I used to think about it, and be like "man what does that girl see in him, I am such a better guy, therefore she should be noticing me" But that was when I was AFC. I still had the mentality, that girls would love me so as long as they got to know the real me and how nice I could be.
Wow, so glad I am not that AFC guy I used to be. Now I see mismatched couples where a hot girl is with who seems to be a goofy guy and realize that obviously that guy had the confidence, prowess, and overall DJism to get that girl, and I realize that for the most part I should either learn from it or at least respect it. I used to think that the girl didn't know how cute/hot she was. Now I realize that the guy is probably at least a pretty good DJ and she would rather have that, than a better looking AFC. It actually gives me motivation, because If I am more attractive then the guy, and I fell like my DJ skills are better, than thoeretically I could steal his girl(even if I don't pursue it) or get a hotter one.