Looking for signals...

[matius]

I got my arse handed to me after approaching a married girl at school today, let's just say it wasn't pretty and I had an audience looking on the whole time; that fully agreed that the temperature was well below freezing after the convo.

Ok I wasn't on point today, nor was I thinking on my feet because I offered no snappy retort to her coldnezz. I should have checked for the ring in addition. However, I've been reading a few articles that suggest you should never walk up to a girl unless she looks at you, smiles at you, ruffles her hair, etc...

How could this be if you are suppose to be machine gun talking to women all day. Do you believe that we should look for buying signals before approaching, or is the cold approach a necessity? I think it is because how else is she going to know you are in the room unless you make an attempt?

 

[marqZAL]

Well, you could have done the same exact thing to the next MILF and you could be banging her right now....wrong women!!!!, maybe wrong move, but I wouldnt dwell on it...

 

[matius]

Na, no way I'm dwelling. I took out a girl on Sunday, talked to a few women Monday and Tuesday- The date semi-successful, the approaches very ugly. Do I quit based on these three down days? Hell no, I learned some lessons and only get stronger.

 

[matius]

Well, you could have done the same exact thing to the next MILF and you could be banging her right now

It's not that easy for me to get a womans number and bang her just like that. I wish it was that easy- maybe it is for the kids on this board, but I find it takes work to actually get in the hole.

 

[Shadow Dancer]

Congrats man. Really, congrats. You just experienced a very low point in your quest to meet women. This a great thing! Cause it just shows you that no matter how bad it may go, you'll be okay! It's a liberating thing if you choose to see it that way. It won't get much worse than what you experienced so be happy.


As for your questions about approaching "coldly". I do it all the time. I approach who I want. Sometimes they've given me signals, sometimes not. I just do it. I've had success both ways and denials both ways.

 

[marqZAL]

As you get older it gets alot easier...women want sex just as much as you....