Making a girl feel good about themself

[daman01]

It has been said that making a female feel good about themself will make them really like you. So how should a man go about making her feel special? Maybee make a few compliments? Or What?

Any input would be appreciated.

 

[CyranoDeBergerac]

Compliments are always nice, but only when exercised with moderation and sincerity.

Other than that, rather than telling her something that makes her feel good, show her a good time and that will mean much more than words. The key to making a woman feel special is a gesture uniquely shared by the two of you. Such is the very essence of romance itself.

A night spent dancing in the moonlight, an orchid for guy Fawkes day, or even a shared movie night when you make time to be with her especially. Once all I did was toss her a bag of heart shaped dove chocolates passing between classes. But try to rerserve any deeper gestures until after you've been in a relationship for a while, otherwise it lacks credibility and sends the exact opposite message.

-CyranoDeBergerac

 

[Dee-Zy]

Read the Bible - there's alot on that.

Just compliment them N don't be an ******* when u are around them, make them laugh - be 'fun'.

As for compliments - try to keep them to a minimum and tyr not compliment'N them on their body. It's not a problem but compliment'N them in skills or knowledge is MUCH better.

 

[TesuqueRed]

Somehow I really don't like this post.

Ok--sure--people who are charismatic or establish rapport will often acknowledge and "make" people around them feel good, and people will like them as a result.

So there is validity to this question.

But what I hear here is something of a technique that says, in essense, "if I learn to manipulate women to feel good about themselves, then any woman I target will like me when I do >this< (insert "compliment" etc...)

I will accept that I may be way over-reading into this---

...but if a woman doesn't feel good about herself, why would you want her around??? Low self-esteem is so unattractive and a primary red flag for unacceptable candidates.

And if a woman (or anyone) doesn't feel good about herself, how is it your problem to fix--??? This is her issue and requires her initiative. A good many people actually use low self-esteem to get you to feel sorry for them and take care of things for them--where you make their problem your problem thru a sense of obligation or guilt or the shining-white-knight complex.

If you want to improve your social skills--that's one thing. If you want to be a personal jesvs-chryst for the emotional cripples around you--that's another.