Listen to the crap this girl is trying to pull...

[KG33]

A girl I nexted a few months ago sends me a text message basically asking for my forgiveness and telling me she has changed. I'm at work and bored so I chat with her a little.

After texting a few minutes she says "You know why I like you? Because you don't let me get away with stuff. Most guys let me walk all over them".

Okay, I know a lot of you are thinking that this is a good thing but here's the deal... This chick is a HB6 at best. The fact that she would even think I would believe there are a bunch of guys out there who are willing to put up with her $hit is just insulting.

In reality, she was totally trying to make a power play by giving a fake apology. She was basically saying "There are lots of guys out there who want me, so you shoud feel priviliged that I'm giving you a chance to get back with me".

Yeah, ok...

 

[Kirro]

Ignore.......IGnore........IGNORE this cvnt. Don't respond just cut her out of your life completely.

This is a flag so red bulls worldwide are acting up.

 

[Tiguere]

She may be saying the truth.

 

[Falcon25]

Ummmmm...........I don't think you realize what's going on here. HB4's have HUNDREDS of guys after them. ......Maybe even HB3's. Girls have no trouble lining up guys. Don't ever think that because a girl is ugly to YOU, that she doesn't have SOMEONE ELSE.

 

[teacha]

...she's hit a dry spell, that's why she's contacting you now.

 

[f283000]

...she's hit a dry spell, that's why she's contacting you now.

good post.

There's a list of reasons why a girl from your past will contact you

1. Hit a dry spell: If she had guys trying to get at her she would be too busy reveling in their attention to contact you.
2. Is craving attention: They need to constantly have some chump that is willing to hear them out and put up with their bs.
3. Wants to see if she's still "got it:" This is a tactic often done by an ex/girls from ltrs/girls that dumped you, who will get in touch with you to see if you still want them to boost their egos.
4. Wants to get revenge on you by playing with your mind/feelings: Probably the most common reason why females from your past will get in touch with you. They don't really want you or would ever let you have them again, they just want to f**** with your mind a bit.
5. Wants to turn you into her girlfriend: She wants to be your buddy but don't even think of ever getting with her again she has you in the friend zone and that's exactly where she wants you to punish you in her mind.
6. Actually wants to get back with you: Very rare from what I've seen.

Please add more to the list. Reason #6 (she actually wants to get back with you) is possible but is very rare. Most of the time a girl gets in touch with you again after things were done between you she has some mischievous reasons.

 

[FairShake]

It's called game.

 

[Igetit!]

Well I'm with Tiguere and Falcon. She may be telling the truth,and like Falcon said,I doubt that finding some guy who's interest in her is a problem.

Just because she's not a 8 or a 9 doesn't mean she doesn't have guys interested in her.

A girl I nexted a few months ago sends me a text message basically asking for my forgiveness and telling me she has changed. I'm at work and bored so I chat with her a little.

What did she want forgiveness for?

After texting a few minutes she says "You know why I like you? Because you don't let me get away with stuff. Most guys let me walk all over them".

Okay, I know a lot of you are thinking that this is a good thing but here's the deal... This chick is a HB6 at best.

You say "she's an hb6 at best" as if that's a bad thing.

Two things you need to consider....

1:What you consider to be a "6",other guy may consider to be a 7 or even higher. Heck,even on this forum we differ on what number a girl may be. That's been proven time and time again.

And let's say that you're right,and that she indeed is a 6.

Uhh...so? On a scale of 1 to 10,a 5 is average,right? And YOU gave her a 6. So according to even YOU,she's higher than average.


And 2:This is a girl that YOU nexted. You YOURSELF nexted the girl. So if you nexted her,then that means that at one point in time,YOU were after her YOURSELF. And you have the nerve to think that just because she's a 6 that that means she doesn't have other guys after her? Some of which who probably would put up with her "sh!t".


If she was good enough to YOU to pursue at one point,(and I assume you think the girls you pursue are attractive),then don't think that she's not good enough for some other guy to go after as well.

In reality, she was totally trying to make a power play by giving a fake apology.

Ok,why would she do this? You said that you two haven't been in contact with each other for months. You went on with your life,and let's assume she went on with hers.

So she out of the blue,called you up to give you a fake apology,trying to make a "power play" in order for what to happen?

This power play is to get what? To achieve what?


I do believe she had a motive for contacting you again,but I don't think it was to tell you about how many other guys are after her so you'd feel privilaged to date her yourself.

 

[nismo-4]

Ummmmm...........I don't think you realize what's going on here. HB4's have HUNDREDS of guys after them. ......Maybe even HB3's. Girls have no trouble lining up guys. Don't ever think that because a girl is ugly to YOU, that she doesn't have SOMEONE ELSE.

Ain't no maybes there Falcon, HB3's have hundreds of guys after them! I'll even go as far to say that fatties, uglies, 80 year olds, and HB1's (Is that an oxymoron?) have hundreds of guys after them! And the HB8+'s, they've got a phone just for guys who want them! As long as pu$$y has the high market value that it does and the overpopulation of desperate males keeps rising, women will continue to choose what men are right for them.

That's why there's that IHABF line. Whether or not she does, she's just not that into you. Point is, women don't get hurt when they're dumped, the feign their pain just like they can feign interest or orgasms! The only way a woman gets hurt (And even then it ain't long before she gets over it) is if a very desirable male rejects her.

And f283000 got a great point too!

 

[everywomanshero]

I hear what some of you guys are saying, and there was a time where I scratched my head and pondered the same thing... do women really have it so much easier?

The answer is no.... something about the funk of thinking that way drives women away like mad, though. Then it seems like women have all the choices, and guys so few. The thing is the guy who doesnt ponder these things doesnt go into this funk and experiences something wildly different.

All the women are unhappy and trying to get with him! You have to take a broader world view and not make sweeping generalizations based on limited, negative experience. There are female virgins in their late 20s for god's sake. Nice looking, employed and educated women. I personally know of 2 such people with one being highly attractive and one being passably attractive.

I also knew of a girl with a nice face but very, very overweight. There was a time when she had 3-4 non-fattie guys after her. Well now she's got divorced because she thought she had all these guys after her and most of em high tailed it when she became available for more than just sex. Like I said, look for the bigger picture, get more experience, get to know more women.

 

[Falcon25]

I love NISMO's post. hahaha, isn't it crazy? Even HB 1's have like twenty fat guys after them. Here we are, good looking guys, and we are lucky to spin six or seven girls...... hahhaha love that post Nismo. Can't stop laughing. Very rare for a girl to cry over you unlesss you have her mind fuvked or you are a great looking guy.

 

[f283000]

I love NISMO's post. hahaha, isn't it crazy? Even HB 1's have like twenty fat guys after them. Here we are, good looking guys, and we are lucky to spin six or seven girls...... hahhaha love that post Nismo. Can't stop laughing. Very rare for a girl to cry over you unlesss you have her mind fuvked or you are a great looking guy.

true and dating sites are a perfect example of this. For example you will find females with profiles which are basic self confessions on how they are b|tches and proud of it and also happen to be single moms with 2 kids. Who do these women think they are to be acting like they are something special???? Even with all those red flags these girls get tons of messages every day and every week.

Milfs are a perfect example of this. Maybe a decade or 2 ago nobody gave a s*** about them and look at all the power they have now.

I personally wouldn't worry about it too much. Things will be going back to normal as the economy collapses and all these independent and confident women go back to looking for the safety net of a man taking care of them. It's how it is in every country except western countries (used to be that way there too)