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Losing your virginity

NMMWCR

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Reading all these threads about virginity is really starting to annoy/bore me.

Gentlemen,

Chill the hell out about your virginity. It is not some kind of disease that needs curing. Not being able to think about anything else is a serious psychological problem though.

Have fun. Be a challenge. Have mystery. Use kino. But not because you are obsessed with getting a piece of azz. Do it for the joy it brings you. And have fun. The world of women is your playground. If it feels like work, you are trying too damn hard.

Instead, enjoy the ego rush of having them want you. Want to know what is more satisfying than sex? ...let's pause for a moment while you ponder the foreign concept of something better than the holy grail you've become obsessed with so it will sink in... The moment when you make her want you so much that she literally has to beg you for it. The mental image of her breathing heavy, squirming in her seat, gazing at you with big smoky eyes, and forcing out a trembling and desperate "please" will make you ten feet tall for ten years. The endorphins from the actual act hang around for not nearly as long. She will get more out of it too when you are patient enough to warm her up to the breaking point before trying to awkwardly grope her.

You'll get some soon enough. When you are done bull****ting with your friends afterwards you'll secret wonder why in the hell it was such big deal in the first place.

You see, the secret is learning to become exactly like you would be if you had already been there/done that. Which is more or less indifferent. Virginity is only a big deal because you make it that way.

SO STOP MAKING A MOUNTAIN OUT OF A MOLE HILL
 

Reto

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I agree.

But, wasn't ig a big deal before you lost your's?
 

Oscar Wilde

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My first time was crap, really crap.

And I'm not disappointed, in fact I don't give a damn. I've had plenty since.
 

dionysius_d

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My first time was also crap.. but I am glad it was over by the time i was 18.

I disagree.. get experienced as early as you can. Learn all you need to know.. it will be better later on.
 

Avsguy01

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My first and only time was crap (i didnt even get my end of the pleasure). She couldnt even handle me(petite girl). But ive now learned that it will come and that it really isnt that big of a deal that i made it out to be in the first place. Its better to be a virgin than not getting sex for a while, just put it that way.
 

Julian

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Quit generalizing every virgin as a whiny, desperate, sniveling little b1tch who is obsessed with pink taco.

Im a virgin, AND PROUD OF IT SUCKAS. Well not really PROUD, and i wouldnt be proud if i wasnt a virgin. Its just something that hasnt happened to me yet. Ive had 3-4 chances of sex, and i turned them down. Why? I didnt think the girl was worth banging. 2 of them were girlfriends, 1 was a friends ex-girl who tried to seduce me, and pretty much did except for the sex part, and the other was some slut who wanted to get tag teamed by me and a friend.

I will lose it eventually, when it happens it happens. Im really holding out for a girl that meets my standards. I really prefer another virgin.
 

NMMWCR

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Julian has the right idea.

Notice how the guy who isn't desperate has had to turn down 4 offers that weren't up to snuff.
 

seulaxplaya

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first time really crappy. lost it to a meaningless person. who supposedly had experience and totally sucked. but i agree with earlier posts get as much experience as u can early on so when u hit college ull know what to do
 

THA REALNESS

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lost mine at 13

lol, not mine it was the best pusssy i ever had ,she was a brownish-hair,mellow-yellow,green-eyed,short and big-breasted,16-yr old,latina slut 4rom next door.I

I was actually 12 when i started kissing her and dry -humping her in the yard when no one was around .:D ,i even nutted 4 tha first time on her..lol..i just pulled my lil weiner and 4rosted her , i even got one of those testicular retractions thingies ,4 -2 minutes..while i made one of those porno moans,all the while she was laughing at me.
the night i fucced her our parents were out seeing some fire-works ,display so i went 2 her room and played video gaming felt her up a bit and went 2 sleep .When i woke up she just came out the shower and wastoweling down, i got an instant hard on .. and i just flipped i t out and threw her on the bed ,of course she was pissed cuz she knew i wanted sex now,not just a dry hump,so she threw me 2 the floor,and i started rubbing my **** on her feet ,then up her legs ,and she was just laughing as i tried 2 figure out how 2 put it in and then she just sighed and pull me inside her and started sucking on my neck and pinching my butt and doing fake moans ,the minute i felt that warm piece of flesh i started smiling and thrusted in her hard like 5 times and nutted inside her , she rubbed my hair and
kissed ny chesta while untill i fell asleep.
 

THA REALNESS

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btw

I SAY IF U WANNA BE DJ OR A PLAYER AND HAVEN'T FUCCED YET ,U MIGHT AS WELL GET IT OVER WITH AND GET A HOOKER!THERE JUST 2 MUCH PRESSURE ON U ,WATCH THE MINUTE U'LL YOU'LL EJACULATE YOU'LL MUCH MORE AT EASe.:D
 
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