Man i'm so pissed....(somewhat of a long read)

kav_3

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Wasn't sure were this would go, but I’m guessing this probably the best place to post, I’m just so pissed and I just need a place to vent my anger, well today I just had this huge ass fight with my now ex- pos friend, so this happened at around 12:30 ish, so I’m with two of my buddies and my brother is there too we went to go watch Talladega nights right, so then we head to McDonalds for food. Ok so we're waiting in the drive through right and we're all talking right and so we start talking about what careers we are all going to end up in right and so then my friends ask me and I’m like I don't know yet and then my brother starts listing a bunch of things I could do in my program right, like for ex a lawyer, journalists, psychologists, go into politics or be a teacher and there might have been a few other ones, but anyways so then my so called friend was saying things like oh I can't see you doing any of those things and ****, while making jokes at how ****ty I’d be at those then he goes you should try engineering and I’m like well I don't want to do that because I don't like it, then he's like, well the only thing I can picture you doing is something in computers and then he says right after that in these exact words, no offence but you have no personality at all, so this just gets me really pissed because one I don't like being told I can or can't do by anyone and two because this supposed friend of mine just f-ing just dissed who I was as a person so I’m like f u and just start b-tching at him and ****, then he shuts his mouth for a couple of minutes right, after that he mumbles some type of swear word at me, so I’m like what was that, then he says it louder and then I start swearing back at him, so keep in mind he was in the drivers seat and I was sitting in the back seat across from him right and then he grabs my shirts and I keep swearing at him and throw some punches at him, he throws some back and then he’s like get the f out of my car and I’m like fine f u you sob and I throw a few more punches at him before I leave, and so basically I just had to walk 1 and a half to 2 hours to my house at around 12:30 am by myself because of the pos . I swear I felt like strangling and killing him, I would have beat the crap out of him if my brother and other friend didn’t stop me. So basically I’m now supposedly an ugly guy with no personality at all, so basically I won’t have any luck with chicks according to this guy because I have **** all in the things that matter, well according to him. I think I had every right to be pissed at him, anyone got any opinions on this situation and sorry for the long ass rant , but it’s 3:00 am here so I’m tired and pissed, so sorry for my grammar, spelling and whatever else is wrong, I just needed to get this off my chest, I’ll probably be on tomorrow if anyone has any feedback, thanks.


P.S. I just wanted to say that more than half the stuff we could have talked about I said nothing to him while we were still friends because I didn't want to be a prick and jackass, so then I wouldn't hurt his feelings, so being the nice guy that I am, I just let it slide and said nothing, what a pos prick, looks like I've learned my lesson never be nice to people because everyone is just a prick.
 

robrulesyou

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Here's my take:

1) You were both hungry and tired, which is usually the case before an argument breaks out.

2) Good guy friends are hard to come by, so I would apologize if I were you

3) Making fun of each other is a guy thing. Me and my friends (well, I should say me and my 1 guy friend) do it all the time, it's sort of like a way that guys try to see how insecure the other guy is. The more insecure you are about it, shows how true it really is.

for example, my last gf (ex) had no legs. My friend would make fun of that. but so what, he's a virgin, and I made fun of him. Its just for fun. Besides, if you're not making fun of each other what's there to talk about? Are you seriously going to go out with your buddies and discuss world hunger?

So basicaly you just proved that you care about your personality and threw a tantrum over it. Your friend won because he kicked you out of the car and may have had a good laugh afterwards. plus he got to eat and you didn't.

Moral of the story, learn to take constructive criticsim. There is truth to every joke, jab, whatever. Dont take things so seriously. Life is too short.
 

pooparu

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Wow, rob chill out.

Number 1, thats correct.

2. **** that man. Maybe he was joking and ****, but he could have said that after he started *****ing.

3. Making fun of each other is a guy thing, but its OBVIOUS its a joke, not that you are being serious.

I do have a suggestion similar to robs, you should examine your life and really see if you are interesting, he might have been joing, maybe not, but ro b is right behind every joke there usually is some truth.


What i don't get is why your brother didn't stick up for you, what the hell?
 
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