Pursuit of women? Yeah i used to be like that... used to love the thrill of the chase, and often just aim to have women want me badly and get them in the state that i know i could take things all the way if i desired. I think this is a particular stage of DJ where you've been introduced to the concepts, you've had a bit of experience, its starting to work for you and now your just having fun with it seeing how far you can take things- what challenges you can overcome. Sounds a bit like c0ck-teasing girls.
But then, you will change again, and realise- F$%k chasing women! WTF? You think i've got time to invest in chasing some woman? I'm too busy for that. I've got much better things to do. Heck, i can't believe i even considered spending my invaluable time doing something so outrageous.
Instead you start doing so much more things that are more productive and beneficial in life. And you may think "oh, i'm not working on my game to get women, i won't get any!" And that is a misconception. Without realising you infact make yourself far more appealing to the female species. Soon you will discover more worthy women who are far less likely to play games, flake, turn out as psycho's etc. and who are genuinely interested in you for who you really are.
So yeah, get in this state, and then you don't ever have to worry about 'should i purse this women' its just not an issue.
Cheers,
f.