Met a gorgeous girl at the bar last night, not sure how to proceed

[BillyPilgrim]

I think I do have a pretty good understanding of women. I'm not perfect, and don't ever claim to be, but I like sleeping around and I think I've done a pretty good job of that so far, given my circumstances and living arrangement.

The reason I came here asking for advice is because my expectation didn't match with the result of that night and I wasn't sure why. I thought I was gonna bang this chick that night. I did NOT think she would shy away from kissing me twice, bring me to a frat party where I'd be third-wheeling, and stop me as I was leaving to make sure to text her before I left where she would end up ghosting and unfollowing me anyway...

And I got my answer, most of you pinpointed that the comment that she would want to f*** me if she kissed me was an invitation to try a third time. I caught it, but I didn't push the envelope because I was more afraid of the repercussions of pressuring a drunk girl over and over again despite her rejections and thought playing it safer was in my best interest.

If I'm hit with it again maybe I'll try a little harder, but we live in a day and age now where guys get cancelled and accused of everything so I have that fear sitting in the back of my mind.

Some girls are teases. Kino hard if she gives you mixed signals and see how her body reacts.

 

[tightgrp]

I don't know where the 6'2" keeps coming from but I don't know why I suddenly don't have game because I fumbled with this one girl.



Yeah that was the takeaway, filing that away for next time. I just played it a little too cautious.



There is no criticism there. It was literally useless. You didn't even read the post. That's like reviewing a book based on its title...don't pretend like you provided any sort of insight.

Lol. There is. You're just not paying attention.

 

[SuckItUp]

I’m a little late to party. BPH, as fellow over analyzer, the key is to figure out the mistakes, snag points, etc and understand the why and then figure out to avoid traps and what to do.

When a woman says that she can’t kiss because she will want to **** she’s testing you. She saying that because a decent amount of guys have lost their nerve, or overthought it and they fail the test.

Lots of good advice was given how to handle when a girl says that type of thing.

As for address “me too” it just means compliance testing and learning to calibrate when to push forward versus when to eject.

No lay is worth dealing an investigation, being arrested, or being indicted.

A venue change needs to be at worst mutually beneficial.

The frat house was a way to get rid of you and or a way for her to use you to make some frat guy she was interested in jealous.

There was no benefit to go the frat house for you.

Once things didn’t work out, the only way (extremely small chance) to come back was dropping off the face of the Earth and then re-engage if you ran into her in a few months.

Even then success was extremely low and not even worth thinking about.