O.k new to this. Anyway, I met this girl my first day this year in college. We started talking, making lots of eye contact and smiling, then I had her laughing within minutes, next day I offered her my number (if she wanted to study...) she smiled and said definetly. Then insists on giving me hers. Then we decided to go get some lunch together, that went well too, laughed together found out what we have in common, then we left together and parted ways in the parking lot. Didn't call her, I made her wait.
Next day, we're in class, she sits somewhere else, doesn't say hi, or even wave. So my first instinct is to think, ****! What'd I do wrong. Then I decide to play it cool, and act like it's nothing. I act like I don't notice and end up sitting with some other girls (who are now showing potential as well). Anyway, I get in my car afterwards and she and a friend drive by, she sees me and smiles and waves. The next day she sees me at the end of a class and waves and comes over to me and seems all happy to see me.
Monday comes, she wants to get together to study, and asks me to call her later. It's been five days since getting her number and I still haven't called. So I wait until later to call, and she's not home. She calls back about an hour later and wants me to come over, I tell her I can't right away and will call her back within the hour. So finally, I get over to her house, she's wearing this tight little tank top, and hip hugging sweats. So we visit a little then get started on studying. The whole time we're smiling and making eye contact, I'm throwing in a joke here and there she's laughing, she tells me I'm funny. About a half hour into it she asks if I want to take a break, and we talk about getting some beer,( we ended up going to pick her little brother up instead). We start studying again, Anatomy, and we're both misspronouncing words and to the point of them sounding like sexual terms, which we laugh about. She asks me if I want to study with her again next Monday, then goes on to say we should get together everyday, and wants a copy of my class schedual, then she asks if I'll be her lab partner for anatomy. she also tells me to call her anytime just to hang out as well. The night ended well with her walking me out to my car and saying goodnight. Anyway, the point is she really seems to be interested in me.
Next day in class, she doesn't seem all that excited to see me, we talked a few minutes before class then sat together for a little while before being split into different groups,(same group as before with the other girls I mentioned earlier). We don't say anything to eachother for the rest of the day. I again act like it's nothing. Then earlier today we have anatomy in the lab, she shows up and we have to wait in the hall. She waves at me and smiles and that's it. She doesn't say hi, she just sits down on the floor about ten feet away and opens her book to study. I again act like it's nothing, I don't say anything and instead start talking with a couple of the other girls( same ones as earlier from my group). I make a few funny comments, they laugh and then she notices and tells me I'm funny. So I kneel down next to her and say hi, ask her what's up. She says she's tired because she was up till 4 am. So we go into the classroom and she picks the table, I position myself to sit with a one of the other girls, and then ask if she still wants to be lab partners. She says it's o.k unless the instructor picks for us. To me this seems like a whatever, but I sit with her anyway. So we're sitting in class and I decide that maybe her change in attitude doesn't really have anything to do with me and draw a goofy picture on my notebook and slide it over to her, she looks at it and just cracks up. I told her I wanted to see her smile. She looked in my eyes, smiled and said I always make her smile. So I decide, what the heck, later on during the lecture I write down on my notepad' wanna' go see a movie tonight?" And draw another funny picture that makes her laugh. She replies, I can't I work tonight 10-5 a.m. So I think to myself, o,k we could go before you go to work and go do something else, but don't say anything more because I don't want to sound desperate or pushy. About 10 mins later she turns to me looking in my eyes and says,"so you said you are working this weekend,
"( I work about an hour away in the city and spend sat. night over night with a friend every other weekend when I work), I say yeah, I'm looking forward to getting away and hanging out with my friends, she says "that should be fun for you, I guess you'll be busy," and asks who all I'm going to be visiting. The way she said it seemed like she would have wanted to do something this weekend if I didn't have to work. Plus, when she asked who I was going to see I told her, two girls one I work with and lunch with my last girl friend ( I didn't however tell her it was my x), I figured the mention of spending time with other girls would show her that my world doesn't revolve around her. She said I should have fun, again with a hint of what may have been disappointment. We didn't talk much the rest of class, then when it was time to go she started packing as fast as possible without saying anything, so I quickly scooped up my stuff and beat her out the door, with a very quick see ya later as I walked away, a further attempt to act like she isn't my world. Well, I walk out the door and she follows a couple secs after, and starts going the opposite direction away from me, then she calls down the hall and asks if there's a door out down this way ( even though she knows full well there is, I think it might have been an excuse to walk with me, but could be wrong.) She comes over and we walk down the hall together, not really talking, but she stays by my side not trying to get ahead. We walk out the door and she comments that it's getting hot, I say yeah, and tell her she should go home and sleep if she's so tired, she says yeah, then I say see ya later again, and she just says see ya and we part ways to our cars. Things I should mention, I'm actively trying to improve my skills with women, I'm usually pretty shy, and concidered the nice guy. I've been making good eye contact, smiling and trying to project an image of self confidence and that I don't care what anyone thinks of me. So far I think it's been going pretty well, I haven't caved into calling her when I feel like it, I only called the one time. I don't try to act too excited to see her, and act like it's fun to hang out with you, but you aren't the only person in my life. I've even noticed that her pupils dialate significantly when she looks at me, especially when I look her in the eyes. My question is this. I think she likes me, but it's really hard to tell when her attitude changes every day. I can't tell if she likes me, because of how her attitude changes every day. One day she seems thrilled to see me, (nothing happens between us in between times we see eachother that could effect her attitude the next day), then the next day she acts like she doesn't notice me. It just keeps going back and forth to the extremes. Everything I wrote is basically everything I've said and done with this girl, I don't know what to do from here, if anything. Anyway, thanks to anyone who actually took the time to read this who thing, if you have any answeres or advice to give me that would be great!!
Next day, we're in class, she sits somewhere else, doesn't say hi, or even wave. So my first instinct is to think, ****! What'd I do wrong. Then I decide to play it cool, and act like it's nothing. I act like I don't notice and end up sitting with some other girls (who are now showing potential as well). Anyway, I get in my car afterwards and she and a friend drive by, she sees me and smiles and waves. The next day she sees me at the end of a class and waves and comes over to me and seems all happy to see me.
Monday comes, she wants to get together to study, and asks me to call her later. It's been five days since getting her number and I still haven't called. So I wait until later to call, and she's not home. She calls back about an hour later and wants me to come over, I tell her I can't right away and will call her back within the hour. So finally, I get over to her house, she's wearing this tight little tank top, and hip hugging sweats. So we visit a little then get started on studying. The whole time we're smiling and making eye contact, I'm throwing in a joke here and there she's laughing, she tells me I'm funny. About a half hour into it she asks if I want to take a break, and we talk about getting some beer,( we ended up going to pick her little brother up instead). We start studying again, Anatomy, and we're both misspronouncing words and to the point of them sounding like sexual terms, which we laugh about. She asks me if I want to study with her again next Monday, then goes on to say we should get together everyday, and wants a copy of my class schedual, then she asks if I'll be her lab partner for anatomy. she also tells me to call her anytime just to hang out as well. The night ended well with her walking me out to my car and saying goodnight. Anyway, the point is she really seems to be interested in me.
Next day in class, she doesn't seem all that excited to see me, we talked a few minutes before class then sat together for a little while before being split into different groups,(same group as before with the other girls I mentioned earlier). We don't say anything to eachother for the rest of the day. I again act like it's nothing. Then earlier today we have anatomy in the lab, she shows up and we have to wait in the hall. She waves at me and smiles and that's it. She doesn't say hi, she just sits down on the floor about ten feet away and opens her book to study. I again act like it's nothing, I don't say anything and instead start talking with a couple of the other girls( same ones as earlier from my group). I make a few funny comments, they laugh and then she notices and tells me I'm funny. So I kneel down next to her and say hi, ask her what's up. She says she's tired because she was up till 4 am. So we go into the classroom and she picks the table, I position myself to sit with a one of the other girls, and then ask if she still wants to be lab partners. She says it's o.k unless the instructor picks for us. To me this seems like a whatever, but I sit with her anyway. So we're sitting in class and I decide that maybe her change in attitude doesn't really have anything to do with me and draw a goofy picture on my notebook and slide it over to her, she looks at it and just cracks up. I told her I wanted to see her smile. She looked in my eyes, smiled and said I always make her smile. So I decide, what the heck, later on during the lecture I write down on my notepad' wanna' go see a movie tonight?" And draw another funny picture that makes her laugh. She replies, I can't I work tonight 10-5 a.m. So I think to myself, o,k we could go before you go to work and go do something else, but don't say anything more because I don't want to sound desperate or pushy. About 10 mins later she turns to me looking in my eyes and says,"so you said you are working this weekend,
"( I work about an hour away in the city and spend sat. night over night with a friend every other weekend when I work), I say yeah, I'm looking forward to getting away and hanging out with my friends, she says "that should be fun for you, I guess you'll be busy," and asks who all I'm going to be visiting. The way she said it seemed like she would have wanted to do something this weekend if I didn't have to work. Plus, when she asked who I was going to see I told her, two girls one I work with and lunch with my last girl friend ( I didn't however tell her it was my x), I figured the mention of spending time with other girls would show her that my world doesn't revolve around her. She said I should have fun, again with a hint of what may have been disappointment. We didn't talk much the rest of class, then when it was time to go she started packing as fast as possible without saying anything, so I quickly scooped up my stuff and beat her out the door, with a very quick see ya later as I walked away, a further attempt to act like she isn't my world. Well, I walk out the door and she follows a couple secs after, and starts going the opposite direction away from me, then she calls down the hall and asks if there's a door out down this way ( even though she knows full well there is, I think it might have been an excuse to walk with me, but could be wrong.) She comes over and we walk down the hall together, not really talking, but she stays by my side not trying to get ahead. We walk out the door and she comments that it's getting hot, I say yeah, and tell her she should go home and sleep if she's so tired, she says yeah, then I say see ya later again, and she just says see ya and we part ways to our cars. Things I should mention, I'm actively trying to improve my skills with women, I'm usually pretty shy, and concidered the nice guy. I've been making good eye contact, smiling and trying to project an image of self confidence and that I don't care what anyone thinks of me. So far I think it's been going pretty well, I haven't caved into calling her when I feel like it, I only called the one time. I don't try to act too excited to see her, and act like it's fun to hang out with you, but you aren't the only person in my life. I've even noticed that her pupils dialate significantly when she looks at me, especially when I look her in the eyes. My question is this. I think she likes me, but it's really hard to tell when her attitude changes every day. I can't tell if she likes me, because of how her attitude changes every day. One day she seems thrilled to see me, (nothing happens between us in between times we see eachother that could effect her attitude the next day), then the next day she acts like she doesn't notice me. It just keeps going back and forth to the extremes. Everything I wrote is basically everything I've said and done with this girl, I don't know what to do from here, if anything. Anyway, thanks to anyone who actually took the time to read this who thing, if you have any answeres or advice to give me that would be great!!
