Looking into eyes, collapsing into soul

[DanDaMan]

Have you ever looked into a girl's eyes while she looked into yours and then felt something that feels supernatural, that you both feel, and you feel like you look into your soul and they look into yours?

If so, have you ever had that happen with more than one person? What were the circumstances between the different people you had this happen with?

Thanks

 

[bigneil]

Yes that happens with strong mutual attraction. In general, if they hold eye contact more than 70% of the time they like you a lot. Also, if their pupils get bigger and you feel a connection, you found a good one. Remember - your pupils got bigger also.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Be very careful...

"If thou gaze long into an abyss, the abyss will also gaze into thee."

Nietzsche

 

[DanDaMan]

bigneil: Just to make sure we're talking about the same thing: You're talking about the point where you BOTH feel something "magical" at the same time and reach a different level of understanding, and it almost feels like the air goes whoosh (for a lack of better words?)

The reason I ask is because I had this with one girl and things didn't work out and I'm just wondering if people only have this with one person, or this level of magic clicking can happen with multiple women in one's lifetime?

 

[DCC]

bigneil: Just to make sure we're talking about the same thing: You're talking about the point where you BOTH feel something "magical" at the same time and reach a different level of understanding, and it almost feels like the air goes whoosh (for a lack of better words?)

The reason I ask is because I had this with one girl and things didn't work out and I'm just wondering if people only have this with one person, or this level of magic clicking can happen with multiple women in one's lifetime?

For what it's worth, I just got friendzoned by the first woman I've ever dated where this happened.

There were certain situations out of both of our control, however, and I'm climbing out of the trench I dug myself. A mutual friend informed me today that I need patience, though, so I'm riding it out for a while and just casually dating until the situation resolves itself.

 

[DanDaMan]

bump, bigneil?

 

[DanDaMan]

Last bump.

 

[AlexDP]

bigneil: Just to make sure we're talking about the same thing: You're talking about the point where you BOTH feel something "magical" at the same time and reach a different level of understanding, and it almost feels like the air goes whoosh (for a lack of better words?)

The reason I ask is because I had this with one girl and things didn't work out and I'm just wondering if people only have this with one person, or this level of magic clicking can happen with multiple women in one's lifetime?

It happens with lots of women. Don't worry, she's not special.

 

[DanDaMan]

It happens with lots of women. Don't worry, she's not special.

Hallelujah, mother****er!

On to the next ***** now... :rockon:

(BTW, I wasn't really thinking of this whole concept in the magical-world sense, but more in the sense of "does something inside your psyche close up or change when you experience this with one person, that you never get to experience it with another". I guess not. Thanks!)

 

[AlexDP]

Hallelujah, mother****er!

On to the next ***** now... :rockon:

(BTW, I wasn't really thinking of this whole concept in the magical-world sense, but more in the sense of "does something inside your psyche close up or change when you experience this with one person, that you never get to experience it with another". I guess not. Thanks!)

I understood what you meant. It is something special and it is a wonderful moment. But it does happen with several women in your life. Also, it ultimately means very little. Crazy women are often capable of creating these bonds and moments. It's a special moment, but it also only a moment.

 

[DanDaMan]

Crazy women are often capable of creating these bonds and moments.

What do you mean by the crazy women being capable of doing this? More likely than normal women? Why? Lol. Kind of funny.

 

[Tyson420]

Just means they're manipulative, they do it to either create a friendship bond or something more. It's not exclusive to something more intimate.

 

[DanDaMan]

**** manipulative women...

Thanks for all your help though fellas... Really helps!!!

 

[st_99]

Just means they're manipulative, they do it to either create a friendship bond or something more. It's not exclusive to something more intimate.

Unfortunately I have to agree with this. These chicks know what they are
doing.