Met with my first childhood crush

[user252009]

Today I met with a girl that was my classmate in primary school when we were 8 years old, the first crush of my life. She's still super hot and incredibly cute and was being very flirty and fun the whole time, she lives with some dude though. Funny how even after 30 years the emotions can still linger and the flame still burns. Not sure if I should take those IOIs and do something with it or just let it be

 

[EyeBRollin]

Escalate. Bang her.

 

[SW15]

Not sure if I should take those IOIs and do something with it or just let it be

Escalate. Bang her.

I agree that this is an opportunity for sex. It is long overdue with her.

 

[user252009]

Not sure what to text her, it’s been a few days now, she said she’s gonna send me something specific we talked about but hasn’t yet; I also have a class photo from the primary school of our class, could send that without saying anything

 

[EyeBRollin]

Not sure what to text her, it’s been a few days now, she said she’s gonna send me something specific we talked about but hasn’t yet; I also have a class photo from the primary school of our class, could send that without saying anything

No. Do not send her anything. Ask her out. Plan the logistics. Take her somewhere close to your house or her house (because sex can happen if the night goes well). Pick her up if you can. On the date, escalate. Attempt to kiss her within 45 minutes. 30 is even better.

 

[user252009]

No. Do not send her anything. Ask her out. Plan the logistics. Take her somewhere close to your house or her house (because sex can happen if the night goes well). Pick her up if you can. On the date, escalate. Attempt to kiss her within 45 minutes. 30 is even better.

We don't live in the same country and I won't be in that country for another 3 months, so have to get the rapport going if want to escalate (and I do)

 

[EyeBRollin]

We don't live in the same country and I won't be in that country for another 3 months, so have to get the rapport going if want to escalate (and I do)

Nah. Disappear. Reappear 2-3 weeks before you go to the country. You gain nothing by chatting with this girl for 3 months when you haven’t even banged yet.

 

[BeExcellent]

Advice from the old lady:

Distance (and Silence) make the heart grow fonder. Let it lie. But really I disagree with the guys. You are too emotionally attached to this girl….who lives with another man.

You are going to get yourself hurt unless you seriously (not fantasy land) think she’s going to leave the inertia of her current live in relationship…you cannot sport fvck this girl.

And even if she were to leave him for you, you’d never entirely trust her because she betrayed him.

 

[user252009]

I don’t have any hopes and wouldn’t think she’d break off anything with her guy, but seeing that the energy definitely was there and she flirted like crazy, I would regret if I didn’t act on it in some way

 

[Manure Spherian]

We don't live in the same country and I won't be in that country for another 3 months, so have to get the rapport going if want to escalate (and I do)

Just why are you even bothering considering this?

 

[user252009]

Just why are you even bothering considering this?

Why do we do the things we do? You could ask every guy that’s chasing tail here the very same question

 

[SW15]

I don’t have any hopes and wouldn’t think she’d break off anything with her guy, but seeing that the energy definitely was there and she flirted like crazy, I would regret if I didn’t act on it in some way

We don't live in the same country and I won't be in that country for another 3 months, so have to get the rapport going if want to escalate (and I do)

If you were local to her, I would recommend acting on it. If she were local and she's unhappy in her relationship, she will be inclined to have sex with you if you present yourself as an compelling option for her.

Since she's not local, this is a waste of time.

There are women who were my high school and college classmates that I would find appealing for sex now at ~40. The few women that have kept in good shape and aged gently could be interesting options. None of them live close to me so it's not reality for me.

The best advice is to focus on younger, LOCAL women.

 

[Learning Curve]

We don't live in the same country and I won't be in that country for another 3 months, so have to get the rapport going if want to escalate (and I do)

You will not be in that country for another 3 months what is the point of building rapport?

 

[Manure Spherian]

Why do we do the things we do? You could ask every guy that’s chasing tail here the very same question

I asked because this seems like a waste of time and energy. I go by the line by Dr. Robert Glover: “Walk through open doors”.

 

[user252009]

You will not be in that country for another 3 months what is the point of building rapport?

It does seem like a better option to reach out then, 3 months is nothing