Mall/Bar/Club Alone... another FR

TonyTheTigerOI

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These approaches all took place between wed and sunday. This isnt al of them, just the ones worth mentioning:

At the mall I was having a lot of trouble making EC with hot girls. After 30 min of cruising and windowshopping I hadnt smiled at a single girl, let alone opened a set. Then I realized what I was doing wrong:

I was seeking eyecontact with pretty girls. It wasnt working... and it was probably obvious I wasnt in the mall to shop but not having much success with my PU efforts... not very Alpha of me.

So I headed into the book store and baught two books I already own and plopped them in an extremely large bag, along with my keys, cell phone, and other random trinkets. I finally looked like I belonged in the mall, like I was there for a purpose, and I had something to talk about (I was familiar with the authors of the books I purchased).

I slowed my walk and looked ONLY straight ahead of me. I saw plenty of pretty girls, but I didnt go out of my way to pursue any of them, as they were quit inapproachable. I stopped seeking eyecontact with pretty girls, and I started MAKING EYECONTACT with TARGETS. Lone shoppers, stationary twosets, hotties who didnt appear to be in much of a hurry. Within two minutes of my change in mental state my results were exemplary: I held my eyes on the eyes of my targets from up to 30 yards away, knowing that as we drew near my slow, confident bodylanguage would get their attension and elicite eyecontact. It did. I made strong eyecontact with two girls, without saying hi, bothof them smiled from ear to ear as they passed me.

I was settling into my mental state when a very tall, tan girl in a white sundress walked by with what must have been 50 lbs of merchandise. She held eyecontact from 20 yards untill we were ontop of eachother, smiling first. I smiled back and said hi, she replied "Hey! Whats up!" I could have easily stopped and talked to her, but I didnt and I dont know why. I guess Im still shaking off the rust.

I was a little angry at myself, but it got my psyched for my next approach:

I saw a twoset of girls in their mid 20's sitting on a bench by a trash can and I walked slowly towards them. I made strong eyecontact with the sexier of the two, smiled and said hey, whats up!, then thru my coffee cup into a trash can nearby.

HBcoffee - Hey... what are ya drinkin?
Anth - Starbucks... I really cant stand the coffee but I get it for free
HBfriend - Oh I love Starbucks!
HBcoffee - I hate it!
Anth - Finally, someone agrees with me! (hi 5)
HBcoffee - yeah, Im more of a dunkin doughnuts girl
Anth - What?
HBcoffee - I love dunkin doughnuts coffee
Anth - Are you kidding?
HBcoffee - No, its good!
Anth - See, I thought we were on the same page when I found out we were hte only two people on earth who hate starbucks... but now I dont even think you drink coffee!
HBcoffee - Oh well then what do you like?
Anth - Hrm. The best cup of coffee I ever had was at higher grounds, on sheridan drive. You see, yousually when they make coffee (I sit down next to her on the bench as I tell my story) some guy down in columbia pays a bunch of farmers to pick the coffee beans from the plants. They look a lot like cherries when they are fresh. The farmers chuck the meat of the cherrie from the bean inside, and then throw them in the sand try dry in the sun. But... one day, some jamacan decides hes going to make some coffee. So he pays a bunch of farmers to go pick the beans. The only problem is, they'd all spent the day drinking rum and partying in the sun, and they were really tired. They decided to just leave the cherries out to dry, without chucking them. Now, their boss was pretty pist the next morning when he found out, but he didnt want to waste all that coffee, so what does he do? (they reply, he has them chuck them anyway) Exactly! So all the flavors from the fruit of the cherrie were locked into the beans, and instead of the usual earthy, smokey taste of coffee... those particular beans were sweet and fruity. I had two cups, and mixed it with chocolate covered raisins. It was AMAZING!

I told the story with great energy, and every time I made a point I would touch her thigh or arm. By the end, she was leaning very close to me, hanging on every word. She told me she got the impression I was very successful, and wondered if I was a lawyer. I explained that I was only 18, and currently attended an international school of management and entraprenourship and talked about my future plans. She put her hand on my thigh and asked me if I liked older, more experienced women. I smiled and told her I loved all women, especially those who can carry on a stimulating, wildly entertaining conversation. I squeezed her thigh... and then her cell phone rang. It was her boyfriend. She didnt answer it, but she stood up to leave.

HBcoffee - I have to go. If I stay any longer Im going to get in trouble
Anth - Get in trouble, how?
Hbcoffee - I just told you, that was my boyfriend calling!
Anth - Oh, and he will scold you, and put you in time out if you dont run off to see him right this second? That kind of trouble?
HBcoffee - Its not like that... you, oh youre really good...
Anth - Well thank you, but its easy to be good when you know what you want

Her friend had had enough, she grabbed the girl by her hand and physically pulled her from me (we were standing together, her c cup brushing against my chest) and yelled "SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND." If she was going to be so *****y, Im surprised she took so long to jump in... damn it!

All in all the approach was about 20 minutes, I developed some deep rapport that I didnt include above regarding the books I had baught (she recognized the authors). I could have ****ed her if her BF didnt call or if the friend wasnt there, either or.

Ill post some more approaches on this same thread soon.
 

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ya your mall reports are alot like mine, I walk around the entire mall with nothing in hand, and looking into the eyes of every decent looking girl, and get no EC in return When we should only be seeking targets. Thats a good point. Walking around with stuff also gives you something to talk about, teh chick usually asks what'd you buy or w/e.
 

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This is a good thread. Finally.

THat is why i usuall only approach girls who are alone. EC is hard to get walking in a mall, I think the target approach is key and very successfull.


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I was at an under 21 dance and pickings were slim... there was only one set of 18/19 year old girls. Four of them, all 7.5-8.5, grinding on eachother. I grabbed a friend of mine and pulled him to the set, just letting them acclamate to our presance for a moment before I grabed one to dance... while I half danced and detailed my plan to my wing, a girl PUSHED past me. HB9.0, she looked 20 years old... she grabbed the 8.5 from teh set next to me and started dancing up on her.

Without reason or warning, I just started smacking my ass against hers to the rhythm. I kept this up for 30 seconds, then squared my shoulders with hers, back to back, and danced with our asses together for about a minute, without turning around or making any attempt to touch her with my hands. The song changed, I felt her ass pull away from mine, so I just kept dancing, not even looking at her...

She grabs my shoulder and spins me around... but I dont grind on her immediately. I keep dancing about a foot from her, inching closer and closer for about a minute. I hold out my hand when Im only inches from her, she takes it and I spin her around then pull her close... and we start grinding. For the rest of the song I went fast, simple side to side, with one hand holding hers and the other on her hip.

The song ended and I spun her again... then let her spin me... I pulled her VERY close and lowered my center of gravity so my thigh was rubbing tightly inbetween her legs. I smiled and wispered "skip a beat" into her ear. I grinded up and down instead of side to side... after 3 or 4 beats she caught on and we were basically ****ing right there on the dance floor. When I would dip really low I could see that I was rubbing her **** by the way her jaw would drop... she wispered "youre a really good dancer." I let go of her hand and traced up her arm to her shoulder, and squeezed it to the rythme. I slid my hand around her collar bone and squeezed again. I slid my hand so my fingers were around the back of her neck and my thumb was around hte front, pressing with my palm against her to the rhythm. The song ended, I smiled and danced by myself for a few seconds... she shook her ass and turned in a circle, I caught her with her as sticking out and pulled her to me. We grinded back to forward for half a song, and I squeezed her upper thighs to the rhythm, then I turned around and let her grind on my ass for half the song, pulling her hands around my chest... she squeezed me tight.

After the song ended I turned to her and fanned myself, as if to say "its hott!!!" she nodded and smiled. I took her hand and walked her to the patio.

Anth - I really like the way you dance
HB9 - Thanks, youre really good too
Anth - You must be an athlete!

It turns out shes a D3 soccer player at a local college... we talk soccer for 5 minutes then I inquire about other aspects of college life. Shes an eng major... of course I mention a book I just picked up by Kurt Vonnegut, and briefly retell one of my favorite of his stories because shes never heard it (harrison burgeron). She then told me her favorite story, and I took the name of the author into my phone.

Anth - Oh! I love this song!

I took her hand and led her back to the floor, but her friends seemed jealous id occupied her for so long, so I let them dance to themselves.

I danced around with some other, younger girls. One 15 year old tried to give me a handjob thru my jeans while we were dancing. Some inner city kid harrassed me for dressing so nice (dress shirt + slacks, eveyrone else was in polos or T shirts). I just shrugged and asked him how many white girls hes ****ed lately and he shut up.

Back to my girl... we dance again and I find out shes taking salsa lessons. So she tries her best to teach me, but I give up, grab her by the ass, pick her up off the ground and grind with her back against the wall. I get tired pretty quick, set her down and we dance normal. At one point, she asked me to hold her leg, and she held her self with her hands around my neck, one foot on the floor, the other in my hand and leaned, arching her back, till she was horizontal... it looked like we were ****ing, I loved it.

She told me she had to go, but kept dancing with me. So I smiled and said...

Anth - Danielle, stop looking at my lips!
Danielle - What?! Im not! (she wasnt, but now that I said the word lips she instinctively looks at them)
Anth - See, you just did!
Danielle - I did not!
Anth - Do you want to kiss me?
Danielle - I cant, its against my rule!
Anth - I knew it! (I stop dancing with her and close my bodylanguage to her) This whole time we were having fun dancing you were THINKING about kissing me! I could see it in your eyes!
Danielle - I never kiss the night I meet someone!
Anth - Ive got rules too, ya know. I never dance with blond girls who are shorter than me named Danielle who read books for fun... and look at the trouble youve got me in now! (we laugh)
Danielle - I leave for college next friday...
Anth - No way, I leave next monday! We'll have to hang out before then
Danielle - Sure, do you have facebook?
Anth - (I shook my head and grinned) thats not what I meant. I meant that Im pretty busy getting things for my apartment in Boston, but Ill give you a call on wednesday so we can hang out.
Danielle - How are you going to do that? (I raise my eyebrows, she smiles) ok let me give you my #

Got the hottest/oldest girl in the clubs #.
 

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Good thread man. I'm just getting started with doing some mall pickup. I believe there is a lot of potential there. I like the use of props (books you already know about) as an excuse for being there. Who would go to the mall to pick up girls.....hahaha
 

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i hate it

I hate it when i give away the intent of my pick up if and when I do ever try one. I dont like to pick up women when there isnt a good excuse to do so, I dont wnat them to KNOW they are being picked up.
 
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