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Megan Goode called 50cent a "nice guy"

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So I mentioned that what a "nice guy" is to a female can be quite different than what it means in the manosphere.

Megan Goode called 50cent a "nice guy". I've heard of females calling "thug" and "bad boy" types a "nice guy" if he is nice to her. Sometimes the guys do a little simping to make her feel good, and the lady calls the guy as "nice guy".
 

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50 cent isn't the same person he was two decades ago, in a way it's like the Ice Cube effect. You either die a gangsta or live long enough to see yourself in family movies.

50 cent also hasn't made good music in years, his got the same style but his modern tracks lack any sort of soul.
 

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I've heard of females calling "thug" and "bad boy" types a "nice guy" if he is nice to her. Sometimes the guys do a little simping to make her feel good, and the lady calls the guy as "nice guy".
Most if not all of these “thugs” and “bad boys” are made up personas. I have little doubt that 50 cent is a simp in real life.
 

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One of the funniest headlines I saw was when he supported trump and said “I’m 50 cent. I don’t want to be 20 cent!”
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What’s even funnier is that he was later shamed by his feminist ex, Chelsea Handler, into reversing himself and denouncing Trump.

50 cent is a pvssy whipped fool. I can see why women would call him a “nice guy”.
 

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Most if not all of these “thugs” and “bad boys” are made up personas. I have little doubt that 50 cent is a simp in real life.
By design most men are. There are levels to simping. Every simp isn't a doormat.
 

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I know this may really blow a lot of people's minds.......

But you can actually be a "nice guy" but also have solid oak boundaries on how you expect people to act and treat you.

I open doors for dates. If I invite, I pay. I say "Thank You" and I treat restaurant help like gold.

But if a chick disrespects me or blatantly disrespects my time, she is dust in the wind and she will never hear from me again. Silence and distance.

It is perfectly fine to be "nice" to people who appreciate it. Its also perfectly fine to be a dic to people who deserve it.

I treat people the way that I want to be treated until they show me differently. Then I treat them accordingly. Most deserve to never hear from me again when I get to that point (at least not without a sincere apology and a change of how they behave going forward).
 

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One time I went to a 50 Cent "concert"... It was actually more like a "bottle signing" thing where he did a couple songs... This was right when his supposed bankruptcy was first happening.... His gf was ugly and fat. I would give her a 1/10.
 

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I know this may really blow a lot of people's minds.......

But you can actually be a "nice guy" but also have solid oak boundaries on how you expect people to act and treat you.

I open doors for dates. If I invite, I pay. I say "Thank You" and I treat restaurant help like gold.

But if a chick disrespects me or blatantly disrespects my time, she is dust in the wind and she will never hear from me again. Silence and distance.

It is perfectly fine to be "nice" to people who appreciate it. Its also perfectly fine to be a dic to people who deserve it.

I treat people the way that I want to be treated until they show me differently. Then I treat them accordingly. Most deserve to never hear from me again when I get to that point (at least not without a sincere apology and a change of how they behave going forward).
its the fool me once, fool me twice principle.

I totally agree. Everyone gets “nice” from me until they advise me to do differently.

once this happens, there is never any going back.

the only time there is going back is when I’ve been a d1ck. Some people I have treated badly in my life, and if I’m honest, they have good reason to dislike me.
 

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I know this may really blow a lot of people's minds.......

But you can actually be a "nice guy" but also have solid oak boundaries on how you expect people to act and treat you.

I open doors for dates. If I invite, I pay. I say "Thank You" and I treat restaurant help like gold.

But if a chick disrespects me or blatantly disrespects my time, she is dust in the wind and she will never hear from me again. Silence and distance.

It is perfectly fine to be "nice" to people who appreciate it. Its also perfectly fine to be a dic to people who deserve it.

I treat people the way that I want to be treated until they show me differently. Then I treat them accordingly. Most deserve to never hear from me again when I get to that point (at least not without a sincere apology and a change of how they behave going forward).
I agree, though I think that being nice and being a "nice guy"are two different things. A "nice guy" is a grovelling, supplicating fool who thinks that being nice will help him get women who otherwise have zero interest in him.
 

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Thus "nice guy" out if women mouth has nothing to do with manosphere "nice guy". I'm confident all of those women who called him nice would fvck him or have fvcked him.
I wouldn’t care if Chelsea Handler said that about me though. She’s nasty.
 

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I wouldn’t care if Chelsea Handler said that about me though. She’s nasty.
"nice guy" from the women side does not mean they won't fvck you. Many times it means they would fvck you. The only ones who use it in a derogatory fashion are real "ugly" bitches who play alot of power games. On actual beautiful babes a "nice guy" or a "great guy" is someone who makes her feel good who she wants to be with. Megan Goode dated 50cents and was giving up the goods, yet in her view he is a "nice guy" or a "great guy" because life with him was great. She appreciated that sh1t. "nice guy" is derided in the manosphere, it's like the preaching is for completely non feeling men who treat women as disposible commodities. "nice guy" is fine and dandy as long as you ensure others behave in kind. If people aren't grateful or trying to get over, cut them hos off!
 

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When women use the term “nice guy”, in their brains it’s for long term family thinking and transactional. ”Be nice to me and provide, I will reward you with sex.“

But I doubt women “dream” about these guys. Just like they don’t dream about ”provider family men” or men who are good with money.

Women only dream about the 6’2 in shape well dressed alpha males. Just like men only dream about hot women.
 

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what a "nice guy" is to a female can be quite different than what it means in the manosphere.
I've thought this from the beginning. If "nice guy" meant what the manosphere said, she would be meaning that 50 cent is unattractive. I've heard plenty of women call men that they were obviously highly attracted to "nice guys". It's the PUA guys who are so flipped out about it. I've read numerous posts from guys here who got all butt hurt because some girl called them "nice". And they're all "No, I'm a bad man, you don't understand" lol.
 

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There is only 1 thing worse then being i the "nice guy" zone. The one we avoid.
Thats a pedophile. From Heartiste on Game and i believe it true. There is the right kind of azzhole game

"the sexynlurvly hot babes is what you want, then you are far better off being deemed the opposite by the fairer sex. douchey>>> nice guy ******* >>> sweet jerk >>> cute bastard >>> good man pig >>> gentleman insane >>> dependable jerk > sexy > hot > cute > sweet > creep > nice guy creeper > creep > stalker > loser > nice guy serial killer
>>>>>>>>>>> nice guy mass murderer >>>>>>>>>>>>>> nice guy psychopathic hedge fund white collar criminal >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> (*phew*) >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> nice guy nice guy >pedophile (finally!)
Funny enough just read that page the other day.

As others said, its not necessarily a bad thing, heard plenty of women call men irl nice guys, who are far from 'nice guys' in general. Sometimes it can be a polite way of saying its someone you find hot, attractive but can't say that at that moment for various reasons - too crude, not socially acceptable,doesn't shine tge woman in best light etc or subtle ioi. Like said before, actions over words.

Depends how it's said, context etc.not necessarily the negative its made out to be in the 'manosphere'.
 

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As others said, its not necessarily a bad thing, heard plenty of women call men irl nice guys, who are far from 'nice guys' in general. Sometimes it can be a polite way of saying its someone you find hot, attractive but can't say that at that moment for various reasons
I think that in certain situations, a woman saying "nice guy" can mean "I like the way he interacts with me" or "he was cute and flirted with me" or "he was cute and he did something for me". I'd say the main thing to remember is that girls don't overthink the term like PUAs do. It just means "he was nice to me that one time" or whatever. If they think it, they'll say it.

Whereas a guy who has read too much pickup material would take it as a rejection, and an insult.
 
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