Married Women

[asid76]

I went to the health food store today and saw this great looking woman. Right away I noticed the wedding ring but I still went through the "routine" I use on hot girls. She was showing some interest and I made no comments on the ring until I was ready to leave at which point I said "Is that a wedding ring on your finger?" Of course she said yes, and added that she's been married for four years. I made a comment that I would probably get along with her husband. When she asked why I mentioned that he and I have the same taste in women. Then I congratulated her on being married but told her that I was a little disappointed because I thought she was "very cute". She went bright red, said thanks and I went along my way after my goodbyes.

It may sound heartless, but I care not about her husband, and the ring really means nothing to me, forgive me for being so blunt but given the chance I WOULD do her. I know this could come back on me karma-wise but I honestly don't believe I'll ever get married anyhow.

Heres the question...

Should I even bother hitting on married women? Anyone out there have any experience with them?

 

[sodbuster]

If they are looking to move on, they will take you up on it. BUT would you want her around? OK, they could just be looking for a spermdonor for their next kid.[since 10% of us don't have the father we think we do.]

 

[Jeffst1980]

I don't go for chicks with baggage, especially if that baggage happens to be an AFC husband.

Can you sleep with married chicks? Sure. Is it worth it? I never have, so perhaps it's not for me to say, but I would guess no.

You see, to you, it's just a lay, but to her and her husband, it's much more serious. To that AFC husband (who almost ALWAYS finds out), it is the most serious thing in his life, and there's a good chance he's not above resorting to violence against you. Don't expect to remain anonymous, either; if the woman is unhappy and wants out of her marriage, she'll secretly WANT to be discovered and will plan her encounters at less than opportune times. Then, when she is found out, she'll probably play the hapless victim to your wily predator, even if she was the instigator. Regardless of morality breaches, sleeping with a married chick is putting yourself in harm's way.

There are far too many single girls to have to settle for a chick that's already married. Not only that, gaming single girls is SO much easier. If that isn't reason enough, I'll also throw in the fact that they tend to look after their appearance much more than their married counterparts.

 

[edger]

I've always said this, but I'm not the guy who aids in hurting another guy, no matter how hot the woman is, or even with the knowledge of knowing that opportunities with hot women don't present themselves very often. This can do a lot of damage to someone, finding out that they were cheated on. Just think of how you felt when you were betrayed by a girl from your past, in whatever form that was. Think of the trauma it caused you. I don't aid in other people's misery. Do the right thing.

 

[STR8UP]

I've done it a few times. Fortunately most of these women were from out of state, so the repercussions were non-existent.

I don't have any more of a moral dilemma with fukking a married woman than I do a woman with a boyfriend (or without and "official" b/f for that matter...they are all various degrees of "spoken for"). Chances are when you sleep with a woman you are "hurting" someone else. Not your problem. All is fair in love and war. If YOUR wife came onto someone there is a 99% chance that if she's attractive that dude would rail her. You don't owe anyone any favors they wouldn't extend to you.

And that's the thing.....it is almost ALWAYS the married woman who is LOOKING for some action. I've never seduced anyone when I had relations with married chicks.

 

[thedeparted]

Props for the approach. It's ALWAYS a good idea to run your routine on a hot chick. Married. Single. Whatever. It's good practice.

As for an F-close, up to you. If you feel like it do it. Long ago I was more noble. I didn't fvck my friend's girl's who were hot for me. I didn't fvck their wives. Or their moms. I was a good guy. You want to know how many times those friends called me since then?

Answer: I should have fvcked their gf's/wives/moms.

P.S. Some guys will say it's risky. But sex is legal and assault isn't, and I got a .357 to keep any hubbies on the right side of the law. Actually, I sometimes think it's a lot SAFER to fvck married women b/c they are basically with one guy all the time, whereas single chicks our age are like communal *** dumpsters. Personally, I'm more scared of germs than guys.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Asid76,
As DJ's you wont need another Mans Woman,there are heaps of them out there......Marriage breakups are a nasty destructive business,particularly for young kids.......because you have been taken to the cleaners,do you want some other poor Bvastard to cop the same treatment....No.....Look it is no accident that even the most primitive societies have a No 1 Taboo,you don't mess with another Mans girl....Sure you can select a few Societies the Thibetans for one where a need to diversify gene stock led to sharing wives with travellers,but in general this is a truism.....Why?because its contravention is destructive to the tribe.