Desdinova
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I'm just thinking back to some of the Christmases that I've had with women, especially the ones within the last five years. I think you can really measure how great your connection is with your GF by what you can think of what they'd like for gifts.
There was one Christmas I had a few years back. I was only with the girl for 3 months by the time Christmas rolled around, but I had absolutely no problem choosing gifts for her, and she enjoyed every one of them. This was a chick I was able to really connect well with on the first date.
My current GF whom I've been with for 6 months... well.... Ummm... Booze? Maybe??? Not that she's an alcoholic, but it's the best default gift you can get. It's also the gift that says "I have no fvcking clue what you like, so here's some alcohol to help you forget about how shallow our connection is"
The thing that I've noticed is the chicks who seem to have the fewest things in common with me always fall the hardest for me. She treats me good, but if I were to choose an activity we enjoy doing together, the only thing I could come up with is sex.
This is one of those situations where you think to yourself, "I could really use a chick whom I have more fun with and have a better connection with, but I don't wanna go through the bull5hit of dealing with low-grade chicks again." This is one of those chicks I'll probably hold onto until something better comes along. Usually when that better chick comes along, my gut will scream at me to ditch my current one. The gut is always right.
Anyway, I'm rambling. Anybody else notice that they can measure their compatibility with their woman by how easily (or difficult) they can come up with gift ideas?
There was one Christmas I had a few years back. I was only with the girl for 3 months by the time Christmas rolled around, but I had absolutely no problem choosing gifts for her, and she enjoyed every one of them. This was a chick I was able to really connect well with on the first date.
My current GF whom I've been with for 6 months... well.... Ummm... Booze? Maybe??? Not that she's an alcoholic, but it's the best default gift you can get. It's also the gift that says "I have no fvcking clue what you like, so here's some alcohol to help you forget about how shallow our connection is"
The thing that I've noticed is the chicks who seem to have the fewest things in common with me always fall the hardest for me. She treats me good, but if I were to choose an activity we enjoy doing together, the only thing I could come up with is sex.
This is one of those situations where you think to yourself, "I could really use a chick whom I have more fun with and have a better connection with, but I don't wanna go through the bull5hit of dealing with low-grade chicks again." This is one of those chicks I'll probably hold onto until something better comes along. Usually when that better chick comes along, my gut will scream at me to ditch my current one. The gut is always right.
Anyway, I'm rambling. Anybody else notice that they can measure their compatibility with their woman by how easily (or difficult) they can come up with gift ideas?
