Lotusman
Don Juan
Hello Forum...
Was interested in this girl in a waning LTR about a year ago in my social group. Sensed a lot of attraction, IOIs and flirted with plenty of kino.. i asked her out a few times - she cancelled / suggested we meet with our friends - I admit I may have acted too desperately and let my oneitis show killing of her attraction then created some bad vibes. I walked away - since then i have focussed on my work and have experienced earth-shattering non-female realted stuff which i think has had a positive effect in changing me into a more confident person.
One year on and i've re-entered this social group, the same girl is there although single now - I am flirting with her again and pushing the boundaries everytime with kino.. she's playful but not as playful as me lol, Again i'm trying to not mis-interpret "friendship" with "attraction". Have held back from asking her out again unlike last time. On Friday I met a friend of hers who was cute flirted heavily with her danced all night took her to her apartment but no-sex. I'm not really that interested in her friend although she's attractive enough - i'm more interested in her lol I've been texting her friend and she wants to go out this weekend...
do you think it's a good idea to take her out, try my luck to get my main target jelous? (if she's genuinely interested of course) Will jelousy increase my chances with her ? / help break the deadlock? or re-ignite her interest again?
thanks
Was interested in this girl in a waning LTR about a year ago in my social group. Sensed a lot of attraction, IOIs and flirted with plenty of kino.. i asked her out a few times - she cancelled / suggested we meet with our friends - I admit I may have acted too desperately and let my oneitis show killing of her attraction then created some bad vibes. I walked away - since then i have focussed on my work and have experienced earth-shattering non-female realted stuff which i think has had a positive effect in changing me into a more confident person.
One year on and i've re-entered this social group, the same girl is there although single now - I am flirting with her again and pushing the boundaries everytime with kino.. she's playful but not as playful as me lol, Again i'm trying to not mis-interpret "friendship" with "attraction". Have held back from asking her out again unlike last time. On Friday I met a friend of hers who was cute flirted heavily with her danced all night took her to her apartment but no-sex. I'm not really that interested in her friend although she's attractive enough - i'm more interested in her lol I've been texting her friend and she wants to go out this weekend...
do you think it's a good idea to take her out, try my luck to get my main target jelous? (if she's genuinely interested of course) Will jelousy increase my chances with her ? / help break the deadlock? or re-ignite her interest again?
thanks