It is my philosophy that everyone in the world is connectable. Everyone has friends, whether one or many, that is irrelevant. People have friends for a reason. That reason is, they have some kind of positive trait in them. Funny, laid-back, wealthy, good looks, the list goes on. The point is when you meet someone for the first time and you think they are totally lame think about it like this: That person has friends and has them for a reason! they must possess something good! All you have to do is find it and try hard to make a connection. The reversal is this, dont let her look at you as someone totally lame! Make her look at you as someone who has positive qualities also. Make your good qualities stand out. but never brag. Remember the people who we think we can get along with the least we usually have the most in common with. REMEMBER: MAKE THE CONNECTION!
