look at the body it means more then words

[shyguy]

i see a bunch of posts about people asking questions, why she say this or how should i respond to that, is that no interest, is she interested etc. I think more of what you should be looking at as well is how she said it, meaning her body movement the tone of voice. remeber alot of times when you tel your friend something exciting and he gets all happy well he may just be happy for you but you can really tell if he is truly happy but the movemnt, his experession on his face watch closly it will say more then any words can say. so dont get discouraged when she responds in a way you dont like or wish she hadnt look on how she responded that will tell you what she really meant. quote that i like the eyes never lie, actions are more powerful then words. so go out ther and do your thing but remember dont always been 100 percent set on what is said but what is expressed non verbally.
shyguy

 

[Gaming111]

Good advice... Definitely worth a read for all those people asking others to "analyze this conversation and tell me how I'm doing" type of stuff.

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[Drew]

Sent to Tips.

 

[EpyonZer0]

This post to be honest...is dissapointing. The advice "Watch the Body, and don't listen to her words" is just plain trash- if you're gonna post, post the details like what parts of her body to keep and eye on etc.

 

[BigBill]

Oh come on man

you can tell if someone is bored by looking at them. you can tell if they are nervous, things like that. All the guy is saying is to look past the words and get the entire communication.

I can usually tell chatting on the net whether or not someone is happy, pissed off, irritated, tired ect. Just use your common sense and life experience to tell these things. All he's saying is focus in and pay attention to her non-verbal conversation.

 

[PoachR75]

THIS made it into the bible?

 

[Don Scotta]

I would agree that body language is a great interest indicator. I think that is just sort of something you should pick up through common sense/observation throughout life.

It amazes me that people can be 18+ and not know how to read body language. It just sorta stumps me.. I mean, if you looked at a dog and it was growling at you, would you think "hmm... i wonder if he wants me to pet him.." Not trying to be insulting, just pay attention.

Oh, and one more comment, some people know how to lie with their eyes, be careful!

[This message has been edited by Don Scotta (edited 04-04-2002).]