Ok...well it's been about a month or so since I joined this site. I've posted a couple times and have read a crap load of stuff, given some advice to others.
Ok...I make it a point everyday to read the Librito thread "the truth about women" in the Tips section. Great thread and it helps get my mind straight to not put women on a pedestal. The more you read it the more it sinks in and you look at women more out of pity and you kind of laugh things off and it helps me get the mindset that I'm doing them a favor.
Anyway I wanted to say a couple things and ask a question or two.
First..went out the other night. i was shooting pool and I know the bouncer at the bar so I went to say Hi to him and he's standing at the beer tub. the beer tub girl instantly thrusts her hand out and is like "Hi whats your name"...I respond...."my name is shyguy". She then tells me her name and I say nice to meet you and continue the convo with the bouncer. Then i go back to shooting pool.
Ok this is where I don't know whether I'm just imagining things or what....but I glance over and I swear she's looking at me so I make some EC and she smiles...I continue playing pool. Now this chick is an 8 at least I would say....so after a little while of playing pool I'm walking by so I stop and say hi again and
shyguy: Hey hows it going
BTG: good....are you good at pool
shyguy: I'm ok what about you?
BTG: I know how to play but I'm on a losing streak right now!
shyguy: Ohh...well I would ask you to partner up with me later, but I don't want a loser on my team
BTG: (has a look on her face that says I can't believe you just callled me a loser)....I never said I was a loser I said I was on a losing streak..
shyguy: (laughing) well I have to get back to my friends I'll talk to you later.
that was pretty much the only other convo we had that night, but since I intorduced myself at the beginning of the night every time I would walk by she would say "Hi shyguy" and smile.
I never tried to number close, because the chick works there and I figured there would be plenty of time for that in the future.
Ok...I make it a point everyday to read the Librito thread "the truth about women" in the Tips section. Great thread and it helps get my mind straight to not put women on a pedestal. The more you read it the more it sinks in and you look at women more out of pity and you kind of laugh things off and it helps me get the mindset that I'm doing them a favor.
Anyway I wanted to say a couple things and ask a question or two.
First..went out the other night. i was shooting pool and I know the bouncer at the bar so I went to say Hi to him and he's standing at the beer tub. the beer tub girl instantly thrusts her hand out and is like "Hi whats your name"...I respond...."my name is shyguy". She then tells me her name and I say nice to meet you and continue the convo with the bouncer. Then i go back to shooting pool.
Ok this is where I don't know whether I'm just imagining things or what....but I glance over and I swear she's looking at me so I make some EC and she smiles...I continue playing pool. Now this chick is an 8 at least I would say....so after a little while of playing pool I'm walking by so I stop and say hi again and
shyguy: Hey hows it going
BTG: good....are you good at pool
shyguy: I'm ok what about you?
BTG: I know how to play but I'm on a losing streak right now!
shyguy: Ohh...well I would ask you to partner up with me later, but I don't want a loser on my team
BTG: (has a look on her face that says I can't believe you just callled me a loser)....I never said I was a loser I said I was on a losing streak..
shyguy: (laughing) well I have to get back to my friends I'll talk to you later.
that was pretty much the only other convo we had that night, but since I intorduced myself at the beginning of the night every time I would walk by she would say "Hi shyguy" and smile.
I never tried to number close, because the chick works there and I figured there would be plenty of time for that in the future.
