MatriX Gone BAD???

[DraGon_luv]

Yesterday i went to see the matrix with the hot girl i've been
dating her for a while now ,but yesterday after i droped her off at home from the movies,( we were making out through the less exciting parts of the moive) she kised me bye and told me she would call me

She then ask am i gona be home?

i said :umm i dunno , mabey mabey not ,

she said :umm ok call me in an hour then

i said : ok sure

she then said: thanks for taking me out

at 9:30 we parted wayz

I was chilling at a friends house so i didnt realized the time that passed it was 10:47

i then called her , Aswering machine on her celly
(usally she call back within 10-25)

i was at a friends so i figured she not calling back cuz it doesnt come up as my house number

Usually i call jsut once , but i went home to change and i decided to call again while i was at home, same thing happend,
i was like wtf?

But unlike an Afc i decided to still go out with my friends to eat in chinatown, and today(the next day) she call but i didnt answer,

I dont know if she was palying games or not but, I didnt answer , just to be safe, Any Woman That trys to play games with someone who has the aid of SOSUAVE.com i pity them.

Tommorow i will be going to school i will see her then i will update this post with what happens


~Sona~

 

[Ded_Skin_Mask13]

MAAAAAN!!!!!!!!


what the hell do you have to worry about?

Its clear that she's interested in you!

You've got everything good going for you, now don't go and blow it by being all sappy and AFCish......still keep that DJ mentality at all times and you'll win at any game she plays with you.

Its all about logic and strategy really......Getting and Dating women is like a game..you have to have and know the concepts and guidelines for successfully playing the game.

You're worrying too much about your situation....stop worrying and take everything at its own pace or you'll fall!

 

[Da Game]

Several issues:

1. Don't call unless it's to set up the next date. Chatting on the phone will never help, and it can definitely hurt you... Don't do it more than you have to.

2. Don't ever call when she tells you to. It makes you seem easily controlled and submissive. If a girl says "call me in an hour" you should be saying "maybe" then not calling.

3. Never, ever, ever leave answering machine messages. People just don't return them, either because they don't check their messages or they just don't feel like it. It also gives her the option to save the message to play back to her girlfriends to make you look like a chump. It just ain't worth it.

4. Don't call more than once in a day. I kinda understand your reasoning in this case, but it's still not worth it. It makes you look desperate.

5. (most important) You're overanalyzing. Don't worry if she doesn't return your call right away... Sh!t happens, don't let it bug you.

Here's my take on the situation. She has high interest level in you (she kissed you during and after the movie and wanting to talk to you after). After she got home she probably laid around on her bed and fantasized about you, rubbed one out, then fell asleep and missed your call. That's all. I seriously doubt she's playing games.

Anyway, at school, don't mention calling her. Wait 2-3 days at least before you call her again to make another date. Have fun, sounds like you're in with this one.

 

[DraGon_luv]

Thanx for the Advice i apreciate it, i think you take me for a little to Newbish of afc'ish , i understand the ways of the bible and understand most of those thery's as i read in the dave de'angelo posts,

its jsut i wanted to keep the mystery and challenge factor ,
there is another thing you can help me with , When do we stop being a chalenge ? never? or instead of not being a challenge do we bring it down a notch? and then back up when things go bad???

 

[Da Game]

You should always be a little bit of a challenge... She should never know everything about you. If a relationship lasts a long time, that can be hard, but you can cross that bridge when you come to it.

In other words, the challenge is permanent.

I should clarify something though: challenge is more than just not telling her everything about you. You should also have enough going on in your life that you're ALWAYS a challenge and a mystery, because you have enough going on that she can't have you all the time. Challenge shouldn't be manufactured: it should be a result of your lifestyle.

 

[DraGon_luv]

I should clarify something though: challenge is more than just not telling her everything about you. You should also have enough going on in your life that you're ALWAYS a challenge and a mystery, because you have enough going on that she can't have you all the time. Challenge shouldn't be manufactured: it should be a result of your lifestyle.

~da Game~


Well Spoken

thanks bro