Long Term Material.

[RazzleDazzle]

Now i've been reading this forum for about a year and a half. The problem is i haven't dated anyone in 2 and a half years. Kinda lost interest with the whole opposite sex after the last crazy wench i was dating. She kinda ruined me mentally, turned me into a sissy AFC, and i have taken these last 2 years to recupporate. Now I am dating an intelligent, funny, beautiful girl and...well i am trying to tame myself. I don't want to rush things there by increasing the chance i F*** up so I'm keeping things slow and fun. I've only made out with this girl twice in the two weeks i've been seeing her. Maybe this isn't slow, i dunno. Truthfully i don't have enough long term relationship memories. Good ones at least. Now the good thing is she really digs me. Total 100% interest level from her.

Last night we went to a movie and i played some nice kino. I personally believe that just a little bit of touching and caressing is the best method. Nice and slow. It seemed to work well but on the car trip home and to a little stop off point . She was just lightly rubbing on my leg, mid thigh. Maybe it was just that but then again maybe she really really wanted the rod. I dunno. It's only the 4th time i've spent time with her i don't want to make love with her yet. I want to make this relationship a long term one because this girl is excellent material. Mentally I haven't found a screw loose yet. And i've been looking believe me.

Anyways i am 20 and she is 17. This is another reason why i don't want to rush things. Could anyone reflect some good long term relationship beginnings and am i handling this like a retard? or am i actually not doing to bad?

 

[Umbra]

Sounds like you're doing well. Keep a steady course, cruising speed. Nice and slow and fun. Good job. Keep it up, and she'll want to be your exclusive girlfriend before you know it. Don't have sex with her yet. She might try to initiate it as a test or because she really wants it, but she'll regret it was so soon when she thinks about it later. YOU be responsible for having the self-control. You're doing fine, man.

 

[RazzleDazzle]

awesome. that's what i like to hear!! I just needed to know the light i was following wasn't going to kill me.

 

[Premier]

You're doing excellent man. Nice and slow is my preferred method of taking things, and I believe is the best way to start up a LTR.

Just keep doing what you're doing and everything should go fine.

 

[ApocalypseCow]

Awesome job, RazzleDazzle. Whatever works, keep on doing it! I'm getting close to a LTR myself. It's so nice to finally find one girl who is hot, happy, and into me.

 

[RazzleDazzle]

That's sweet dude. I've never had a girl who actually deserves to be called a woman. Good luck with yours. Thanks for the congrats guys. This site is kool because of people like us. Honest, objective, and only a few idiots make fun of people on here, this forum is awesome.