting? not used to rejection?

she has control of the contact now and uses it according to her needs. this is set up perfectly for you to chase her (ineffectually, of course) and she can engage whenever she needs (like, you're 3rd or 4th on the list when everything else falls through and you could be useful). so back off. be polite to her but she's lost her privileges. maybe she'll chase you, but probably not. let it go

others will tell you how to pull some power moves or something and increase her IL. that's if you have something to prove or something to learn

let her drift imo

 

[Badmannaz]

it all depends on if you want her still and is the poon your getting better than her...

i would have to date her myself to determine:flowers:

lolz jk but if you could describe her mentALITY and physically then maybe it would help... but it all depends on how you feel.

 

[man_o_mystery]

TesuqueRed, the appeal here is that this is an asian broad, and I have never had one in the saq before...and as DJ in training I want to learn how to bounce back from these situations

So how should I have handled it when she told me she lost her phone then ?

She's a party girl, who likes to get drunk on the weekends and goes out clubbing quite often. She doesn't say much and is really quiet so is hard for me to figure her out or read her....

So, the question here is, HOW do I increase her interest level so that she's ready to fvck ?

 

[TesuqueRed]

ahhh....so it's something to prove.

really, if it's having an asian in the saq you can pick up one of the alternative rags wherever you live, turn to the back pages and get one for an hour for less than what you'd spend chasing this one down at a club.

but you won't do that, you want this one, meaning you have something to prove.

what's to handle when she said she lost her phone? she's clever and setting up a useful, flexible excuse for controlling the communication between you two from now on. maybe you can bust her on it, although i don't know what good it'd do you. the point is she revealed the game to you at this point: she's not all that interested and has established control enough for her to determine the speed and play calling of the game.

some guys can tell you how to bust her on it and flip it. ask them, i can't help you since that type of move tells me all i need to know -- low value here, move on...

as for nailing her -- if i had to guess -- i'd say it'd be some combination of ignoring her, be a jerk, show dominance, socially exclude her a little bit, give attention to or hit on or seduce on of her friends, catch her when she's drunk... (bet someone's gonna jump on me for that last one...)