Men love b!tches...
Women love a*sholes...
Translation = People with low self-esteem will respond well to emotional abuse.
The real title of the book is:
How to attract and keep a beta male
This is a fact by the way... People with low self-esteem will respond WELL to
emotional abuse. Another fact: Uncertainty simulates attachment in humans... while certainty stimulates detachment.
Here is the exact formula for getting someone emotionally attached to you regardless of gender:
Step 1: Act like you like them and come on strong.
-- People with low self-esteem love specialized attention. It is like oxygen to them.
Step 2: Don't seem to want anything in return from them.
--People with low self-esteem believe they have nothing to offer (hence the low self-esteem). By not seeming to want or expect anything from them.. they become comfortable around you and feel safe.
Step 3: Withdraw your attention, availability and affection
--Which is basically emotional abuse when done intentionally. This will stimulate FEAR in anyone with low self-esteem. The result is desperation and attachment (you can see examples of this on the main boards by men making threads about women in their lives who are screwing them over :crackup
If you're a MAN..
Step 4: F*ck her hard and often. You have the power.
--Once you start losing interest.. a woman with low self-esteem will give you her body to keep you. Also all 4 of these steps can occur in as little as a few days.
Women (and men) with low self-esteem usually put up the strongest walls. But once you get past the wall they are usually pretty pathetic and helpless. Its sad and almost depressing to witness. Impossible to respect. Which leads to you treating them worse. Which leads to them trying harder. Which leads to you getting bored and moving on.
Note about hotter women (7-10's). This works great on hot women too. HOWEVER, you can't let up. Most betas will get a date with a low self-esteem hottie using "game". But because the woman is so hot the beta will forget to do
Step 3. Which leads to the beta getting
Step 3 done on him (again.. read the main boards :crackup: )