Maybe I am the problem

[Pandora]

This article from Devilking2x has really opened my eyes

Potential wife past sexual history

If I had a choice to marry: 1. a woman who tells me she has little to no sexual experience 2. a woman who tells me all about her many sexual adventures I would choose #2, because my current personal experiences with women would lead me to believe that girl #1 is lying or has a low sex drive...

www.sosuave.net

I often end up in toxic relationships with hot women. This article explains it. As a man that is decent looking and open to approaching women you often end up with " crazy girls". This is selection bias. The more quality women are very tough to get even for quality men. If you want high body counts you will end up with mostly beautiful crazy chicks.

I am also realising that if you have had sex with 35+ women then you are broken on some level too. We attract what we are. Yes a male slut is functional but that does not mean that he is totally psychologically healthy.

Instead of aiming for the very few "quality" girls I decided to take the easy route. The constant rejection from the more sexually selective girls is draining. They dont reciprocate attention. If they do then its friendzone city.

Maybe I have never been high quality enough to keep the pretty unicorn. I have to accept this reality.

To be fair these unicorns are extremely rare. If you were not an Chad in your early 20s then you will be fighting for the leftovers.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Part of the problem is that there is not enough quality girls to go around.

 

[The Duke]

I don't feel a guy banging lots of girls necessarily means there is something wrong with him. If you do it for validation, addicted to the drama, etc then sure you have issues. I do think you can enjoy women and the pleasures of their bodies in a healthy manner.

Sure the majority of hot women are not exactly mentally stable. There are so many skills you don't develop when you're an attractive woman. Society gives you a free pass, and puts you on a pedestal.

Hot women that are mentally stable are extremely rare. I'm going to say its less than 7% of the female population. They are usually in relationships and when they aren't they don't stay on the market very long.

High notch count for women is not the same equivalent for men. Men develop skills and traits to attract women. The guy actually has to put in the work. All a woman has to do is drop her pants and bend over. Its why women with lots of sexual partners are wh0res, and men with lots of sexual partners are congratulated/respected. Something that comes easy is never respected.

I've learned thru the years that as I increased my SMV, I was able to date hotter girls, and also less crazy girls. A guy does need an exit plan. Its not healthy to keep banging hot-crazy chics forever.

I once asked one of my hot/crazy girlfriends about why her type often gravitated to me. She told me because they valued the stability, and comfort I brought, something like a father figure. Most of the time they were daddy's girls.

 

[KingTurbo]

Part of the problem is that there is not enough quality girls to go around.

Believe me, I work in a job that is 95% female dominated. There are plenty of quality women.....

They are all married.

 

[bat soup]

This article from Devilking2x has really opened my eyes

Potential wife past sexual history

If I had a choice to marry: 1. a woman who tells me she has little to no sexual experience 2. a woman who tells me all about her many sexual adventures I would choose #2, because my current personal experiences with women would lead me to believe that girl #1 is lying or has a low sex drive...

www.sosuave.net

I often end up in toxic relationships with hot women. This article explains it. As a man that is decent looking and open to approaching women you often end up with " crazy girls". This is selection bias. The more quality women are very tough to get even for quality men. If you want high body counts you will end up with mostly beautiful crazy chicks.

I am also realising that if you have had sex with 35+ women then you are broken on some level too. We attract what we are. Yes a male slut is functional but that does not mean that he is totally psychologically healthy.

Instead of aiming for the very few "quality" girls I decided to take the easy route. The constant rejection from the more sexually selective girls is draining. They dont reciprocate attention. If they do then its friendzone city.

Maybe I have never been high quality enough to keep the pretty unicorn. I have to accept this reality.

To be fair these unicorns are extremely rare. If you were not an Chad in your early 20s then you will be fighting for the leftovers.

Right. That's it. It's over for the Chadicorncells.