Men love *****es

El Payaso

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I think it's a great book. Knowledge is power. Read up and know the tools that women are likely to use or using on you so you can better arm yourself.

There are some interesting tips but also some very bad tips. The author seems more focused on creating a stone cold robot then a human.

It all backfires in the end.
 

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The reason I don't worry about women picking up any game other than what they have innately, and running it properly is that... HEY WHAT'S THAT SHINY THING OVER THERE? OK, where was I? the reason I don't worry about...
 

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Men love b!tches...
Women love a*sholes...

Translation = People with low self-esteem will respond well to emotional abuse.

The real title of the book is: How to attract and keep a beta male

This is a fact by the way... People with low self-esteem will respond WELL to emotional abuse. Another fact: Uncertainty simulates attachment in humans... while certainty stimulates detachment.

Here is the exact formula for getting someone emotionally attached to you regardless of gender:

Step 1: Act like you like them and come on strong.
-- People with low self-esteem love specialized attention. It is like oxygen to them.

Step 2: Don't seem to want anything in return from them.
--People with low self-esteem believe they have nothing to offer (hence the low self-esteem). By not seeming to want or expect anything from them.. they become comfortable around you and feel safe.

Step 3: Withdraw your attention, availability and affection
--Which is basically emotional abuse when done intentionally. This will stimulate FEAR in anyone with low self-esteem. The result is desperation and attachment (you can see examples of this on the main boards by men making threads about women in their lives who are screwing them over :crackup:)

If you're a MAN.. Step 4: F*ck her hard and often. You have the power.
--Once you start losing interest.. a woman with low self-esteem will give you her body to keep you. Also all 4 of these steps can occur in as little as a few days.

Women (and men) with low self-esteem usually put up the strongest walls. But once you get past the wall they are usually pretty pathetic and helpless. Its sad and almost depressing to witness. Impossible to respect. Which leads to you treating them worse. Which leads to them trying harder. Which leads to you getting bored and moving on.

Note about hotter women (7-10's). This works great on hot women too. HOWEVER, you can't let up. Most betas will get a date with a low self-esteem hottie using "game". But because the woman is so hot the beta will forget to do Step 3. Which leads to the beta getting Step 3 done on him (again.. read the main boards :crackup: )
 

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I was about to say what Poon-king said. Like attracts like is the general rule for this phenomenon. Low self-esteem guys like b!tches just as much as low self-esteem girls likes a$$holes. Sometimes they grow tired of bad people and find someone on their own level, but they haven't really learned. What happens is a phenomenon I have witnessed several times growing up with a low self-esteem mother, being the third rational party saved me from a lot of sh!t. Both people engange in blaming, fighting and refusing to accept blame and take responsibility. The truth is that what they are blamed for is true, but they use pressure instead of understanding.

High self-esteem people understand the game being played and there's no uncertainty on either part about what's happening. That's why I take advice from people who evidently make it work and laugh about people who claim to know when their relationship story is evidence of the opposite.

While I don't agree on everything you say Poon-king, I have to say you're damn right about this one.
 
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