I think it is time I made one of these... I really help the fellow Dj's on this forum will assist me as I endeavour to achieve what I want in life.
I am 18 (turned 18 under 2 weeks ago) live in Australia and have just finished school for the rest of my life. I have four months off until University and even though I have improved over the course of this year I think its time to really implement the changes.. NOW.
I have been out with only three girls this year:
-One was a continuation from last year, who was my ex and I hooked up fingered her and got headjobs non stop. I ended this one as she wanted a relationship again but I was ****ing around with her..
-Other I got her number at school met up, got a hook up... She rejected second offer and called me arrogant and self absorbed
-Third was two days I was drunk off my head.. Kissed her cheeks and we hugging and all that.. Went for kiss I got denied.. Now I asked her out got the busy response... I would say this is off the list as well now.
I think my goals can come under a number of categories:
Physical
Current Situational Analysis:
I am currently 74 kg, 180 cm. Which is 5'11, 162.8 pounds.
I am 18 I attend the gym, play indoor soccer , swim laps at the pool, hit my punching bag at the backyard. I use to be about 187 pounds but I was very pudgy soft and I seriously wasn't happy about it.
I applied an emotional trigger that Jariel's post talks about after I got rejected by this chick about a year and a half ago. I am not big , I am not skinny. I am in a relatively normal state.
Where I want to be
-I am going to be ripped. I am going to get a six pac.. I am going to get bigger and musclier but not overly big a good size which would look ****ing awesome when I am ripped.
-I am going to have a body that when chicks see it they are honestly aroused.
I am going to limit my drinking to every second Saturday night.. As it would be detrimental to my sucess right?
-I want to be so confident in my looks that I really believe I am the great catch.
-I always hear from my cousins my age and younger that there friends think I am hot. Even if I am not good looking I believe I am but I want the further belief that if I am rejected she is honestly missing out. NOT the other way around. I am going to be so ****ing awesome that I am a physical stage that when I am rejected I won't be questioning and saying to myself is it because I am not a ****ing ripped ****.
- I want to be able to smile at the girls that rejected me or lost interest and make them know whats up.. Ie what they missed out on.
- In total boys, Djs I want to become great.
- Summer is coming I am getting a tan which will make me feel good and look good.
- My eating habits must be very good, only one day a week for maccas or the other bull****t.
How to get there
- I think my physical look is going to come from a combination of the weights, running, swimming in essence exercising. I have so much time off its not funny I am willing to exercise 2 times a day 6 days a week and swim on the seventh I have the time and I have the will to build my castle(body) two times faster.
- I understand my diet is equally important in me reaching my physicall excellence which I want. I really need feedback on this. I have the means of eating what I want nightly. My mum is pretty nice so I can ask her to buy and make me whatever food I want for dinner each night. Also cutting out the junk crap, max once a week.
- I want a tan, to get one I need to go the beach. I am a really good tanner so this is going to being awesome.
Would really love if all the exercise enthusiast would give me some replies to this section of my journal.
Social
Current Situational Analysis:
I have had 1 gf I am 18. Hooked up with one girl besides that gf. Really I have done everything besides rooting, which was by choice. I have lots of friends and a good best mate who I have known for 13 years. Its wierd we tend to argue about dumb ****. But ultimately i know his parents well he knows mine very well, guess we are like bros.. I turned 18 recently and been out to the club twice. I can say hi to any girl with ease but approaching isn't as easy, though I can do it. I have plenty of female friends also and good parents. Not many real social massive problems.
Where I want to be
-I want to have the game and looks where I can pull chicks and get roots. Which isn't what I am after, but I want the game where I can do it
- In reality what I want is solid gfs, I would rather a good gf and not root for 4months then a ***** I can root daily.
- I want to be able to approach consistenly in obviously good situations and where IOI are shown. I want to be at a stage where I am not needy or wanting a girl.
- I want more friends, more options for going out and more options of people to kick it with.
How to get there
- It comes down to how much I want it. I know I am capable of more then I am showing. I have to approach chicks plain and simple when the situation is right.
-I have to be more involved in things when I go to university.
- I must talk to people I don't know constantly and make things a habit.
So suave is ultimately about girls and social so support in this segment would be really appreciated..
Academic/Working
Current Situational Analysis:
-I am 18 and I have never had a job in my life, my parents provide for me in every facet of my life.. They give me money, they drive to places. I guess I am not that independent. I have finished high school, I have made university which I am stoked about seen as I never studied. I am naturally smart as well, in junior years use to be better then the rest.
- I am currently waiting for University to being which is a whopping 4months away. Too much time means boredome, boredom means thoughtless thinking about nothing which ends to bad emotions and bad bull****.
-Me making university meant the world to my parents, they never threatened to disown me or kill me but they would of been rather dissapointed I have made it and has improved relations greatly and they see me as more of an adult.
Where I want to be
- I want to not have to ask my parents for money eg I go out to the club and my parents give me 50 bucks.
- I am going to go out and give resumes and find myself a damn job. I want a job to give me money, keep me busy and appreciate the times I sit on my own and just relax.
- I want to be working hard and enjoying it I want to be able to have money to put the petrol in my car instead of asking my dad.
- I want to be able to occasionaly take my parents out for dinner and pay
- Graduate from university in three years with good marks and good career options
How to get there
- Get a job and start working is the first step, I might reassess my ambitions at a later point. But the starting point for this is applying for jobs its that simple. I do not have job experience, however my dads mate use to own a kebab shop and he bull****s I use to work there and references me.
Miscellaneous
- I want a car and my dad is buying me one since I made university.This isn't a goal or anything just something that would add to the quality of my life..
- I am not a masturbation freak either maybe once every 3 days or so.
I will update this as I feel neccessary but Ultimately when I think about it If could achive the following it would make things that much easier in life.
However right now I am where I am right now. I want to start building my bridge and hopefully good things are at the other end.
By writing this I hope people who are still in a rut worst then me, try to improve and people that have improved a lot can help me out.
I am 18 (turned 18 under 2 weeks ago) live in Australia and have just finished school for the rest of my life. I have four months off until University and even though I have improved over the course of this year I think its time to really implement the changes.. NOW.
I have been out with only three girls this year:
-One was a continuation from last year, who was my ex and I hooked up fingered her and got headjobs non stop. I ended this one as she wanted a relationship again but I was ****ing around with her..
-Other I got her number at school met up, got a hook up... She rejected second offer and called me arrogant and self absorbed
-Third was two days I was drunk off my head.. Kissed her cheeks and we hugging and all that.. Went for kiss I got denied.. Now I asked her out got the busy response... I would say this is off the list as well now.
I think my goals can come under a number of categories:
Physical
Current Situational Analysis:
I am currently 74 kg, 180 cm. Which is 5'11, 162.8 pounds.
I am 18 I attend the gym, play indoor soccer , swim laps at the pool, hit my punching bag at the backyard. I use to be about 187 pounds but I was very pudgy soft and I seriously wasn't happy about it.
I applied an emotional trigger that Jariel's post talks about after I got rejected by this chick about a year and a half ago. I am not big , I am not skinny. I am in a relatively normal state.
Where I want to be
-I am going to be ripped. I am going to get a six pac.. I am going to get bigger and musclier but not overly big a good size which would look ****ing awesome when I am ripped.
-I am going to have a body that when chicks see it they are honestly aroused.
I am going to limit my drinking to every second Saturday night.. As it would be detrimental to my sucess right?
-I want to be so confident in my looks that I really believe I am the great catch.
-I always hear from my cousins my age and younger that there friends think I am hot. Even if I am not good looking I believe I am but I want the further belief that if I am rejected she is honestly missing out. NOT the other way around. I am going to be so ****ing awesome that I am a physical stage that when I am rejected I won't be questioning and saying to myself is it because I am not a ****ing ripped ****.
- I want to be able to smile at the girls that rejected me or lost interest and make them know whats up.. Ie what they missed out on.
- In total boys, Djs I want to become great.
- Summer is coming I am getting a tan which will make me feel good and look good.
- My eating habits must be very good, only one day a week for maccas or the other bull****t.
How to get there
- I think my physical look is going to come from a combination of the weights, running, swimming in essence exercising. I have so much time off its not funny I am willing to exercise 2 times a day 6 days a week and swim on the seventh I have the time and I have the will to build my castle(body) two times faster.
- I understand my diet is equally important in me reaching my physicall excellence which I want. I really need feedback on this. I have the means of eating what I want nightly. My mum is pretty nice so I can ask her to buy and make me whatever food I want for dinner each night. Also cutting out the junk crap, max once a week.
- I want a tan, to get one I need to go the beach. I am a really good tanner so this is going to being awesome.
Would really love if all the exercise enthusiast would give me some replies to this section of my journal.
Social
Current Situational Analysis:
I have had 1 gf I am 18. Hooked up with one girl besides that gf. Really I have done everything besides rooting, which was by choice. I have lots of friends and a good best mate who I have known for 13 years. Its wierd we tend to argue about dumb ****. But ultimately i know his parents well he knows mine very well, guess we are like bros.. I turned 18 recently and been out to the club twice. I can say hi to any girl with ease but approaching isn't as easy, though I can do it. I have plenty of female friends also and good parents. Not many real social massive problems.
Where I want to be
-I want to have the game and looks where I can pull chicks and get roots. Which isn't what I am after, but I want the game where I can do it
- In reality what I want is solid gfs, I would rather a good gf and not root for 4months then a ***** I can root daily.
- I want to be able to approach consistenly in obviously good situations and where IOI are shown. I want to be at a stage where I am not needy or wanting a girl.
- I want more friends, more options for going out and more options of people to kick it with.
How to get there
- It comes down to how much I want it. I know I am capable of more then I am showing. I have to approach chicks plain and simple when the situation is right.
-I have to be more involved in things when I go to university.
- I must talk to people I don't know constantly and make things a habit.
So suave is ultimately about girls and social so support in this segment would be really appreciated..
Academic/Working
Current Situational Analysis:
-I am 18 and I have never had a job in my life, my parents provide for me in every facet of my life.. They give me money, they drive to places. I guess I am not that independent. I have finished high school, I have made university which I am stoked about seen as I never studied. I am naturally smart as well, in junior years use to be better then the rest.
- I am currently waiting for University to being which is a whopping 4months away. Too much time means boredome, boredom means thoughtless thinking about nothing which ends to bad emotions and bad bull****.
-Me making university meant the world to my parents, they never threatened to disown me or kill me but they would of been rather dissapointed I have made it and has improved relations greatly and they see me as more of an adult.
Where I want to be
- I want to not have to ask my parents for money eg I go out to the club and my parents give me 50 bucks.
- I am going to go out and give resumes and find myself a damn job. I want a job to give me money, keep me busy and appreciate the times I sit on my own and just relax.
- I want to be working hard and enjoying it I want to be able to have money to put the petrol in my car instead of asking my dad.
- I want to be able to occasionaly take my parents out for dinner and pay
- Graduate from university in three years with good marks and good career options
How to get there
- Get a job and start working is the first step, I might reassess my ambitions at a later point. But the starting point for this is applying for jobs its that simple. I do not have job experience, however my dads mate use to own a kebab shop and he bull****s I use to work there and references me.
Miscellaneous
- I want a car and my dad is buying me one since I made university.This isn't a goal or anything just something that would add to the quality of my life..
- I am not a masturbation freak either maybe once every 3 days or so.
I will update this as I feel neccessary but Ultimately when I think about it If could achive the following it would make things that much easier in life.
However right now I am where I am right now. I want to start building my bridge and hopefully good things are at the other end.
By writing this I hope people who are still in a rut worst then me, try to improve and people that have improved a lot can help me out.
