We perceive the world through our senses, which include sight, hearing, taste, smell, and touch. These senses shape how we interpret reality and form judgments about others. For example, if someone perceives you as a "loser," it is based on the impressions their senses have gathered.
Just to give you an example, we all know here how we hate men who gossip or talk badly about others behind their backs, but there are women who liked this because they automatically became valuable by discrediting others. This is a feminine behavior and the woman will automatically assume that the man is right and that they are in tune.
It really sucks but that's how it is
Marketing operates on the principle of influencing perceptions by manipulating sensory experiences. By controlling what people see, hear, smell, and feel about you, You can shape how they perceive it.
This concept can be applied to personal relationships as well.
To attract others, including potential romantic partners, the goal is to influence how they perceive you. This involves two steps:
Self-Improvement (Product): Make genuine improvements in key areas of your life.
Presentation (Marketing): Learn how to effectively showcase these improvements.
Key factors that influence perception include:
Appearance: How you look.
Social Proof: Validation from others.
Authority and Status: Your perceived influence or achievements.
Scarcity: The sense that you are unique or in demand.
Reputation: What others say about you.
The central challenge is finding a balance between authenticity (being true to yourself) and strategic presentation (enhancing how others see you). Overemphasizing one aspect might lead to short-term success but could harm long-term relationships if the other person discovers inconsistencies. Ultimately, your "marketing" approach should align with the type of relationship you want, whether short-term or long-term
This is the case for many failed LTR's (people stay togheter but they wanted to split way before the end), because the marketing was too good for the product itself.
Could you recognize this?
Also, I found out most happiest people and women, are when they find the product with a low marketing.
That is a very good match for them. There also are many women who will actually turn down some proposal by other famous men out there just because they think they would be not so good for them.
