Me: "Have a boyfriend?" Her: "Yes but its going to end soon"

[Sofomore]

What do you do in this situation?

Background:
Met a cute neighbor last night at a party. She is really into me, gave me tons of IOIs....laughing at all my jokes, responding well to my kino.

I am having a great time, and I hear her mention her boyfriend (he was standing near by). Guy looks like a legit hobo. Dirty sideburns, overweight. Clearly let himself go during the course of the relationship.

I get her alone and ask "Do you have a boyfriend?"

She responds with: "Yes but its going to end soon"

She smiles and looks me up and down. Now I just got out of a 2 year relationship so my game is pretty whack, but I have some natural charm from before.

I tell her: "Lets go outside and chat"

She follows me and we start talking about random things. I could tell this girl was FEELIN me, like down to **** right there at her house. Only thing holding her back was her boyfriend.

So here is where I feel like I ****ed up. I should have played it cool and increased the sexual tension but instead I said "Come over here"

I motioned her to come close, but she held back, clearly thinking about how shes still in a relationship.

Fast forward to the end of the night I tell her I'm leaving and she says "I'll walk you out"



I tell her to give me her number and I give her a peck on the cheek. Kind of kicking myself for how I played it out...but for not gaming girls for 2 years I think I did alright.

What would you guys have done differently? I am trying to learn from my mistakes as fast as possible.

 

[perseverance]

You did fine, I can't see any mistakes in what you did.

I get her alone and ask "Do you have a boyfriend?"

She responds with: "Yes but its going to end soon"

When she said this to me I would have responded with something along the lines of "That's interesting to know, call me when you're single" and I would have walked off and mingled with somebody else.

Many girls like to talk, talk, talk and not walk, walk, walk. I am not going to be a woman's starter or dessert, I want to be centre stage, I want to be the main course and if she isn't down with that, then I don't play ball.

 

[Szyzzlin]

Probably better played than 99% of the people on this forum. :yes:

For future reference... don't ask any girl if they have a boyfriend. Just assume they don't and escalate things naturally. If a girl is attracted to you she will sleep with you whether she has a boyfriend or not.

How was your kino game? If it was non-existent... then you probably wanna step it up a notch. its very important. At the end of the night... you won't remember what you were talking about, but you will remember how intimate the touching was.

 

[Mike32ct]

I'm with perserverance on this one.

If I had a nickel for every guy trying to F a taken girl...:nono:

I'll copy and paste the same advice I gave in another thread....

"But keep in mind that the "We can F because I'm about to break up with my man anyway" is the oldest trick (ie lie) in the book. They use this to justify cheating, but rarely if ever break up with their man.

Also don't believe a woman who says she will break up with her man to be with you. They rarely if ever do. You are better off believing a politician's campaign promise lol."

Notwithstanding the above, if you really do want to F her, from a purely game perspective, I think you did alright. I mean other than number close her, what could you possibly do with him there?

 

[Trump]

When she said this to me I would have responded with something along the lines of "That's interesting to know, call me when you're single" and I would have walked off and mingled with somebody else.

Many girls like to talk, talk, talk and not walk, walk, walk. I am not going to be a woman's starter or dessert, I want to be centre stage, I want to be the main course and if she isn't down with that, then I don't play ball.

Agreed.

Even if a girl is having problems with her bf, she won't give up everything with him just because a new guy shows interest in her at a party. She knows she can use the new guy to feed her ego and feel better about herself, not to mention she can use it against her bf in the future.

 

[rainmandc]

I had similar situation couple weeks ago. Girl was really hitting on me, she had boyfriend for 18 months and she said they are not really good. We gone out twice, she was all around me, really interested. I didn't want to participate in any of that since I know that girls who cheat their boyfriends or look for replacement will look for one when with you too. Haven't heard from her for a week, last time it seemed like they were good again so I think I made a right move. If you can **** her, its up to you and your morals, if you want anything else I suggest you to run like hell :nono:

 

[Aaron B]

"If you were single there's a chance I would invite you on a date"