Thank you for keeping me in mind Brother Ken. It will not be forgotten.
Onto you youngblood mltpl_rndmns1 (Give me a name or pseudonym to refer to you. Your SS moniker is not a thorough reflection of who you are.), First I want to know exactly what issues you have with who YOU are.
Disregard any talk or worry about women. That will come later. We need to move you into a paradigm of flexibility where we can release your full masculine potential.
To get you into the proper mindset I want you to read these posts:
VICTORY UNLIMITED's surefire shortcut to self actualization
Joekerr's rules of life
Practicing what I preach
Motivation that you can do it too!
These will help get you started. I also want you to read the new DJ Bible as revamped by Brother KillaPeteHog (send me your email address so I can shoot it over to you).
Once you read over these you and I will get together and come up with a solid foundation for you to build your life.
Congratulations to you for knowing that you need help. We'll always help you with anything you need but YOU will need to work hard.
KarmaSutra
