LTR GF an a HUGE emotional rollercoaster

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Women who love you will run their lives through you and not away from you. Her claim to love to you is bogus if she is thinking of leaving you.

Sorry man but it looks like she is not telling you the "Whole Truth" something else is up other then her dying gradma.

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mightmate - where are these tips?

Thread starter - from my experience I have always found women to be strange when you are away. I mean it is almost like a HUGE step in a relationship because the person justifies it to themselves so either come back and break it off or jump it to the next level.

KEEP DOING WHAT YOU DO!

Do not change You. She liked you to begin with remember! *NOTE that this does mean be a stubborn ****, it means be you and maybe sensitive but not MR sensitive with a little bit of you

good luck!
 
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Yea, if she was in love, she'd tell you that she was coming home - you wouldn't have had to find out by calling.

This reminds me of what I went through with my 1st love. My high school gf went to California to see her firends for a weekend and came back a totally different girl.
I pressed her until she finally admitted that she 'kissed' a guy. I never got the whole story, but I'm sure she did more than that.

Our relationship ended a few months later, after a series of ups and downs. It sucked and totally changed how I perceived women. She had told me how "in love" she was with me just before she left and came back not even mentioning the word love.

Does she live with you? If so, she's dependant on you and she'll act in love with you until she's no longer dependant on you.

I predict you'll go through hell with her for a few months, then it'll end. Don't get suckered into a long distance relationship with her If she does decide to go back to Hawaii.

Sorry to hear about your situation. I've been there. Not fun.
 
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Sorry man but it looks like she is not telling you the "Whole Truth" something else is up other then her dying gradma.
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I agree 100%.

I'm guessing when you moved in with her, you were thinking that you were starting a family. However, she no longer considers you "family" if she is planning (or even thinking of) moving out and away from you. You are no longer a priority in her life.

Now, since you ARE living with her, you need to create a plan of action, or you're going to be stuck with all the bills (unless you can afford to live in your current location on your own). I know you're feeling like 5hit right now, but you NEED to look after yourself. She doesn't give a damn about your situation, she only cares about her own. You need to take charge of this situation, and do what's right for YOU.

If you can't afford to live where you currently are, I suggest you begin looking for a new place ASAP. She moved in with you and got your hopes up for a future together. Now, she's fvcked that up for you. You're now the only one who can take care of your needs and situation. You need to be strong.
 
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If you want to save this LTR or if you want to save yourself, the only option that will work is to tell her it is over. Depending on the apartment details, either move out, or pack her sh1t. Tell her you deserve better than an indecisive biatch who is going to let other people (her mom) run her life.

Tell you expect a women that will be honest and is committed to you and that she blew it. This will put her back in her place, and she'll be askin to kiss your toes. If not, you can move on knowing that you are in control of your life and do not succumb to society's games.
 
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haahahhahah Hawaii girls!!! OMG! She came back home and started acting like the way girls do act here in hawaii. Sorry but girls from here are screwed up, don't know what they want, play mind games like NO TOMORROW, and they rather be in a violent/domestic relationship (for some ****ed up reason). they really don't know what they want. they say one thing but they do another. I say think better for yourself and what you want 'cause only you can make yourself happy.
 
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