Made my mind up about break up and LJBF. Dont know how or when to stay it.

[fuko2007]

So here is my deal. Ive been talking to a new girl. She is nice and wants to date. But this chick some of you know who im talking about came back up into my life. She is 40 so 15 years older than me. I don't know if really ever dated but we've been seeing each other for 4 years. Well she goes through cycles where she pushes me away and is mean and cold .

She just started one of those cycles. Saying things like i need to get my life in order and i never have time to myself blah blah blah. Its a broken record. Well i know she is lieing to me and there is probably another guy. But she wants to stay friends and it blows my mind because i thought that we were just friends.

Ive been thinking on it and know i cant talk to this new girl if she is still around. I kind of want to tell her now and give her her stuff but she has a party to go to tonight so i don't know what to do. Its really eating at me and i want to be done with it. And she is at work catching hell so i don't want to be an ahole. What would yall do?

 

[SoSuave666]

So here is my deal. Ive been talking to a new girl. She is nice and wants to date. But this chick some of you know who im talking about came back up into my life. She is 40 so 15 years older than me. I don't know if really ever dated but we've been seeing each other for 4 years. Well she goes through cycles where she pushes me away and is mean and cold .

She just started one of those cycles. Saying things like i need to get my life in order and i never have time to myself blah blah blah. Its a broken record. Well i know she is lieing to me and there is probably another guy. But she wants to stay friends and it blows my mind because i thought that we were just friends.

Ive been thinking on it and know i cant talk to this new girl if she is still around. I kind of want to tell her now and give her her stuff but she has a party to go to tonight so i don't know what to do. Its really eating at me and i want to be done with it. And she is at work catching hell so i don't want to be an ahole. What would yall do?

LOL @not wanting to be an ahole. This chick is stringing you along and LJBFing you and you don't want to be an ahole? How about you throw her stuff away, or leave it on her doorstep. This chick sounds like she has been toxic for you and needs to leave your life. Man up and make a stand for YOUR OWN benefit. Get on with it. Don't be a coward.

 

[fuko2007]

Thanks ss666. I am going to cut it out. But she has never really cut me out of her ;ife completely so i feel bad if im just like **** you dont talk to me anymore. But i know its what i have to do. I would like to say it face to face so ill do it after work. That sound like a good plan?

 

[El Payaso]

Man up and kick her to the curb.

 

[SoSuave666]

Thanks ss666. I am going to cut it out. But she has never really cut me out of her ;ife completely so i feel bad if im just like **** you dont talk to me anymore. But i know its what i have to do. I would like to say it face to face so ill do it after work. That sound like a good plan?

Do it whatever way you want. Just don't get suckered into anything. Give her back her stuff and tell her it's over; you've met someone new. It is best for both of you, like ripping off a band-aid. DO NOT talk to her after this. You are one of the guys that struggles with NC. You are only hurting yourself. Proceed at your own caution. I wouldn't even tell her, I'd just throw her sh!t away and never talk to her.

 

[nismo-4]

Just ditch this toxic b**ch and move the hell on with your life! You got 99 problems and this b**ch seems like all of them! You will have at least one less problem without her.

Cycles my ass. She ain't interested. And she just wants to be friends? F**k that. You can do better. Your princess is in another castle. Throw her sh*t out now! I would! Hell, I'd come over and throw her sh*t out for you if I could. Judge nismo's justice!

Case closed. Get out of my court, get her out of yours.

 

[fuko2007]

Thanks guys. Im done with it . I wish i could throw it out but its her shotgun she let me borrow since i messed mine up. But im done with her , ill see her in a little while to give it to her and tell her im not intrested in a friendship right now .

 

[SoSuave666]

Thanks guys. Im done with it . I wish i could throw it out but its her shotgun she let me borrow since i messed mine up. But im done with her , ill see her in a little while to give it to her and tell her im not intrested in a friendship EVER .

Fixed.

 

[fuko2007]

Well it's done. I don't think she got the point. So I've call blocked her on my phone and deleted her from social media. So let nc and healing begin I guess.

 

[nismo-4]

Well it's done. I don't think she got the point. So I've call blocked her on my phone and deleted her from social media. So let nc and healing begin I guess.

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Erased and replaced! At least you erased!

 

[Krueg]

Sounds like your the older womans boy toy.. Like the others said her Interest Level is LOW, but she likes keep you around as a willing victim. Cut her out and see the new girl.

EDIT:

Well it's done. I don't think she got the point. So I've call blocked her on my phone and deleted her from social media. So let nc and healing begin I guess.

Congratulations, you dodged a bullet! Get ready for the new Don Juan in you!