meh, Im tired of all this

[escobar04]

meh, I was at a drive-through over at Del Taco last night with my friend and then I was struck with an idea of leaving everything, pack a few bags and shoot over to Hawaii or something and never come back

maybe not but Im losing interest in life, I havent been to a party in like 3months, havent been laid in like 2 months, havent even got a new number since like March

man, is there a point in life when you live like a zombie, Im tired of school, tired of work, tired of the same boring shyt

any of you ever feel like this?

 

[itishe]

Yes.

Sometimes I want to leave school presently, go to Israel and serve in the IDF. I wouldn't say I'm bored with life, I just want something new. It gets boring going through the same things every day.

I want to go seek adventure.

I want to see foreign lands.

I want to fight for what I believe in.

 

[Delta]

all the freakin' time man. tired of putting in the effort. tired of trying to have a positive attitude in the face of no results, haven't gotten laid in years....

yeah, i hear you brother.

but no matter where you go, you're still you. as buckaroo banzai once said, "wherever you go, there you are."

you'll just be out airfare.

hang in there. meditate in quiet for a few minutes and quiet your noisy thoughts. do some cardio cuz it helps. if you have a hobby or interest, even if it's videogames or something, do it. whatever it takes to ease your pain.

it'll get better. things'll work out. and we believe that because we must. and that in believing it, it helps us better than wallowing in despair.

delta

p.s. dropping everything and taking off may be ill advised, but if you can schedule some time off for a break, get some fresh air in your lungs, and if you can afford to do so, going to hawaii or wherever may not be a bad idea.

 

[escobar04]

man, all I ever do is better myslef and self-improve,

I swear, a lot of people want to be like me, my best friend looks up to me everyday and everyone thinks that Im that cool guy like Ryan Reynolds in National Lampoons

but on the real Im a misarable person who doesnt love anybody

I got hobbies, job, school, car, some buddies, this that but never a girlfriend

man, it kills me when I see a couple holding hands, Id give everything away to be in that position

you dont understand, I got money, car, pretty much everything but I cant find a girl. at all. all I do is better myself but the more I do the worse I feel.

 

[itishe]

Escobar, it sounds like you're not doing what you want to do in life.

What have you always dreamed of doing?

 

[Delta]

and if you've dreamed of doing a hot chick or a have a girl friend, what have you done to make that happen?

you are in a GREAT position. you have it all. but a girl won't fall into your lap. so how come you're not taking steps to get a girl? or more specifically, what have you done?

this is why i disagree with krassus. you need to do MORE than JUST better yourself. women are a separate endeavor and they won't just fall in your lap.

so ok, what have you done? maybe we can improve your game plan.

delta

 

[KarmaSutra]

Fourth law of Karma

man, all I ever do is better myslef and self-improve,

I swear, a lot of people want to be like me, my best friend looks up to me everyday and everyone thinks that Im that cool guy like Ryan Reynolds in National Lampoons

but on the real Im a misarable person who doesnt love anybody

I got hobbies, job, school, car, some buddies, this that but never a girlfriend

man, it kills me when I see a couple holding hands, Id give everything away to be in that position

you dont understand, I got money, car, pretty much everything but I cant find a girl. at all. all I do is better myself but the more I do the worse I feel.

Law#4 People long for what they don't have.

You're suffering from collective defeatism. In every aspect of our lives, men and women, we always want that which we do not possess. Trick is to pinpoint yourself down to the essence of that which you desire. You feel as if no matter what you accomplish or what you own it doesn't make any difference because you already have it! It's a done deal and you no longer have to claw and scratch to earn it. But that's the rub too. If you release the burden and concentrate on keeping yourself as mentally and physically sharp as possible women will notice you and pick up on it. Believe it.

 

[Delta]

this karma, once again, is the "she'll fall into your lap" theory of personal improvement.

i don't buy it.

and i don't think it's all that mystical. the answer seems to be GET OUT AND GET A GIRL!

no?

delta

 

[jack knife]

You reap what you sow.

 

[KarmaSutra]

this karma, once again, is the "she'll fall into your lap" theory of personal improvement.

i don't buy it.

and i don't think it's all that mystical. the answer seems to be GET OUT AND GET A GIRL!

no?

delta

No.

Obviously the California sun has fried your brain. What I said is that you're responsible for your own destiny and path in life. Getting a girl is easy. Getting a girl you can walk with your chest out and shoulders high is another story.

I don't succumb to the " Fall into your lap" philosophy because it's easy and unaffective.

Re-read what I wrote.

Oh, on a sidenote check your sigs. They're trite and elementary.

 

[Passion]

escobar, I had the exact same thought before....Hawaii too.
But then I asked myself, do I wanna go there because there's a real reason I want to be there long term or am I running away from something?
If I'm running away from something, whatever my problem is probably won't go away...

 

[Delta]

"If you release the burden and concentrate on keeping yourself as mentally and physically sharp as possible women will notice you and pick up on it."

... and... fall into your lap? "focus on self improvement and the woman issue will take care of itself" isn't that what you're saying? isn't that the thrust of your reply?

i'm saying that acquisition of women is its own separate, distinct and discrete endeavor, tangentially related at points to self improvement but not entirely addressed by it.

delta

p.s. no reason we shouldn't keep this civil. we can disagree without being abusive. so leave me to my own goddamn sigs thank you very much.

 

[escobar04]

but how do I change then?

I think my problem is that Im the only child

my dad was one of 5, my mom was one of 7, all their brothers and sisters have tons of kids, and Im the only one who is the only one so most of my cousins despise me for the fact that I never had to share a bunkbed or whatever. is that my fault?

I had a Lexus and I crashed it and my moms gave me her Benzo so most of the dudes I meet despite me for the fact that I did nothing to have a good easy life and they busted their asses to drive a hooptie. is that my fault?

I only have like 3 buddies who really got to know me and they'll tell you Im a great guy but most people dont assocoiate with me

for example, I work at A&F and everybody over there hangs out and talks to each other and myspaces each other and shyt, Im the only one who is like an outkast even though I didnt do anything wrong

i read other people's comments and see a buncha "hey, last night was fun, lets kick it again" and my myspace is a buncha "ur gay, fag, loser, ass, etc" comments. wtf? seriously, no one likes me and I really want to run away from that.

everybody is always like: "Oh, you got it made" and thats it, no one wants my phone number, the only place I have to go is the gym just cos I have nothing better to do. I really want to run away, maybe from my parents. is that their fault?

anyways, what do you guys think. should I just run waya and star a new life cos this isnt warking out anymore

 

[Delta]

you're putting something out there that makes people respond to you that way.

believe me when i say that the world (the people who belong to it) reflect BACK AT YOU what you put out.

YOU are putting something out there that makes them respond that way.

you are reaping its bitter fruit. your mission starting RIGHT NOW is FIGURING OUT WHAT IT IS!

what is it about you? are you whiny? are you a mama's boy? you may have been born with a silver spoon in your mouth but do you wear that privelege on your sleeve? listen, we all have faults and this is not to pick at you. but YOU must be objective. YOU must figure out what it is that people are responding to.

if it was a single bully picking at you, that would be one thing... but if you are reviled by many for reasons that you can't see, you really have to look hard at yourself. WHAT ARE YOU PUTTING OUT THERE?

delta

p.s. you are YOUNG yet. do not despair. you have time and the world is open before you. you are ALL POSSIBILITY, you are ALL POTENTIAL. you have everything. so do not despair. but you must start the process of revision now. you are young, you don't want to waste it being miserable right?

 

[KarmaSutra]

"If you release the burden and concentrate on keeping yourself as mentally and physically sharp as possible women will notice you and pick up on it."

... and... fall into your lap? "focus on self improvement and the woman issue will take care of itself" isn't that what you're saying? isn't that the thrust of your reply?

Nothing worth having falls into your lap. If it's easily acquired it's not respected or cherished.

i'm saying that acquisition of women is its own separate, distinct and discrete endeavor, tangentially related at points to self improvement but not entirely addressed by it.

This is true, sort of. True, absolute men do not acquire women or need to show off thier "bling bling". Those AFC c0cksuckers who do end up with trash I've passed over. Self improvement and maturity should be every man's goal.

p.s. no reason we shouldn't keep this civil. we can disagree without being abusive. so leave me to my own goddamn sigs thank you very much.

If you desperately crave attention through your sigs at the very least make them grammatically correct. There, now we're civil :moon:

 

[Delta]

ok jackoff, i tried.

gloves are off. you want hostilities, you got it.

elucidate me fvckface, what's not grammatical?

delta

 

[KarmaSutra]

ok jackoff, i tried.

gloves are off. you want hostilities, you got it.

elucidate me fvckface, what's not grammatical?

delta

Here you go:

"i'm not normally a praying man, but if you're up there, please save me superman!"

Every sentence begins with a capital letter. Assbag.

"women are the enemy - why do you think we fvck them?!"

Again, capital letter. Question mark and exclamation point together?

I like the aggression. It makes my point succinctly.

 

[blinkwatt]

Hey escobar check your PMs(top right of page)

 

[Tomatoes]

"The biggest lie you can ever tell yourself is 'When I get what I want, I will be happy'"

Such wise words....and so so true!


I currently too feel "disalusioned". I want to go around the world.

Dont want to go yet as I cant really afford the whole trip yet and I also want to leave the UK on a high note.

Im not moaning about trying hard and not getting anywhere....As thats not the case. But I am finding myself doing the same thing everyday day in day out....Its abit dull..

 

[KarmaSutra]

"The biggest lie you can ever tell yourself is 'When I get what I want, I will be happy'"

Such wise words....and so so true!

Brother ketchup has chosen a great quote. Good call brother