Although I would love to dub this the "Mission Method" I simply can't because I feel it would be copyright infringement.
Onward, I have decided to compile a post outlining everything I know about picking up women, my special style, and the aim is to aid those who are lost.
The game of picking up women is often confusing and sometimes intimidating, not all of us are born naturals, or we me have been raised in a conservative family that preaches no sex till marriage etc. The absolute first thing you need to learn to do is stop trying to figure women out, because we as men will never understand them. A man's mind works more logically than a womans, so dealing with them in a logical way will never get you anywhere. To elaborate, you will never get a woman by sitting down with her and discussing the pros/cons of dating you, and you will never get a woman simply by "letting it happen" as that is how many good friendships develop, it is a natural process. My style is one that focuses on making pick up natural, this is not about lines, techniques, or tactics. It is about a mindset and attitude to the world around you that will allow you to naturally attract women, and find the ones that are most attracted to you. Let's begin.
Before you even think about going out and getting women you need to look in the mirror and say "Is this the kind of guy women would get with?" and if your answer immediatly is not "YES" then you have to address yourself. In the big scheme this comes down to your confidence, you have to have the confidence to know that when you go out girls are looking twice at you. Of course you can attract negative and positive attention from the women around you, and so secondly you need to be able to attract positive attention. I want you to think about the last time you saw an enormous woman who was hideously unnattractive. How did you look at her? What was your internal process. It likely was something along the lines of "oh god that woman is hideous..but intriguing.. why am I looking at her? OH its because she is so awful looking I can hardly believe it!" Now, if you don't think girls do the exact same thing when they see a hideous guy, you are living with your head under the sand. Many people preach this, but you absolutly MUST take care of yourself, if you are clueless, go to a stylist, a good hairdresser, and a personal trainer. If you can't afford that, go buy a couple of WOMAN'S magazines, or watch t.v drama's such as "The O.C", this will show you what most women consider to be an ideal looking guy, you might think "but these guys aren't that good looking" but it is much more than that, it comes down to their styles, and attitudes (if it is a television show). If you are sitting in your chair right now wearing a video game related t-shirt I can promise you that there is major work that needs doing. When I am around my house I am in one of two states, I am dressed to kill, or I am dressed for bed, there is no medium, why? Because you will be more confident in your appearance if everytime you look in the mirror you can say, "damn I dress well" or "yes, girls would find this attractive" it is a simple working for your inner game and as vain as it sounds, it will help you immensely.
So remember, the first step is to help yourself, always be able to look in the mirror and be able to say without a shred of doubt that women will be attracted to you. You cannot hesitate, if someone (male or female) comments that you are good looking, or dress well, do NOT say, "well I don't know, I guess I do" NO, you say, "thanks!" and thats it, possibly compliment them back. Inner game is what my method is all about, and if your inner game isn't running at 110%, 110% of the time, you will not be as successful as your potential. Believe you are great, by being great!
If you all want to hear more about my method, post comments requesting it and I will continue with these posts.
--Mission
Onward, I have decided to compile a post outlining everything I know about picking up women, my special style, and the aim is to aid those who are lost.
The game of picking up women is often confusing and sometimes intimidating, not all of us are born naturals, or we me have been raised in a conservative family that preaches no sex till marriage etc. The absolute first thing you need to learn to do is stop trying to figure women out, because we as men will never understand them. A man's mind works more logically than a womans, so dealing with them in a logical way will never get you anywhere. To elaborate, you will never get a woman by sitting down with her and discussing the pros/cons of dating you, and you will never get a woman simply by "letting it happen" as that is how many good friendships develop, it is a natural process. My style is one that focuses on making pick up natural, this is not about lines, techniques, or tactics. It is about a mindset and attitude to the world around you that will allow you to naturally attract women, and find the ones that are most attracted to you. Let's begin.
Before you even think about going out and getting women you need to look in the mirror and say "Is this the kind of guy women would get with?" and if your answer immediatly is not "YES" then you have to address yourself. In the big scheme this comes down to your confidence, you have to have the confidence to know that when you go out girls are looking twice at you. Of course you can attract negative and positive attention from the women around you, and so secondly you need to be able to attract positive attention. I want you to think about the last time you saw an enormous woman who was hideously unnattractive. How did you look at her? What was your internal process. It likely was something along the lines of "oh god that woman is hideous..but intriguing.. why am I looking at her? OH its because she is so awful looking I can hardly believe it!" Now, if you don't think girls do the exact same thing when they see a hideous guy, you are living with your head under the sand. Many people preach this, but you absolutly MUST take care of yourself, if you are clueless, go to a stylist, a good hairdresser, and a personal trainer. If you can't afford that, go buy a couple of WOMAN'S magazines, or watch t.v drama's such as "The O.C", this will show you what most women consider to be an ideal looking guy, you might think "but these guys aren't that good looking" but it is much more than that, it comes down to their styles, and attitudes (if it is a television show). If you are sitting in your chair right now wearing a video game related t-shirt I can promise you that there is major work that needs doing. When I am around my house I am in one of two states, I am dressed to kill, or I am dressed for bed, there is no medium, why? Because you will be more confident in your appearance if everytime you look in the mirror you can say, "damn I dress well" or "yes, girls would find this attractive" it is a simple working for your inner game and as vain as it sounds, it will help you immensely.
So remember, the first step is to help yourself, always be able to look in the mirror and be able to say without a shred of doubt that women will be attracted to you. You cannot hesitate, if someone (male or female) comments that you are good looking, or dress well, do NOT say, "well I don't know, I guess I do" NO, you say, "thanks!" and thats it, possibly compliment them back. Inner game is what my method is all about, and if your inner game isn't running at 110%, 110% of the time, you will not be as successful as your potential. Believe you are great, by being great!
If you all want to hear more about my method, post comments requesting it and I will continue with these posts.
--Mission