LTR fights

[MightyMate]

Okay for everybody who been/is in LTR fights are usual thing.
Dont know about You but mainly i got fight about once a day, and about once n 2 weeks i have a big battle. Girls do that when they feel insecure like they cant control You or want to show their power. With Your proper behaviour You can teach them that You are the man and You wont let them take control.
How to do it?
There are few possibilities.
1. If You see there will be fight or it starts, leave when she says something that pissed You off saying 'That was too much'. Just leave and dont let her talk or do anything. Shes gonna feel guilty and powerless.
2. If she hangs up on the phone, dont call back. Thats gonna give her a lesson and of course make her powerless.
3. If shes screaming or whatever just dont say anything, look at her and when she stops ask 'Are You dont yet?'.
4. If shes smsing You because shes mad on something, sms her bakc saying You ae going to sleep and You will talk later.
5. If she found out sms or phone calls from some other girl say that it pisses You off that each time she sees something she thinks You are cheating like You dont love her. Start asking why she feels so insecure, why shes jealous etc. She will forget about stuff and start showing You heart and feeling. Of course loose battle power at same time.

Enjoy.

 

[shiningshadow]

Don't overreact, don't yell. Defend yourself, don't be a pvssy about it.

 

[Docs]

Mighty, good points, but for future, can you work on that grammar, I had a hell of a time understanding some of that.

Thanks :yes:

 

[Egoist]

women are emotional creatures and instinctually seek out high emotion levels and drama.

understand it, embrace it, use it to your advantage. (no sex like makeup sex)

 

[MightyMate]

Originally posted by Docs
Mighty, good points, but for future, can you work on that grammar, I had a hell of a time understanding some of that.

Thanks :yes:

If You rewrite it and send me on priv i can paste. Sorry english is not my first language and im not type of person who thinks alot and has enaugh time to write slowly

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Originally posted by Egoist
women are emotional creatures and instinctually seek out high emotion levels and drama.

True. That's why you don't fight with them. Fighting in an LTR is for AFC dorks who can't control their emotions. If you have a problem, you should be able to work things out through a normal conversation. You shouldn't have to get in a fight like some immature 12-year-old.

 

[Egoist]

Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
True. That's why you don't fight with them. Fighting in an LTR is for AFC dorks who can't control their emotions. If you have a problem, you should be able to work things out through a normal conversation. You shouldn't have to get in a fight like some immature 12-year-old.

well it depends.

you have to understand how they work and what they expect.

try this next time. when your girlfriend is really mad at you (not sad mad where she is crying, but mad mad) let her vent first a little bit then say something like "damn you are hot when you are mad" or "i don't care about this crap anymore, i love you so much" (obviously reserved for serious GF) and grab her like a man, push her against the wall, and proceed to go caveman on her.

If you understand how it works, and your timing is right, she will be telling her friends tomorrow how hot the sex was that night. Women live for this ****.

 

[shiningshadow]

^^I like that. It doesn't apply to every situation, obviously.

 

[Egoist]

Originally posted by shiningshadow
^^I like that. It doesn't apply to every situation, obviously.

of course not, but its very useful for the non-specific "i wanna be mad and pout" bs that women pull when they just want drama and hot sex.

 

[MightyMate]

Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
True. That's why you don't fight with them. Fighting in an LTR is for AFC dorks who can't control their emotions. If you have a problem, you should be able to work things out through a normal conversation. You shouldn't have to get in a fight like some immature 12-year-old.

By saying that stuff You are acting like 12-year-old. Or maybe You never been in LTR. Both are close enaugh.

 

[MightyMate]

Btw after 3rd day of fighting i broke up with my gf today at xmas. Haha. Ill field test coming back. Im not even sure if i want too.

 

[MightyMate]

And we are back. My tips work 100% lol.

 

[intellectual-apeman]

dude u are right
but i want to know if we can change a woman this way...
lets say she is always saying things like "u dun care about me at all" and stuff.. will she be more careful around u the next time?

in LTRs i wonder is it possible to change a womans her beliefs..
for example she starts to like the outdoors or maybe tune herself more to your needs.
this would be the key to many wonderfu things
any professionals know the answer

 

[MightyMate]

Originally posted by intellectual-apeman
dude u are right
but i want to know if we can change a woman this way...
lets say she is always saying things like "u dun care about me at all" and stuff.. will she be more careful around u the next time?

in LTRs i wonder is it possible to change a womans her beliefs..
for example she starts to like the outdoors or maybe tune herself more to your needs.
this would be the key to many wonderfu things
any professionals know the answer

If You make woman powrrless she has to change her beliefs, whats else she can do? Its like.. If You are tight to the armchair and cant move, what can You do? Try few times and give up.
You can fully chhange woman and she wont go away from You coz power makes her want You so much and shes so interested that she just cant go away.
If she says You dont care for her at all, use last point of my speech. 'Why You saying that? I dont belive You think so.. Do You feel insecure?..' Its so easy.

 

[MightyMate]

BUMP!

 

[izza]

That sounds like a lot of fighting bro. If I were in your shoes, I would get exhausted of that petty sh!t. I don't think couples should fight that much. I have been in one relationship where we fought that much, and that's when we were sick and tired of each other (pre-sosuave days).

Just my opinion, I don't have time to be fighting that often, I would like to have better things to do! (working on that)

D

 

[MightyMate]

I just gavce info about main type of fights, i dont say You have to figh all the time.. But if it happoends.. My post is the solution.
Btw i figh alot, but ive got bad character and i need it.

 

[backbreaker]

what you don't seem to understand, is that the basis for the entire thing.. in other words, she's not aruging for her health.. ovbiously one of us is pissed off.

I learned, though experience, to just shut the **** up.

Why?

Not because I can't win the argument, but the point isn't to win the battle and loose the war. It's to get the **** over as quickly as possible.

So just shut up. Agree with everything she says, unless she disrespects you or something, but just shut the **** up. Don't raise your voice, and at the end of the day once she calms down, she will look like an ass, because she vented on you for no reason whatsoever.

My Ex, when we used to aruge, or when she used to get mad, Iw ould piss her off by not aruging back at her, and she would start throwing **** at me, just to get me to invoke some type of emotion.

Then I would leave. So one day she got smart, and hid my car keeys from me so I couldn't leave.. like she kenw we were goingt o get into an arguement before we did.

I got her to finally notice, that she didn't even give a damn about the arguement.. it was deeper seeded than that. She just wanted to yell at me, and have me arue with her for why I don't know.. and I wouldn't.

 

[MightyMate]

Yah to shut up is also good advice. But its gonna be topic of next thread.

 

[MightyMate]

Goddamnit guys wake up. LTR is hard stuff. Im trying to help You.