make out and no number close

[svenster]

so on sat i went to this social event for expat yuppies and in a upscale club.
as i arrived by myself i headed straight to bar and opened hot blond simply by saying hi. she was with another male and female ordering drinks. they left she stayed.
good convo followed with me playfully negging her, kino touching arm then hip. She grabbed my arm and squeezed several times. talked to her at least for 30min if not longer.

anyway she said she was going to bathroom. i stayed at bar chatting group of chicks then another blond hottie. when i looked around she was chatting with another dude.
went to dance floor and bumped into my only friend at the venue.

than she showed up and we started dancing. heavy make-out followed. we kept dancing making out, grabbing her ass, lifting skirt up touching her bare legs lifting her up and spinning around. she took camera and started taking pictures of us. then she excused herself again.

i thought it was heading into ONS so didn't chase her or take her number.
then saw her chatting to some dude. said what's up and she said her necklace broke. don't remember if i grabbed it or she gave it to me.
Later when I was heading to bar she asked me if i was leaving. said i was heaving great time and i was sticking around.
then she was chatting with another dude when i bumped into her i grabbed her and kissed her briefly. later saw her talking to some guy at the bar.

at no point could i see her making out with other dudes. i was still on the dancefloor and grabbed small Korean girl, danced with her and made out.

not sure if the first girl saw me.
Later I took walk around but the original girl had disappear. I stuck around and was approached by fairly hot blond but was to drunk and deaf from loud music to engage in convo.
geat solo nite out but end up going home by myself.

what did i do wrong?
my mindset was not to chase the girl and show too much eagerness when she was talking to other guys.
when was best time to ask for her number?
i still have her necklace. unfortunately it ain't gold but some cheap **** so she won't be trying to get it back.
btw i know her name and could easily find he on the list of attendees on fbook to let her know she could collect her belongings

 

[Tesl]

This has happened to me a few times before and I always kick myself after. Nowadays I try to get the phone number a bit earlier than later, just to prevent this exact thing from happening.

I'd say after making out, that would have been a good time to get her number.

Lesson learnt!

 

[Iceberg]

Makeouts don't always mean sex. A lot of girls do this stuff for fun and games.

I don't think you did anything wrong. I'll sometimes find a way to get a girl's number early in the conversation, just to get it out of the way if I get drunk and wander off. But sometimes this stuff happens.

Next time you could just bluntly say, "I want your number. Just in case you lose me." But if you prefer to wait until the end of the night for that, I don't think that's wrong of you.

 

[Duffdog]

I don't think you did anything wrong with the first two girls. It's the "drunk" girl that came up to you that you should have just asked point blank: Do you want to come home with me? Betcha she would have gone with you and had an awesome time.

If your motivation was just to have fun, you did great. If it was to fvck some chic, maybe not.

Until very recently, I was dating around a lot. Girls don't want/give the number until after you have proved yourself by fvcking the crap out of her. If you ask before nailing her, you are more likely to have her not answer.

 

[joe henny]

Congratulations you ran into your fiirst freak. The only thing you did wrong was over anylyze you should have just told her to give you her number.