Life in College vs Life after it, when is it actually easier to get laid?

[Canterbury Storytell]

I have heard a lot of things about both.

1. Life in college is awesome. Amazing girl to guy ratios and you will never be surrounded by so many good looking girls your entire life. It is so easy to get laid in college while life after it is difficult.

2. Life after college is better. In college you are limited by things like not being involved in Greek Life which will stop you from getting decent looking girls. Also things like cold approach are not appreciated in college.

Why don't you guys give your experience on the matter?

 

[Crazystarf]

It depends on the person really. While college game may work for some, it may not really work for others. The best thing to do if college game isn't working is to acquire resources (job, money, fitness) and proceed from there.

**** I never got laid while in college so my best hope is to get laid after it.

 

[crossedup]

College is easier objectively. Ive never seen so many guys with SOME minimal game score HB9s in other venues. Even in college I was propositioned for sex 2-3 times, with average looks(4-5/10), money status, or game. Post-college is ultimately easier for AFC late bloomers like myself that begin to earn some money, status, and really work on self improvement.

I take the same stance here. I would also say if you are a good looking guy who used college to party and find girls to f*ck, then you will peak at college. If you avoided all that, and weren't that good looking on top of it. Well, then it may be easier after college depending on how hard you work.

For me, college was convenient. Girls were all around me and I didn't have to go on stupid dates or really go out of my way to meet girls. After college, you have to make more of an effort to get out there. Frankly, I don't have time to do this and I don't really care enough to find a girl I have to put up with for a few hours at the least, just to stick my d*ck in her. I don't want a girlfriend because it would be a huge distraction while working 50 hours a week and going back for grad school full time. My time is precious, and I would rather work, work out, play basketball, and see my friends with my spare time and maybe find someone at a party, which I have had decent success with. Broads have always been a waste of my time unless getting physical. Guys are far funnier and more interesting for conversation. Haha my family does not understand me.

Anyways, after college, if your social circle includes only guys and the occasional 5 or 6 pops up every now and then, life is difficult sexually in my experience so far, cuz I don't really want the 5 or 6, but options are so damn limited. I'm a pretty successful guy so far after college (good looks, great job , good money, fancy car) but hot girls are still incredibly difficult to get unless in social circle.

 

[Canterbury Storytell]

the only guys I see scoring with 9s in college are football players or top tier fraternity guys, I do not see your average guy scoring with the good looking girls in college

 

[Canterbury Storytell]

Wow, the poll is tied which means we might have a good debate on it. I think that getting laid is easier in college if you are talking average looking girls (the ones not in the big sororities). Problem is, the good looking girls you see on most college campuses are out of the reach of most men regardless of looks, game, and confidence. Reason being status reigns supreme so she would rather **** a 5/10 guy that is in a big fraternity or a football player over a GDI (guy not in a fraternity) with really good looks.

 

[Mr Wright]

Might be biased here in the UK, part of a rugby team and from my experience getting laid is not hard. To the point where sometimes I've seen girls basically pimped out, as in "that guy needs to get laid, go with him".

You dont get so much access to drunk chicks so close to your bed. If you can escalate and have any sort of social value you're in. In other words, join a sports team, I know fat guys, balding guys in their 20s and other undeseriable guys who shag decent girls simply because of who they hang around with.

Guys coming into college/university get lied to and they think with a bit of game they'll be fine. Firstly, if you have a big social circle at college, you will bang those chicks because thats just how it is, it's where most people meet girls. Secondly "cold approach" can be made warm by just part of a club or something, from what I've seen, unless you have really good game, you're going to be fighting a losing battle.

Not blowing my own trumpet but my ex is one of the hottest on campus, cold approach in a bar or whatever, I would have had no chance. But because we had the same friends and the repeat factor, we ended up together.

 

[synergy1]

Overall I have had more success after college than while in college. When I was attending college I hadn't worked out much and I didn't really have very good game. The irony is that I have had more success with college girls AFTER college than I did while in college. How did that work out? Probably that I actually had a job, had some game, was in better shape...all the stuff we talk about. I was even going home with women in college at age 31 and I don't really pride myself at being the best at the whole game.

College in a way was a bit of torture having no access to the hordes of super hot women. I wasn't in a position of super great status and not really being in shape didn't help. No or limited game didn't help either. I remember my friend from junior year who was a LAX player and moved in - this kid just had it going on. Fun to chat with, had girls dropping **** off and ****ing him all the time. He was a natural at it. Seeing that made it hard for a guy like me who had to pretty much start at the ground level.

Guys in college who aren't having success - start building how you approach women now. Go out to the parties and try until you get it. It will come with time and now you have better opportunities than you will later. Watch the guys who are good, try new things.

 

[Zarky]

Depends entirely on who you are and the college you go to. Some colleges are wild and free, some are uptight and super-nerdy.