Lines to get a number in public places

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Hey let’s all say lines to perform in public places, me beign a nice guy still don’t know a lot, so what lines would you guys say, if you see a hot ass babe in the library or in the subway, what would you say to her??
 
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When you say a "bit of a chunk" do you mean fat/out of shape? If so, it might be better for your confidence to not approach top-tier women and work on yourself first.
 

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When you say a "bit of a chunk" do you mean fat/out of shape? If so, it might be better for your confidence to not approach top-tier women and work on yourself first.
No, I’m actually quite in shape, I have gone to the gym for 3 years now, and I have confidence in my body, is that I’ve always been a Nice guy, sorry for terminology, and actually don’t know how to approach women
 

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No, I’m actually quite in shape, I have gone to the gym for 3 years now, and I have confidence in my body, is that I’ve always been a Nice guy, sorry for terminology, and actually don’t know how to approach women
Just strike up a conversation "by accident"

"Excuse me, do you know how many books we're allowed to take out? I've never come here before" You can gauge her reaction from something harmless like that, it's low risk, if she smiles/seems interested you can ask some more questions, what she's reading, freestyle into whatever. But if she is cold/blunt, you "thanks" and keep it moving.

I've never approached in a library or subway but this kind of approach is what I usually do, harmless intro segued into a "thanks" and gone or more banter/flirting depending on her response/body language (eye contact/smile/body positioning/tone).

It's just about being perceptive in the moment and knowing if you have an opportunity or not.
 

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Just strike up a conversation "by accident"

"Excuse me, do you know how many books we're allowed to take out? I've never come here before" You can gauge her reaction from something harmless like that, it's low risk, if she smiles/seems interested you can ask some more questions, what she's reading, freestyle into whatever. But if she is cold/blunt, you "thanks" and keep it moving.

I've never approached in a library or subway but this kind of approach is what I usually do, harmless intro segued into a "thanks" and gone or more banter/flirting depending on her response/body language (eye contact/smile/body positioning/tone).

It's just about being perceptive in the moment and knowing if you have an opportunity or not.
Yeah, good idea, probably not the same approaching in this kind of area than you would in a bar, you have to be more discreet
 

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Hey let’s all say lines to perform in public places
Lines to perform in public places? I'm guessing your awkward phrasing might be because English isn't your first language, but I want to point out the deeper significance of the words you chose here.

It's easy for men to mistakenly think of pickup/seduction/flirting/etc. as a performance guided by specific lines like a script (i.e. a late-2000s Mystery Method "routine stack" lol) as if they have to fake some sort of role like an actor in a movie. The best way to get girls, however, is to get to a point where you're expressing yourself authentically and unapologetically. Memorizing lines is a crutch used by insecure men who are too scared of someone potentially giving them negative feedback on their true selves.

The absolute best "line" to say is whatever comes to your mind in that very moment. When you see that "hot ass babe" in the library or subway, force yourself to just walk over to her to start a conversation. In those short seconds of you walking up to her, what are you imagining to say to her? Just say that.

Even if the words that come out of your mouth end up being awkward as hell, that's still better than any canned pickup lines you practiced in the mirror. Even if you embarrass yourself and she rejects you, that is still a chance for you to desensitize yourself to that negative feedback that all those losers are scared of. Do this again and again and you will eventually start getting smoother, bolder, and more confident. You will get more and more authentic and unapologetic in your approaches. You will start recognizing patterns of what works and what doesn't work.

If you can't think of anything on the spot, the universal opener is "hi" or "hello." After that, go back to the same strategy of saying whatever comes to your mind in that moment. At this point it is more important for you to get used to putting yourself out there and interacting with women as much as you can before you try to tailor a specific style or method of seduction.
 

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Just be fun and flirty. Nothing more to it. Depends on the individual chick but anything can be the opener. What really matters is what you say after and the vibe you give off.

Approach is too easy these days. Id say jus go out and practice. What works for me might not work for you anyways.

Edit: when i really think about it.. i notice on my approaches i tend to say somethung flirty or fun / not serious almost every other sentence. So its like havin a normal convo, askin key and suggestive questions because youre obviously not there for small talk, but every other line being playful. Depending on what cues or feedback i get i might jus escalate right then or there..

Nothing is more satisfying then kiss closing a girl you just met and or instadates/sex close.to me numbers are boring at this point.. yeah numbers are cool but if nothing happens within 3 days i dont even think about the chick anymore lol

In the club/bar scene im jus a savage. Public u gotta be a bit more conversational and not too ready to rip off panties n sht
 
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Just be fun and flirty. Nothing more to it. Depends on the individual chick but anything can be the opener. What really matters is what you say after and the vibe you give off.
Perfect advice.

In the club/bar scene im jus a savage. Public u gotta be a bit more conversational and not too ready to rip off panties n sht
Daygame style approaches tend to be more serious and less overtly sexual. In daygame approaches, being fun and flirty is good, but it's not as immediately sexual. It's almost impossible to do a daygame approach, set up an instantaneous date, and get same day sex. An approach at 11:30 AM on a Saturday in a park or mall isn't going to lead to sex at 3 PM on a Saturday. An approach at 11:30 PM in a nightlife venue on a Saturday night can lead to sex by 1-2 AM early Sunday morning.
 
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