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Met a girl online?

matius

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Did you tell your friends where you met her? Just a survey minus the survey.
 

matius

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somebody has to have a friend that asked where you met a girl you met online...are you straight up about it?
 

MisterAl

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Yes, always when asked.

My last online LTR girl was _extremely_ self-conscious about it. She always lied about meeting me online to her friends and relatives. We had another Great Big Fight about it after my friend's wedding where I had introduced her to my friends and said we met online. That's part of why I eventually wanted her to get lost.

She's back on match.com after her most recent breakup if anyone wants her. :rolleyes:
 

Quick

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I met one girl and dated her for 3 months. I told my sister, because i'm close to her, but not my brother of mother because i don't tell them the details of my romantic life anyway. My friends that she met knew, but i didn't introduce her like that or anything. She didn't tell her parents because she really didn't think they'd understand, but she did tell her friends.

There's still a stigma associated, even though a lot more people are doing it than admit to it. I can especially understand why you wouldn't tell your parents, because all they probably heard about it is the horror stories. In order for it to be really accepted, some people have to be the martyrs and freely admit it and accept the abuse, and then everyone else will follow.
 

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I told my parents, they think I'm screwed anyway so I didn't care. I don't mind it though, because if you prove you can meet girls in person, as well as meet them online- what's the big deal?
 

OddTech

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It's just a stigma that people get from reading the news, like the recent one about a military officer disguising as a 14 year-old boy to fly a teenage girl or something. Parents tend to be more uptight about these things because they are genuinely concerned about their children.

For me, I usually talk this over with my past girl and ask her what she is comfortable with. Some are very open-minded about it, while others wanted to say something like we met at a coffee-shop. I personally don't think it's a big deal.
 
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