rascal99v
Senior Don Juan
Don't make the mistake of investing way too much into a long distance relationship. Most of these relationships never tend to last or for that long. The more you invest into it, the more you have to lose.
The relationship becomes a novelty for the chick at first. But then after it goes along, it starts to wear off.
When you're not around, there are other dudes to keep her company. She doesn't get to see you as much as she likes to. She begins to think that it would be a lot better to have a dude closer to her. She starts to question the distance and doesn't put in much of an effort anymore. The guy then begins putting in more work as she distances herself. She begins spending time with another man while communicating less with you. Then you know what happens after that. Your relationship is over while you spent all your time appeasing her. And for what? You will be a distant memory.
There are other circumstances with moving because of a job that makes it long distance. That's a different story. Those relationships can work and so can some LDR's. But it takes a faithful chick who wants it to work to keep it strong. Most of the time, they say they do, but you find out they don't. That's when you lose.
So, in order for you not to lose, you should always keep your LDR as a long distance plate. You get pvssy on command in which you don't invest too much into it.
Always have other chicks in the mix when your LDR chick is not around. Never let your LDR be your only girl. That's a mistake that men will make. LDR chicks will be talking and even hanging out with other dudes behind your back. It's a huge epidemic with this in college when the chick leaves her boyfriend to go to school. So, always have other women available to you. Because at some point, she will be doing the same to you.
Always have your LDR come to see you as much as possible. That way, you aren't putting in much of a effort. You're getting laid and you don't have to deal with the distance. Highly interested chicks will come to see you no matter what. So, let her use up her gas and mile up her car to come see you.
Guys will make the terrible mistake of always going to see her instead. When you do that, it makes it easier for the chick to make excuses not to come to see you. That's what she will expect from you because you made a habit of it.
So, have her come to see you. Then after she leaves your place, you have other chicks to fill in the rest of the time with. So, you're just adding another chick who happens to be farther away. That's why you have her come to see you as much as possible. If you start getting excuses or resistance, then that's when you end the whole thing.
Some people will say what's the point of it? Well, when you're banging a hot chick who's coming to see you, who cares how far she is coming as long as you're not putting in all the effort. You get great sex, can use her for the weekend, or nights during the week, and she's coming over to you. So, I don't see a problem in that. Sex is a given even when you go to see her. You can make a day or two out of it having sex and staying in. Which you don't have to spend money going on dates. Keep it strictly sexual for as long as you can.
Never start an LDR that involves plane travel or takes several hours by car.
Always get the most out of your LDR chick in the first few months. This is important. The relationship will be fresh and you can use her as much as you can. You won't get a Long Distance Runaround doing it this way.
Now, if you've been in a LTR that turns into a LDR, you don't want to go banging new chicks. But always have other options ready just in case your girlfriend breaks up with you a few months later. This advice is for getting in a new LDR that should be a LDP. A long distance plate instead.
Below is more information from a comment that I posted from a previous thread that I helped a guy with his LDR problem. It works with this thread since there have been more posts about LDR's on here recently.
This happens in any relationship. Doesn't mater how far away it is. The more you put in, the less you get. The harder you work, the more you invest. The more you are doing, shows you are not in control. The person doing the least amount is the one in charge. Betas always put in more effort than a woman ever does. You will fail every time when you try to make a chick invest more into a relationship. Her feelings and attraction is not there. She should be investing more into it on her own. Even more so for an LDR. You should be putting in less than a chick.You can't have an LDR with a chick who has low IL. You won't get laid. You won't get what you want out of it. It won't work.
Some guys say to stay away from LDR's. I say that's lame.
If you know what you're doing, it works out very well. When you can get some good pvssy out of it, it's all worth it.
LDR's should be strictly used for fvck buddy relationships. Nothing else. Never invest too heavily into an LDR because it will bite you in the ass. Always put in the minimal effort. Make the chick come to see you as much as you can. She should be willing to come to you a lot early in the relationship. Chicks interest in LDR's will fade depending on the dude or what other dudes she has nearby. So, get the most out of it in the first few months.
LDR's are good because you can mix them in with your other plates. Sex is a given and you can use her for the whole weekend if you want. You need to be in contact more than a chick that lives close by. Don't go days without talking because she will have other dudes hitting her up. If you're silent, she will have those dudes to keep her company. Communication is important in an LDR so talk or text just about everyday or other day.
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Don't let your LDR be your only chick. You're asking for trouble when you do that. Always have other chicks to date and bang besides her. Chicks in LDR's can easily lie and cheat on you. You're not around to know what's really going on. That's why you use her as much as you can in the beginning. The show is over if you get excuses, her refusing to come, or can sense low IL. You need to dump. That means she's found another dude close by. She's just waiting for the right time to dump you. You will have had your fun with her, but you will have other chicks to keep you occupied.
I've done a couple of LDR's and got over a year max with both. The chicks were cool and I was always doing less. I used them for weekends (or whenever) and just used them as long distance plates. Worked well for me and I got what I wanted out of it.
My friend had a relationship turn into an LDR. He had to move for work but it worked out for him. His girlfriend is great and they made it work. They are getting married in December. Knew a couple of other guys who had them. The chicks ended up cheating on both. They fvcked up because they were doing more and was the only chick they had. They invested in it too much. Which is why they both failed.
I had a chick come over last night who lives an hour away. We fvcked for a few hours and she ended up spending the night. She even made me an awesome breakfast this morning. I didn't have to pay one dime. She did all the driving and used up her gas.
Just don't invest too much into it and you should do good. I really wouldn't seek out an LDR because there are plenty of chicks close by. But when you're getting pvssy on command, then who cares how far it's coming. Right?
The relationship becomes a novelty for the chick at first. But then after it goes along, it starts to wear off.
When you're not around, there are other dudes to keep her company. She doesn't get to see you as much as she likes to. She begins to think that it would be a lot better to have a dude closer to her. She starts to question the distance and doesn't put in much of an effort anymore. The guy then begins putting in more work as she distances herself. She begins spending time with another man while communicating less with you. Then you know what happens after that. Your relationship is over while you spent all your time appeasing her. And for what? You will be a distant memory.
There are other circumstances with moving because of a job that makes it long distance. That's a different story. Those relationships can work and so can some LDR's. But it takes a faithful chick who wants it to work to keep it strong. Most of the time, they say they do, but you find out they don't. That's when you lose.
So, in order for you not to lose, you should always keep your LDR as a long distance plate. You get pvssy on command in which you don't invest too much into it.
Always have other chicks in the mix when your LDR chick is not around. Never let your LDR be your only girl. That's a mistake that men will make. LDR chicks will be talking and even hanging out with other dudes behind your back. It's a huge epidemic with this in college when the chick leaves her boyfriend to go to school. So, always have other women available to you. Because at some point, she will be doing the same to you.
Always have your LDR come to see you as much as possible. That way, you aren't putting in much of a effort. You're getting laid and you don't have to deal with the distance. Highly interested chicks will come to see you no matter what. So, let her use up her gas and mile up her car to come see you.
Guys will make the terrible mistake of always going to see her instead. When you do that, it makes it easier for the chick to make excuses not to come to see you. That's what she will expect from you because you made a habit of it.
So, have her come to see you. Then after she leaves your place, you have other chicks to fill in the rest of the time with. So, you're just adding another chick who happens to be farther away. That's why you have her come to see you as much as possible. If you start getting excuses or resistance, then that's when you end the whole thing.
Some people will say what's the point of it? Well, when you're banging a hot chick who's coming to see you, who cares how far she is coming as long as you're not putting in all the effort. You get great sex, can use her for the weekend, or nights during the week, and she's coming over to you. So, I don't see a problem in that. Sex is a given even when you go to see her. You can make a day or two out of it having sex and staying in. Which you don't have to spend money going on dates. Keep it strictly sexual for as long as you can.
Never start an LDR that involves plane travel or takes several hours by car.
Always get the most out of your LDR chick in the first few months. This is important. The relationship will be fresh and you can use her as much as you can. You won't get a Long Distance Runaround doing it this way.
Now, if you've been in a LTR that turns into a LDR, you don't want to go banging new chicks. But always have other options ready just in case your girlfriend breaks up with you a few months later. This advice is for getting in a new LDR that should be a LDP. A long distance plate instead.
Below is more information from a comment that I posted from a previous thread that I helped a guy with his LDR problem. It works with this thread since there have been more posts about LDR's on here recently.
This happens in any relationship. Doesn't mater how far away it is. The more you put in, the less you get. The harder you work, the more you invest. The more you are doing, shows you are not in control. The person doing the least amount is the one in charge. Betas always put in more effort than a woman ever does. You will fail every time when you try to make a chick invest more into a relationship. Her feelings and attraction is not there. She should be investing more into it on her own. Even more so for an LDR. You should be putting in less than a chick.You can't have an LDR with a chick who has low IL. You won't get laid. You won't get what you want out of it. It won't work.
Some guys say to stay away from LDR's. I say that's lame.
If you know what you're doing, it works out very well. When you can get some good pvssy out of it, it's all worth it.
LDR's should be strictly used for fvck buddy relationships. Nothing else. Never invest too heavily into an LDR because it will bite you in the ass. Always put in the minimal effort. Make the chick come to see you as much as you can. She should be willing to come to you a lot early in the relationship. Chicks interest in LDR's will fade depending on the dude or what other dudes she has nearby. So, get the most out of it in the first few months.
LDR's are good because you can mix them in with your other plates. Sex is a given and you can use her for the whole weekend if you want. You need to be in contact more than a chick that lives close by. Don't go days without talking because she will have other dudes hitting her up. If you're silent, she will have those dudes to keep her company. Communication is important in an LDR so talk or text just about everyday or other day.
.
Don't let your LDR be your only chick. You're asking for trouble when you do that. Always have other chicks to date and bang besides her. Chicks in LDR's can easily lie and cheat on you. You're not around to know what's really going on. That's why you use her as much as you can in the beginning. The show is over if you get excuses, her refusing to come, or can sense low IL. You need to dump. That means she's found another dude close by. She's just waiting for the right time to dump you. You will have had your fun with her, but you will have other chicks to keep you occupied.
I've done a couple of LDR's and got over a year max with both. The chicks were cool and I was always doing less. I used them for weekends (or whenever) and just used them as long distance plates. Worked well for me and I got what I wanted out of it.
My friend had a relationship turn into an LDR. He had to move for work but it worked out for him. His girlfriend is great and they made it work. They are getting married in December. Knew a couple of other guys who had them. The chicks ended up cheating on both. They fvcked up because they were doing more and was the only chick they had. They invested in it too much. Which is why they both failed.
I had a chick come over last night who lives an hour away. We fvcked for a few hours and she ended up spending the night. She even made me an awesome breakfast this morning. I didn't have to pay one dime. She did all the driving and used up her gas.
Just don't invest too much into it and you should do good. I really wouldn't seek out an LDR because there are plenty of chicks close by. But when you're getting pvssy on command, then who cares how far it's coming. Right?
