Man, WTF is this ****?

[One on One]

Girl calls me Saturday and she's like "you should come to xxxxx club on tuesday"...I tell her I'll think about it. I call her back tonight and I want to see if I can get a ride from her, but she's all weird and she's not driving so I don't press it. Now, I face the prospect of possibly going to this club alone with no social proof...she invites me out so does she want me or what is this crap??

 

[Starman]

she probably wants to use YOU as social proof..

 

[Kodiac]

Well, rock up.. try some Kino on her, see how well and how far you can get.

If nothing, move onto another hotty in the club and try again.

 

[One on One]

Originally posted by Starman
she probably wants to use YOU as social proof..

Doubtful...she's got enough friends and girls don't really need social proof anyways. Whenever we go out, she's always squeezing my ass and grinding with me, which makes it all the more confusing.

 

[Derek Flint]

My advice is to stay home and spend the night wondering what would have happened if you went.

 

[Drex]

Dave man. You have made MANY posts about this SAME girl over the past few weeks. I think you need to next her and forget about her. You are becoming fixated on this oneitis.

 

[Captain Anonymous]

Originally posted by Derek Flint
My advice is to stay home and spend the night wondering what would have happened if you went.

Awesome post.

 

[One on One]

Originally posted by Drex
Dave man. You have made MANY posts about this SAME girl over the past few weeks. I think you need to next her and forget about her. You are becoming fixated on this oneitis.

I think you are right, Drex. I've focused on her way too much and she hasn't established any real value beyond the fun and **** factors...definitely not at LTR logistically and not one I want anyways. The problem is I have no life right now - no job, only 1 class 2 nights a week, nothing else. I need to get out and meet girls, but don't know where to go. There is that cafe girl I'd like to speak to, but I haven't seen her since.

DFlint, I know you were being sarcastic, but I am indeed not going to go. I will have future opportunities with this girl (possibly this weekend) and I'd rather place my bets on those days. I don't want to be classified by her as a loser because of one poorly planned night.

 

[chlywly]

Originally posted by Captain Anonymous
Awesome post.

lol word.

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Go if you wanna go, but not just for her.

If not, just no-show. If she calls and asked why, make some crap up (like a "friend" called over). Might raise interest if you're subtle enough.

Osc.

 

[Starman]

yea..the no show would be cool

 

[One on One]

I went with the no show. I had noone to go with so I didn't think I'd have a good time. I'll catch up with her some other time. I did not call her to let her know either. Unfortunately, she has not called asking where I am, but she still may call later tonight or tomorrow. If she doesn't, I'll call her Thursday night and tell her I'm going clubbing that night because I will have some friends around then. She already told me "perhaps" she'll go on Thursday.

 

[Player_Supreme]

women are fickle bruh; here today gone tommorow in thoughts and appointments. No big deal...hell it's friday...tue has already passed...I am 3 days into my weeks vacation...so I guess it's too late but I hope you get the message.