me and the stripper

[jeanpierresylla]

I used to go strip clubs a lot a few years ago.
I am really not very much into them anymore because I now think it's a big waste of money, but yesterday, for some reason, I just wanted to go to one. I decided to go a club with really gorgeous women. The owner really does a good job at selecting the girls.
Anyway, I went, paid and got in, went to the bar and got a beer, I sat in a somewhat discret spot but where almost all the girls pass by. Many girls walked by me without asking me if I wanted a dance, which I thought was kind of weird because it was not a busy night. I sat there for about 45 minutes without getting a dance and without giving any money to the girls that danced on the stage. Basically I was just chilling, when this gorgeous blonde came and made eye contact and smiled, I smiled back, she said " you're next" I said "ok"
She sat next to me and we started chatting, I was acting like I was really not into her. You can actually tell by my name that I am not american, so I do have an accent, and no I AM NOT FRENCH, I just come from a french speaking country.
Before she started dancing, she was trying to figure out where I was from, she said three different countries and I told her she was wrong without telling her where I was from.
The DJ started playing a new song, so she got up and started dancing. I was still kind of acting like I was really not into it, as the song was going, she took everythin off, and sat on my lap. I have been to that club before and I know for a fact that girls in that club dont sit on the customer's lap when they dance, they just kind of get really close to doing it but never really sit completely. I thought that was interesting. She sat on my lap three times for and average of ten seconds each time.
And the song was over. When the new song started, she kept dancing and told me that the dance was on her. I tought that things were getting even more interesting. She danced a second time and kept sitting on my lap a lot.
After the song was over I gave her $15 even though I was only required to give her 10. I asked her to sit and talk for a while, she did. When I finally told her where I was from she figured that I spoke french, so she started answering everything I asked her in french. I told her I would help her practise her french and she was really excited about it.
At one point I decided to go for the number, so I said " what would you say if I told you that I would love to see outside of this club some time?" she hesitated a bit and said "bien sur" meaning of course. I said " so would you give me your number then?" She did not say anything, she got up , picked up a pen and came back and was trying to find something to write her number on. I gave her my cell phone, she put her number, first, middle and last name and saved it herself. Well I was impressed.
We chatted for a while after that and I discovered that :rock: she is 8 years older than me but she is still hotter than most teenagers. She has two kids and does some real estate. I told her that I had a really good book that she could use to better her french and she was really happy about it.
The girl has to make some money, so she excused herself and walked to some other table where she started talking to a girl she had given a lap to earlier.
I didnt want things to be weird when she would walk by me again, so I decided to call it a night.
Any thoughts or advice?

 

[Rata Blanca]

We chatted for a while after that and I discovered that :rock: she is 8 years older than me but she is still hotter than most teenagers. She has two kids and does some real estate. I told her that I had a really good book that she could use to better her french and she was really happy about it.

Any thoughts or advice?

She can't be a stripper forever, she needs a provider.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Dude your delusional. You think because a stripper sat on your lap and danced around for a minute that it some how equals her wanting you??? LOL She's a fuvking stripper for crying out loud!!! That's her job!!! She's suppose to make you feel special or spew bullshyt through your ass-hole to make you open up your wallet. Banging strippers isn't hard if you have some game, you must have left yours at home.

There was a really good post on here a few years back by a guy who use to work in a strip club. I remember he mentioned that 90% of the time when customers asked a stripper for their number they got it. When they called to try and get together with the stripper outside the club, the stripper would usually tell the guy to come in first or meet at the club. When the guy shows up, the stripper is usually working already or convinces the guy to go in first, then they'll go out. Of course the second part never happens.

You treated this girl like she's LTR potential, when she's nothing but a cute face with a stretched out pu$$y. Your going to get played, I'd bet my paycheck on it.

If you want to bang strippers, your best bet is to meet them outside the club. If you do meet them in the club, you have to work your game good, make her want you. Most strippers are mentally fuvked, validation seeking head-cases. So if you play your cards right, she'll want to take you home and fuvk you just so she knows you want her.

But at your current state you have zero chance of getting anything out of this except for a lighter wallet and a heavy heart.




PIMP

 

[jeanpierresylla]

there is no need for you to insult me when I am just asking for some advice.
if you cant be courteous and respectull, dont you answer my post.
who the fu** you think you are.

 

[jeanpierresylla]

By the way, STRIPPERS DONT ALWAYS GIVE OUT NUMBERS, I have tried several times before and failed

 

[Pimp-sicle]

there is no need for you to insult me when I am just asking for some advice.
if you cant be courteous and respectull, dont you answer my post.
who the fu** you think you are.

I wasn't insulting you, I was being realistic. Do you want me to lie to you, just so you can read what you want to hear, instead of what's really going on? If anything I was trying to save you the wasted time and energy (which I now realize that you will spend anyway) that you are going to put in to this broad.

If you sugar-coat sh*t it still stinks.




PIMP

 

[vorbis]

don't mind all the haters. A friend of mine got a number off a stripper once. She came back over to him after she'd finished working and chatted to him for a while. He ended up going out with her and banging her. Ended on some petty argument after a month but that can happen in any relationship. Give her a call and set up a date outside the strip club. The worst that can happen is she says no.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

By the way, STRIPPERS DONT ALWAYS GIVE OUT NUMBERS, I have tried several times before and failed

I never said they ALWAYS give out their number. But more times than not if your a suxer or if they think you have a lot of money they will give you their number. Like I said in my initial post, if you want to bang strippers either work your game hard from the minute you get there, or meet them outside of their work environment.

And if you've tried SEVERAL TIMES to get various strippers numbers, that says a lot about your self-esteem and the lack of women in your life. Why don't you get out in the real world and meet girls??

Again I'm not trying to insult you but if you take it that way, then that's your deal not mine.




PIMP

 

[jeanpierresylla]

There is just too much negativity on this site sometimes. A stripper is still a human being after all. They will see people they like and people they dont. For you pimp-sicle to talk like you can read through everybody based on what they do and what they look like is really pittyful. You cannot know everything about every woman on earth just because you sit here for long hours my friend. Unless a specific person has proved to you that they are a certain way, judgind them is really bad.
I really feel sorry for you.

 

[jeanpierresylla]

If you were paying attention and not trying to say something bad, you would have given a more objective answer. I said I used to go to strip clubs a lot in the past, and I stopped going because I figured it was a waste of money and time. I have not visited a strip club in over 2 years. Yesterday I just felt like doing it and I did it. You cant warn me about spending too much money because I already said in the first part of the post that I know that they are a waste of money.
Can you think objectively and not try to give answers that you think will fit all the posts you have read here?
Just pay attention buddy.
There is no absolute truth

 

[Pimp-sicle]

There is just too much negativity on this site sometimes. A stripper is still a human being after all. They will see people they like and people they dont. For you pimp-sicle to talk like you can read through everybody based on what they do and what they look like is really pittyful. You cannot know everything about every woman on earth just because you sit here for long hours my friend. Unless a specific person has proved to you that they are a certain way, judgind them is really bad.
I really feel sorry for you.

Again your putting words in my mouth. When did I say I could read through everyone??? I sit here for long hours??? LOL I've got a little over a 1000 posts in over 3 years. Do the math, less than a post a day.


I agree that there is a lot of negativity on this site from guys that don't have any real world experience with women. However, there are tons of guys on here who give constructive criticism because they've been in these situations before. That's what I was trying to do. If I hadn't hooked up with a stripper before, I wouldn't have answered your post.

If you want to get all butt-hurt and mad then that's your choice.

If you had said you just want to bang her, then it would be different. But you can already smell that your trying to take this chick out on dates and girlfriend her.

Thanks for feeling sorry for me, I appreciate the concern. Please report back here when you fuvk this chick, I'll be holding my breath.



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[Pimp-sicle]

Can you think objectively and not try to give answers that you think will fit all the posts you have read here?
Just pay attention buddy.
There is no absolute truth

If you use objectivity and logic in your encounters with women you'll always lose. Like I said, my post wasn't intended to insult you or make you mad, I was trying to give you constructive criticism. There are tons of great posts here (mostly from the past), your denying yourself a wealth of knowledge by not reading them. Do a search on strippers, there are at least 20-30 different posts about them. Including that really good one from that guy who use to work in the club.



PIMP

 

[Bible_Belt]

Unless a specific person has proved to you that they are a certain way, judging them is really bad.

She has proven that she is a stripper, which makes her worthy of very little trust. Yes, that's 'negative,' but that negativity is also good advice and well-grounded in reality. Trying to be Captian Save-a-ho with a stripper will only get you hurt. It is possible to run game on these women and get what you want from them, but they are almost all fvcked in the head in some way. To be their "man," you must behave in a way that borders on deception, verbal abuse, and manipulation. It's not an easy routine for most guys, and they often just end up with some crazy b!tch's drama. There are plenty of hot women who are not strippers; go find one of them.

 

[jeanpierresylla]

See, you guys still don't get it .
I never said I went to a strip club because I wanted to mack on strippers, I just felt like doing that yesterday. I never said I wanted to save a ho like you said. For God's sake I was there for 45 minutes without any interraction between me and any girls.
Just because a girl is a stripper does not mean she is ****ed up in the head. Just because a girl goes to a catholic school does not mean she is a saint.
Life is not an equation, life is not a science.
The same cause dont always create the same result in real life.
You guys act like just because you have read some posts here and have been in some kind of situation, the same thing awaits anybody that get in a similar situation. Some people steal their whole life and never get caught, some will get caught the first time they steal, some people smoke cigarettes their whole life and never die of lung or any kind of cancer, some will die of lung cancer after smoking for a few years, Some people get drunk after two beers, some get drunk after 20.
You only truly know the outcome of something once that outcome has happened.
Arent I just a really stupid guy if I refuse to seize any chance( whether I just wanna bang her, or have a relationship with her) just because some guy online told me to stay away from a girl because she takes her clothes off for a living.
It's sometimes better to regret doing something than to regret not doing it. I refuse to live my life through other people. If I get in touch with that girl ( which I am not sure I will) and things turn out really bad, I will know things just did not work out between her and I. Does that mean that I will refuse to seize any other chance between me and anybody else that strips? Hell no.
It's funny how on this site there are some predulated formulas for some situations. You guys say " if you want a stripper, you have to meet her outside of the club" Sure, so nobody goes to strip clubs, meets strippers and bangs them?
I refuse to live my life through my own pass experiences and I refuse to live my life through the experiences of someone sitting on a computer miles away from me. You know why, because that is the beauty of life. The same exact situation never occurs twice, that's why you have to try to get whatever you think you want from each experience whether it looks similar to a previous one or not.

 

[jeanpierresylla]

To you pimp sicle, next time you try to give constructive criticism to someone, dont start your post by " you're delusionnal"

 

[belividere]

I refuse to live my life through my own pass experiences and I refuse to live my life through the experiences of someone sitting on a computer miles away from me. You know why, because that is the beauty of life. The same exact situation never occurs twice, that's why you have to try to get whatever you think you want from each experience whether it looks similar to a previous one or not.

The beauty of this website is that reality does not get sugar coated and experience prevails. You can choose to do whatever it is that you want to, but wise men take experience from others and learn from it.

The cardinal rule to fvcking strippers is not to give them money at work. I dont go to strip clubs that often anymore but when I do half the time I leave with a number of a girl who I end up fvking. I learned this a few years back when I was serious with a girl and went out to strip clubs for guys night out. I actually had strippers tell me that they didn't want to take money from me because it changed the whole dynamic and turned me into a customer instead of a potential fvck. That taught me how to fck strippers while working and my success rate has been over 1/3 since.

NEVER give a stripper money if you want to sleep with her.

NEVER take a bull**** excuse for not meeting outside a strip club without calling her out.

NEVER get caught up in thinking that you are the only one that she has in mind...These girls get paid to flirt and makes guys think that they are special.

Picking up strippers at work isn't something to be proud of. It basically means that you can pick up an emotionally unstable headcase that sells her body for a living because she has no other skills to offer to mankind. The strippers that do have day jobs are impossible to pick up. You aren't going to fvck a stripper that has a PhD in physics despite the bullsh1t that she will tell you when trying to get into your wallet. Sorry but that is the truth. The strippers that you can actually fvck are not high quality women. They may look great but that is all that they have going for them in life.

You basically broke all the rules when it comes to having a chance. What you posted is like me saying that the girl behind the counter at walgreens sold me band-aids this afternoon. Can you believe it, like for real she actually sold me band-aids. Strippers sell their bodies, you bought her body. Simple barter of cash for service. Would have been more interesting if she actually turned down a lap dance offer.

 

[backbreaker]

the cardinal rule? lol, that's some funny ****.. you mean you are going to **** her, but you don't have enough respect to pay her for doing her job? But yeah, she is going to want to **** you.. yeah ... you are the guy they talk about being a cheapass ******* in the dressing room.

there is a fine line between being a sugar daddy afc and being respectful. I endedup dating one stripper and ****ing two others... two of wich I met outside the club at first... one became a stripper while I was dating her, the other was a stripper.. and one girl I just ended up getting with after awhile.

YOU TREAT THEM JUST LIKE ANY OTHER WOMAN.. play them against each other. Be respectful..


I'm done, this is pointless

 

[three12]

In this thread I remember why I stopped coming.

Its the first post I've read here in months.

Retarded.

Pimp-sicle, you're on the money.

This dude wants a relationship with a stripper who played him for a $5 tip.

This dude is no PUA, no don juan.

Jean....whatever....

You have a very weak inner game and very little experience.

The only way you'll ever get good is by repeatedly trying -> failing/suceeding. Don't get caught in a relationship with a stripper, or a fat chick, or a loser chick. etc.

You like the stripper because you think the stripper likes you.

Theres a great article on it in the DJ Bible KillaPeteHog made.. Something about you hearing from someone that "julie"-for example has a crush on you. So you start thinking about it. Next thing you know, you've got a crush on "julie".

Thats whats happened to you "playa".

three12.

 

[belividere]

the cardinal rule? lol, that's some funny ****.. you mean you are going to **** her, but you don't have enough respect to pay her for doing her job? But yeah, she is going to want to **** you.. yeah ... you are the guy they talk about being a cheapass ******* in the dressing room.

When you start handing over money you are the guy that they talk about as being the chump in the dressing room. It aint about respect when it comes to getting naked for sexually frustrated men for a living. I'm not saying that every stripper who I turn down immediately wants to have sex with me because I didn't slip money into her g-string, the ones who you meet at a strip club will not fvck you if you become a customer. These girls sell sex for a living. If you buy sex you look pathetic like every other guy there who is a fat paycheck. It isn't that hard to comprehend.

I'll tell you what I'll keep on going with my ways and be happy with the results that I get, you can give strippers money out of respect for them doing there jobs and take it as such. If a stripper walks to the dressing room and is so flustered that I didnt give her my money that she has to tell the rest of the girls working I consider my job half done. None of the mentally fcked strippers will walk into the dressing room and talk about the guy who just paid them will they? I'm put onto a fake headcase stripper pedestal and the other super competitive stripper skanks want to fight over who can get my hard earned money. Maybe this is why I've been successful know that you brought that up.

 

[backbreaker]

27 going on 17.. tisk tisk