Ever since i broke up with my ex, I'm feeling great seeing another (This time its a quality girl.
Seeing some others too but most of them look like they have BPD.
However, I think i've played my cards wrongly in this situation for the quality chick.
Some background, we have Tons of common friends (May be a bad thing). We share tons of common interest together (Into musical instruments, both have braces, many more. Plus.. she's a keeper, giver. Comes from a Nice loving family and perfect job.) Quality girls are hard to find.
I was regarded as a high value male in the circle of her friends.
We talked on Internet Messaging quite often, as we have a lot of things in common to discuss.
Events.
Last friday night,
She called me up asking what's up for the night, I was singing with my friends and i invited her over, we all had fun. I can feel that she's into me, (physically clinging to me)
Saturday
We are supposed to meet up with a group of common friends. But both of us are early. The rest are god-dam late for 2 hours. We decided to watch a movie. Just then.. our friends arrived and we have to cancel the movie (As originally, we are supposed to meet up in a group). We went to the club. Nothing big deal happened.
After the clubbing session.. I feel that she's not into me as much as before..
Monday
Group of friends (Me and her inclusive) meet up again and chill out at a bar. Was chatting and I asked her out for this sunday for a local festival. I asked her out naturally, with no sense of desperation. She accepted and suggested we go catch the movie earlier on sunday.
Tuesday Wednesday
Group of friends meet up again. Gosh.. the more i type about it, the more i think I'm being too available. I can sense friend-zone coming soon, she wasn't into me as much as before although she accepted my date for Sunday. Even at IM, she seems to reply slower and lesser. Low interest?
Played my cards wrongly indeed. I would care less if she's a b!tch, but this's a quality chick and I will try to improve the situation.
Some highlights coming on.
1) Her friends invited me to her birthday party this saturday.
2) We are going out alone on Sunday (Movies and local festival).
How would you play to improve the situation.?
I'm going out to sarge with some local DJs now. See ya guys.
Seeing some others too but most of them look like they have BPD.
However, I think i've played my cards wrongly in this situation for the quality chick.
Some background, we have Tons of common friends (May be a bad thing). We share tons of common interest together (Into musical instruments, both have braces, many more. Plus.. she's a keeper, giver. Comes from a Nice loving family and perfect job.) Quality girls are hard to find.
I was regarded as a high value male in the circle of her friends.
We talked on Internet Messaging quite often, as we have a lot of things in common to discuss.
Events.
Last friday night,
She called me up asking what's up for the night, I was singing with my friends and i invited her over, we all had fun. I can feel that she's into me, (physically clinging to me)
Saturday
We are supposed to meet up with a group of common friends. But both of us are early. The rest are god-dam late for 2 hours. We decided to watch a movie. Just then.. our friends arrived and we have to cancel the movie (As originally, we are supposed to meet up in a group). We went to the club. Nothing big deal happened.
After the clubbing session.. I feel that she's not into me as much as before..
Monday
Group of friends (Me and her inclusive) meet up again and chill out at a bar. Was chatting and I asked her out for this sunday for a local festival. I asked her out naturally, with no sense of desperation. She accepted and suggested we go catch the movie earlier on sunday.
Tuesday Wednesday
Group of friends meet up again. Gosh.. the more i type about it, the more i think I'm being too available. I can sense friend-zone coming soon, she wasn't into me as much as before although she accepted my date for Sunday. Even at IM, she seems to reply slower and lesser. Low interest?
Played my cards wrongly indeed. I would care less if she's a b!tch, but this's a quality chick and I will try to improve the situation.
Some highlights coming on.
1) Her friends invited me to her birthday party this saturday.
2) We are going out alone on Sunday (Movies and local festival).
How would you play to improve the situation.?
I'm going out to sarge with some local DJs now. See ya guys.
