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[rees26]

Have any of youu where men or women ever just felt like done?
I mean finished with ti all. You know, you see hot chicks, admire them but you always realize that, yeah a night with them would be great but then I have to make an effort. Talk to them, ask them how they are doing and how they feel. What a waste of my and their time. Women are such complicated creatures and I have no time for complications. Eat? sometimes, sleep? when I can. It's just to musch work. if it wasn't for the testosterone I would be a monk. Ok, so now I have to think about when should I call her. And if things aren't working then I should go online and figure it out by posting some comment, yeah that will help. It's just too much shlt. I got enough things to worry about. It's a freakin game that god has played on me. He says, "you want the pvssy but you have to have the rest" I think I just want to give up.
How do you guys keep it going?
With all the other shlt to do and try to impress someone, fvck it!

 

[rees26]

You worry too much. That's your problem. You worry about your other shyt. You worry about not seeing any results from the effort you put into meeting girls. You worry about feeling uncomfortable. You worry about formalities.

I'm not going to tell you that it's easy to eliminate your worries. It's one thing I notice that I can't seem to get other people to understand. Worrying seems to be so ingrained and such a part of their lives that it's become who they are and what defines them as a person. I do believe that there's always the possibility that they could one day find themselves living their lives free from worries. However, it's something that they will have to find on their own.

You decide man. Decide on whether to give up, or decide on whether to actively make your life more fulfilling and enjoyable.

ofcourse I realize that it would be alot eaisier if I was Homer Simpson, and I had Marge and the boy and all i cared about was my next doughnut, but the point as you say "I am worried" the truth is I am not, YOU ARE. Worried about when your going to get laid next, worried about whether you said the right thing, worried about what you should buy for her. What I'm saying is is I bet monks get laid ALOT! You know why cause they have patience fvck the game, fvck trying, do your thing and let them come to you and if they don't? FVck THEM too!

 

[rees26]

This is where you've misunderstood me. I'm not trying to attack you here. If you've read some of my posts, you would notice that I've never seeked for any advice as to what I should do with a girl. I don't worry about that sort of shyt anymore, even before I came on here. I do not fear the rejection. I do not fear failing. I do not fear being alone. This allows me total freedom to pick up girls whichever way I see fit for myself. It may very well go against all the DJ principals, but I don't care because I am NOT worried of losing.

Reflecting on your response, I have strong doubts that you will be able to find much enjoyment in the things you do. I can very well come to the same conclusion as you. Fvck the game, fvck trying, just let them hotties come to me. In fact, most of the time, I'm like that. I only try to hit on girls on a few occassions. I don't try too hard. I'd rather they like me for my quirks and individuality than anything else. And if they don't like me, so be it. I don't really care. I feel that way and am at total peace with myself. You seem to still be in search of answers. Answers which you just can't seem to find. You've almost given up searching. But that doesn't change the fact that you still don't have the answers.

I don't have ALL the answers but I am comfortable with myself. I have a full life and if it wasn't for feeling the need to have relationships, (testosterone), I would be fine. It is this primal male drive that makes us go crazy and gives women the uper hand. i guess what I'm saying is that I'm trying to learn how to control it. I figured that as I got older the drive would lessen, and it has, sort of. I was with a girl last night and I could have pushed the issue and got her in to bed, like I would usually do, but instead I refrained and I was happy with that. Ofcourse her teasing got me worked up but I know how to take care of that. The point is are guys only in relationships for sex? Because I really don't see any other reason for them, and if men can just control their "drive" wouldn't we have the upper hand?
I appreciate your comments and discussion.