Meaning of "We had a falling out"

[Solomon]

You are hopeless. Srs. You are the biggest afc on this entire site and yet somehow you have a rep here as a soothesayer. In reality you are a guy with low self esteem and some deep rooted psychological issues. I am not saying you are a bad guy, underneath it all I think you are probably an ok guy. But man you have some issues. It's like you live in two different worlds. The world where you give other people decent advice, and then the world in which you actually live, your own. Where you act like a 15 year old kid in love for the first time.

Cord is right BN, you got money, clothes, status but it's not enough, your ego needs validation from low quality women. I know you don't like me and think I'm a feminist but once you realize that I don't hate you and mean well like Cord. you will see it's the truth. It's months later and your still infatuated with her why? was the sex that good?

You got another girl right? so why not move on? who cares what happened? you should what "we had a falling out" means. it means she is full of shyt and you move on

stop being a sugar daddy brah

@ Cord, hey brah, how you been? you still dating the Asian? I see you man, I gotta step my game up!

 

[betheman]

wish I could bang a hot stripper and not pay for it

 

[bigneil]

wish I could bang a hot stripper and not pay for it

For all the forum members who think they are the man - let's see them get a stripper to come over their house and sleep over and not charge them any money. That's not being a Sugar Daddy. That's being a master.

20 year old babes are never low quality. They are the most powerful women in the world.

 

[AlexDP]

Told you guys he wasn't over the stripper.

 

[bigneil]

Was the sex that good?

I wasn't with her for the sex. When I met her I was in a relationship and had just slept with another girl that week.

She was the ultra-rare, unjaded, stripper sweetheart. Only 19 when we met. Prettiest eyes I ever saw. I loved being next to her and seeing her smile. She radiated a positive energy. She clearly hadn't had to do too many things she didn't want to in life.

Also, I believe that people vibrate at a certain frequency, and that we harmonize with other people at some times. There was a time when she and I harmonized. Ordinary things like looking in her eyes, holding her hand or kissing her felt somehow remarkable, and we both knew it. Everyone in the room knew it. I never dated a girl I met at a strip club before, nor will I ever attempt to again. I also don't recommend it. The novelty wears off, but this just happened and I can't deny I would love to see her again.

 

[MasterFuu]

big, I know that nobody get's to choose who you fall in love with. Sometimes you are at the right place at the right time and just connect with another person weather it's a stripper or a lawyer. Do you still love her and do you want her back?

I think I have a great idea for you whatever happens with the ex. Start your own strip club I really mean it.

 

[HalfAddict]

Whats with the hate of the suspenders... they are way cool.

 

[SoSuave666]

Dawg, I know you think you are the sh!t. And that's great. Good for your confidence. But your ego is getting the best of you.

I have had about 5 strippers in my whole life. I paid for 2 of them. With 3 I did my due diligence, paid for lap dances, and eventually got free sex from them. It is so common you don't even realize. I can't understand how you can't see this. Not only are you going after the lowest of the low, but you are pining over this fvcking prostitute. It's on par with trollish behavior. If you don't realize that strippers have fvcked up minds and give sex out for free hoping to make you a sugar daddy, then that's just fvcking sad.

You have money, looks apparently, and status. Why is someone of such high value going after the bottom of the barrel girl? You prove the point of so much of this site. The pvssy owns you. Yea sure you can get it from other girls, but ONE in particular has you so fvcked up because she doesn't want you. Grow up dude. Im 25 and I feel like I'm light years ahead of your a$$.

I'm not saying don't care about people or whatever. Personally, It's not my schtick. However I understand the sentiment that comes along with having secks with a beautiful girl who can make you feel like the world revolves around you. You have to realize that it's her job. It's what makes her money.

You should go out to clubs, bars, dance classes, other places to meet QUALITY women. It's the truth dude, whether you believe it or not. A stripper is not a quality woman.

Grow up.

 

[bigneil]

SoSuave666, what woman doesn't give out sex for free without some ulterior motive? Ever hear of a wife?

Just to recap your logic:

1) If a stripper has sex with you for free, it's only because she wanted something later on.
2) If she doesn't have sex with you for free, it's because the doesn't want you, and you are a loser to want her.

It just happens to be negative on both sides.

Most guys are here saying their girl has something wrong with them for not liking them, like BPD, or she's a cheater. But with the stripper, everyone insists there is something wrong with her even though I say there really wasn't. I took the fall and blamed myself, and improved myself. You can't generalize that much.

Look at the 3 vile women on the Supreme Court - you think they are quality women?? Kagan? Sotomayer? Ginsburg?

 

[cordoncordon]

Dawg, I know you think you are the sh!t. And that's great. Good for your confidence. But your ego is getting the best of you.

I have had about 5 strippers in my whole life. I paid for 2 of them. With 3 I did my due diligence, paid for lap dances, and eventually got free sex from them. It is so common you don't even realize. I can't understand how you can't see this. Not only are you going after the lowest of the low, but you are pining over this fvcking prostitute. It's on par with trollish behavior. If you don't realize that strippers have fvcked up minds and give sex out for free hoping to make you a sugar daddy, then that's just fvcking sad.

You have money, looks apparently, and status. Why is someone of such high value going after the bottom of the barrel girl? You prove the point of so much of this site. The pvssy owns you. Yea sure you can get it from other girls, but ONE in particular has you so fvcked up because she doesn't want you. Grow up dude. Im 25 and I feel like I'm light years ahead of your a$$.

I'm not saying don't care about people or whatever. Personally, It's not my schtick. However I understand the sentiment that comes along with having secks with a beautiful girl who can make you feel like the world revolves around you. You have to realize that it's her job. It's what makes her money.

You should go out to clubs, bars, dance classes, other places to meet QUALITY women. It's the truth dude, whether you believe it or not. A stripper is not a quality woman.

Grow up.

Big neil this is no knock against you personally, please do not take it this way, but this has to be said. I am continually amazed at the people on this site that somehow have gotten this impression that bigneil is some sort of all knowing, great looking, super stud. I just do not get it. Is it because he says he is? Lets look at the facts. He is in love, make that obsessed, with a very average looking stripper who at one point (don't know about now)-had a drug issue according to neil. Does that sound like a good looking man with his act together to you?

I have seen pics of both neil and the stripper in question. Believe me when I say this. The stripper is at best a 6-6.5, I give her a 5, and that is when she is 19, at her prime. She had that druggie, stripper look to her and while I may bang her, no way would I date her. Big neil? He looks a lot like this guy below....though he does say he has lost some weight. But he is, I don't know....a 5-6? Not bad looking, but a 42 year old average looking guy.

http://imageshack.us/photo/my-images/39/neil11.jpg/

What I am trying to say is this perception that big neil is some sort of great looking stud that dates all kinds of hotties and who has his act together with women is just wrong. Which explains why he is in love with a stripper.

 

[bigneil]

No, the most amazing thing is that I actually have haters here (who usually have a lower rating than me).

CordonCordon is out to prove to other members that they should take his advice instead.

He's also not someone you can trust. I sent him a PRIVATE email message with a photo of the stripper and I, way back in February, and he has on at least 10 occasions tried to somehow spill the beans on the truth based on his perception of TWO PHOTOS taken in February. The other people I sent it to never mentioned it. He actually published the photo of her and the moderator took it down. He doesn't care if someone recognizes her and beats her up, he's out to prove himself to anonymous, lonely men.

He even said "I know you don't have a tan" in the Summer, based on a photo from winter (taken on a hungover Sunday morning at 1PM).

People, look at the recent "Rate my girl" polls. Some people say a girl is a 9, others say a 2. Now, how much weight does one person like CordonCordon have when he rates the stripper and I? I rated the stripper a 9. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Why wouldn't I just get a hotter stripper if she's only a 6? Do you really think a girl can make it as a stripper if she's only a 6?

My photos and the stripper consistently got in the 8.6 range on Hot or Not. Many hot women said she and I "matched" physically - same hair and eye color and skin type.

I take what strippers say with a grain of salt, but when one says I'm handsome and my gf the barmaid glares at me and says "See? They all say that." I take it as a compliment. I don't need to be any prettier - looks have a diminishing return for men. Looks are not my problem.

He shows a picture of an italian guy with brown eyes and gray hair? I have crystal blue eyes, no grays, and I'm 15% body fat at 6'5" 215. People say I look like Nicholas Cage or Judge Reinhold. Or a quarterback (I've heard Jim Kelly, Drew Bledsoe and Dan Marino).

And as the saying goes: Always look at what a woman does, never what CordonCordon says.

 

[cordoncordon]

No, the most amazing thing is that I actually have haters here (who usually have a lower rating than me).

CordonCordon is out to prove to other members that they should take his advice instead.

He's also not someone you can trust. I sent him a PRIVATE email message and he has on at least 10 occasions tried to somehow spill the beans on the truth based on his perception of TWO PHOTOS taken in February.

He even said "I know you don't have a tan"!

People, look at the recent "Rate my girl" polls. Some people say a girl is a 9, others say a 2. Now, how much weight does one person like CordonCordon have? I rated the stripper a 9. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Why wouldn't I just get a hotter stripper if she's only a 6?

My photos and the stripper consistently got in the 8.6 range on Hot or Not.

And as the saying goes: Always look at what a woman does, never what CordonCordon says.

Big neil that isn't true. I barely even post here anymore and frankly could give a damn who listens to me or not. In fact I'll say it not, anyone who takes strangers advice off the internet has issues, so DON'T listen to me.

I have actually grown to sort of like you in a way. I don't think you are a bad guy at all and you give solid advice to others. But you have some real deep seated issues you need to work on, mainly stemming from insecurities, and these issues are part of what causes you to act the way you do with this girl.

I wish you the best in finding peace with it.

 

[cordoncordon]

No, the most amazing thing is that I actually have haters here (who usually have a lower rating than me).

CordonCordon is out to prove to other members that they should take his advice instead.

He's also not someone you can trust. I sent him a PRIVATE email message with a photo of the stripper and I, way back in February, and he has on at least 10 occasions tried to somehow spill the beans on the truth based on his perception of TWO PHOTOS taken in February. The other people I sent it to never mentioned it. He actually published the photo of her and the moderator took it down. He doesn't care if someone recognizes her and beats her up, he's out to prove himself to anonymous, lonely men.

He even said "I know you don't have a tan" in the Summer, based on a photo from winter (taken on a hungover Sunday morning at 1PM).

People, look at the recent "Rate my girl" polls. Some people say a girl is a 9, others say a 2. Now, how much weight does one person like CordonCordon have when he rates the stripper and I? I rated the stripper a 9. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Why wouldn't I just get a hotter stripper if she's only a 6?

My photos and the stripper consistently got in the 8.6 range on Hot or Not.

I take what strippers say with a grain of salt, but when one says I'm handsome and my gf the barmaid glares at me and says "See? They all say that." I take it as a compliment. I don't need to be any prettier - looks have a diminishing return for men. Looks are not my problem.

And as the saying goes: Always look at what a woman does, never what CordonCordon says.

The only reason I am even commenting on this, or that I have commented on your looks or the strippers, is because you keep talking about her! Plus it is to try and show people that right now, you are not in anyway someone who should be giving advice to others, who may need solid help, when you are so obviously fawked up psychologically over this girl. Not saying your advice to others isn't good at times, but people need to understand where this is all coming from.

 

[SoSuave666]

Look at the 3 vile women on the Supreme Court - you think they are quality women?? Kagan? Sotomayer? Ginsburg?

You don't need to name them. Even if I didn't already know who they were, I have google just like you do.

Point is BN, you throw yourself around as some dude who has chicks all over him. You get on my case for giving you solid advice on a chick. A stripper no less. And you DON'T take the advice. What I've told you to do is the right thing to do. Whether you want to take it now, or 5 years down the road is up to you. Your healing and progression depends on your own willingness to get better. Not mine.

And my logic is nothing close to what you have summarized into two short points. My logic is as such:

1.) A stripper has secks with someone she thinks she can get money out of...whether it be at the club or for a $400 dinner at Morton's.

There is no number 2. You have fallen trap to someone that is playing you. I'm sorry you can't see it, and I'm sorry you don't feel the need to self improve. Get a fvcking grip.

She's a stripper bro. She takes her clothes off for money. She gives people dances for a fee. She grinds on c0ck for less than you pay for a hamburger at burger king. She tells people they are hot all the time. She sleeps with men in the hopes that they will give her a return in the future. What she is doing isn't bad business. It's good practice. The problem is that you are the fvcked up customer who can't see past her salesmanship.

Last time I'm going to respond: grow the fvck up.

 

[bigneil]

The bottom line is, I achieved what I set out to achieve (bringing the girl I thought was the most beautiful woman I knew home and making her have an orgasm in my bed), and it went further than I expected (she got romantic) and sadly ended sooner than I hoped.

 

[bigneil]

At the prime moment of our relationship I asked her "Are you happy with your life?" and she said "I have never been so happy and I am the luckiest woman on Earth".

Does that sound like a Jaded woman?

Most professions make women more masculine to compete. Stripping is one of the few professions that encourage femininity.

To say they all must be pre-jaded is false. Will she become jaded? Sadly, probably, eventually... but all women do around age 21.

 

[bigneil]

My HPD psycho used to say the same thing...look at actions not words.

Only 4% of people have HPD. And her actions were that she and I were intimate 100% of the times I saw her in my life.

The odds of both of our women having HPD? 1 in 625.

Consider one of the following two is true:

A) She is lying about how happy she is and convincingly pretending to be happy for half a year.
B) She is actually happy.

Why assume the diabolical? And why have so many people harped on the fact that she shows her pasty-covered boobs until 2AM? She's one shade below a waitress at Chili's. In my relationship, what were the bad consequences of her stripping? It was a non-factor.

The fact that she was 20 while I'm almost 42 was probably more of a factor.