Love women - don't hate them

[Bible_Belt]

I thought most guys here are just on a mission to give women hell


I think you are probably right. And the funny thing is that giving them hell actually works to some extent. But once you feel that you've gotten even, there is not much point any more. I don't find any challenge or fun in fvcking with some poor girl's head just to get laid. It's more fun to genuinely enjoy being with whatever girl interests you and at the same time push the right buttons to make her crazy about you. That is a better time than giving anyone hell.

Loving women means that you will always be in love, it just might be a different girl tomorrow. It also removes the silly ideas of "the one" and "soulmates." I could meet and fall in love with a new soulmate every day for the rest of my life, and never even come close to meeting all of my soulmates. Loving women means that I don't idolize any one woman.

Right now, I am very much in love, I might be with this girl forever. But if we part ways, then there is this other girl I would be with the next day, and then also this other girl...I love them all.

 

[HeyPachuco!]

Found this comment on YouTube.

" women dont know what love is. Love for them is using someone for emotional support but the real heartbreaker is that they dont make any commitment to any particular support. They really don't care. They ONLY use you for the support while it is CONVENIENT, then they move on and throw themselves at someone else who is more convenient.

Men do not understand this, and women don't realize they are doing it, men and women just don't mix. But men still want to sex women so they get pulled in. Dude all women are sutpid *****es. Even the nice ones are ****ing *****es that are going to use u and ruin your life. Every time dude. If u don't believe me take a look at the one your with, then look at your mom. Guaranteed your mom ****ed over ur dad. ****in sux .."

- How true is this guys statement?

 

[Bible_Belt]

It's true in his reality. Obviously he was messed over by a woman and is still not over it.

The same statement could be made about men by women - men pretend to care about women just to get sex and then toss them aside. If that has happened to a woman enough, she will believe all men are that way. But her past experiences don't make her current attitude any more attractive. None of us want to date a man-hater. It is the same with women - they don't want a bitter and jaded guy. All of us have complaints, and any of us could choose to never let any of that go and be pissed off forever. But that's not productive. Harboring anger at women will keep them away. Loving women as a gender will draw them to you.