Maintaining mystery

[Redwolf]

What are some good methods to maintain mystery when dealing with a new dating prospect?

 

[Dr.Suave]

No over texting or over sharing between dates (or ever).

Date her only once a week, unless she's basically begging to be f0cked.

 

[Toddz]

Don't - over text, share your feelings, tell her what you're doing everyday, qualify yourself, or compliment her.

Do - text sporadically, keep her guessing, live your life, qualify her, date other women

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

What are some good methods to maintain mystery when dealing with a new dating prospect?

Learn to banter. Be vague INTENTIONALLY.

 

[anonymous12345]

Good question, OP. The thing is, if you're insecure, you will over qualify yourself, over share, etc. I've had this problem, although it things varies depending on context. Changing "external" behaviour like suggested in above posts can change your internals, yes.

It's also about abundance mentality. I had a conversation with a girl on a train yesterday, and I took a break and stared out the window, and she reciprocated/took initiative. It's the same thing as with to maintain mystery, to be "rich" to the degree of being able to always let go. I think one should qualify oneself as little as is needed, she should drive it as much as possible. I got a way to go here, still.

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

No calls or texts on Friday/Saturday nights if you don't have a date lined up with her. Weekends are your prime time and you're not giving away free attention.