Living at home.....

[Matt Rogers]

OK. Im living at home right now. Just graduated from college and while my job pays ok, most of my income goes towards paying off my loan leaving little to afford to pay rent. I should have the loans down to a reasonable level by end of this year but till then need some advice on how to DJ without living at home cramping my style too much.

I can afford the occasional hotel as Im not about one night stands and usually only sleep with a girl if I think there is the potential of a relationship.
But the thing I find difficult is getting the girl into bed because without your own place it is hard to get some privacy.

At university it was easier as I could just invite her to my university room to watch a movie or something and then make out and take things from there.

But now I don't have my own place I do not have that option. While we can make out and stuff in a club or a quiet bar which gives quite a bit of privacy Im never sure the best way to suggest we go to a hotel or something. The few girls i have slept with since graduating all basically invited me home with them, but obviously most girls won't do that.

So in my situation how do I move from making out to getting her into a hotel room?

 

[banGbro]

Hmm, thats easy. Ask her to go to her place to watch a funny movie. If asked why not yours, tell her truth. If she says her place no good, take her hand and lead her to a hotel, or motel, depending on quality of women you got.


Your situation is easy, mine is not that easy. No work, have car but license bad, and no money. Try just keeping positive attitude with that.

 

[G-Theory]

As far as bringing a girl back home, if you are okay with it, she will be too. Just remember what it was like sneaking girls into the house and having your way with them when the folks were asleep. Its the same scenario and can add a dynamic of excitement to the encounter (plus, let's face it, it's not like you've been a bum since high school and are completely mooching off of the rents. You have a job, and a degree. What's the big deal? I bet your parents f*ck all the time when they think you are asleep. Time for some payback!).

You could tell the woman you just moved back in town and are staying at your rents house. You could tell a woman you are just visiting and staying at your rents. You could interchange "staying at your rents" to "staying at a hotel". You could say you just got back in town and are sleeping on a friend's couch, "he has a couple of kids so I think it would be better if we go back to your place." Be creative and remember, "It's not lying its flirting."