silkyjohnson
Don Juan
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Over the weekend I met a woman. She is 31, about a 7, two master degrees, good career, never married but had two very serious relationships in the past that didn't work out (one guy cheated and the other just left her), very down to earth, etc.
This was set up from online and we met for coffee. I honestly didn't give a **** when I walked in because I didn't expect much, but a 20 minute coffee turned in to 3.5 hours of honestly good conversation. During the "date" she pointed to some person she claimed to have had a run in with and put her hand on my leg so I realized she was comfortable and wanted kino but I reserved it. After the date she texted me for a while when she was out with friends. I tried to play that fairly cool but I did return her texts.
The next day we texted a bit and I asked her out for dinner and gave her some options on days. She gave me her response but then said, "but if those don't work tonight will work great." Long story short I took her out again that night (yes two nights in a row...my bad lol).
The date was phenominal. Another 3 hour convo that was ended by me being some what blunt with her. I know I screwed up but I told her I liked her and she responded in kind.
Here is the thing...during the date she confessed that she usually prefers black or latino men...I'm white and a country boy at that. She also said that her image is a 6'2 220lb black dude...I'm 5'9 (5'10 with my boots on), 170lb, white guy.
During our convo she also confessed that she talked to her grandma about the date we went on the night before and made several not so sutle hints about how I stack up. We were at dinner so no kino was going and the conversation mostly stayed fun with some probes into her past that caused her to tell me all kinds of junk.
On the way to her car (yes I walked her to the car and even gave a single stem rose at the beginning pimp **** huh?) lol. Anyway she wont quit talking so I just give her a hug and tell her to get home and on the way to pulling back she grabbed me back in and kissed me. I rolled with it and put on a good show. When I woke up this morning she already was texting me.
I am still spinning other plates, but I honestly like this girl. This is the first time I've went out with a woman in a year and not felt like they were only good for vag. I would normally do lots of kino but I respect this one so I didn't do that on the first two dates. We have something scheduled for Tuesday and I'm definitely going to up the kino significantly.
Some notes that keep going through my head:
-Why is a woman who prefers big black dudes with me?
-Why does she NEVER ask about me?
-She confessed to not having secs in 1.5 years and complains that dudes want it after only 2 dates but then she initiates the kiss...what am I missing?
-Where should I take this next? (My usual is an F close after 2 dates, but this feels more like traditional nice couple dating so I'm out of my element)
This was set up from online and we met for coffee. I honestly didn't give a **** when I walked in because I didn't expect much, but a 20 minute coffee turned in to 3.5 hours of honestly good conversation. During the "date" she pointed to some person she claimed to have had a run in with and put her hand on my leg so I realized she was comfortable and wanted kino but I reserved it. After the date she texted me for a while when she was out with friends. I tried to play that fairly cool but I did return her texts.
The next day we texted a bit and I asked her out for dinner and gave her some options on days. She gave me her response but then said, "but if those don't work tonight will work great." Long story short I took her out again that night (yes two nights in a row...my bad lol).
The date was phenominal. Another 3 hour convo that was ended by me being some what blunt with her. I know I screwed up but I told her I liked her and she responded in kind.
Here is the thing...during the date she confessed that she usually prefers black or latino men...I'm white and a country boy at that. She also said that her image is a 6'2 220lb black dude...I'm 5'9 (5'10 with my boots on), 170lb, white guy.
During our convo she also confessed that she talked to her grandma about the date we went on the night before and made several not so sutle hints about how I stack up. We were at dinner so no kino was going and the conversation mostly stayed fun with some probes into her past that caused her to tell me all kinds of junk.
On the way to her car (yes I walked her to the car and even gave a single stem rose at the beginning pimp **** huh?) lol. Anyway she wont quit talking so I just give her a hug and tell her to get home and on the way to pulling back she grabbed me back in and kissed me. I rolled with it and put on a good show. When I woke up this morning she already was texting me.
I am still spinning other plates, but I honestly like this girl. This is the first time I've went out with a woman in a year and not felt like they were only good for vag. I would normally do lots of kino but I respect this one so I didn't do that on the first two dates. We have something scheduled for Tuesday and I'm definitely going to up the kino significantly.
Some notes that keep going through my head:
-Why is a woman who prefers big black dudes with me?
-Why does she NEVER ask about me?
-She confessed to not having secs in 1.5 years and complains that dudes want it after only 2 dates but then she initiates the kiss...what am I missing?
-Where should I take this next? (My usual is an F close after 2 dates, but this feels more like traditional nice couple dating so I'm out of my element)
