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Levels of Oneinitis?

Paid Laid & Made

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I am right now experiencing withdrawal symptoms. I have not called my ex in almost a week, but I keep catching myself staring at my cell phone. Even when I am out having fun and with other girls, I still do it. I know the chick will not call to hang out on 1 of our half days, even though we are friends now ... yeah right. When she talked me last she seemed interested in hanging and suggest doing something during those days, but then lost interest somehow and I told her she needed to pick what she would want to do and to let me know (therefore hinting toward her calling). I read the articles on oneinitis and still write posts but I found myself growing more angry each passing day ... I also went as far as denying that I ever dated her and pretending like I never cared about her to begin with when I was talking to one of her co-workers. Just so I would not grant her a moment of satisfaction in knowing that I was crushed when she kicked my a$$ to the curb. It's childish and immature, I know. I am working through it though and will not crack and call her.

On a better note, I will have a chick mack session on Friday. Plus, I got plans for both my half days after the finals ... hanging with the boys.
 

Dubs

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HAHA

looks like i wasn't so far off kid.

Ex's are a waste of time.
 

NewMan

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Never be friends with an ex - especially if you have one-i-tis.

listen, you will talk to her, she will tell you about all the things she's doing - and you will feel like sh#t.

Best medicine is not to call and speak - or be friends - unless you want to keep twisting that knife in your ribs.

She will tell you she will hang out - then if something else comes up better - she will blow you off.

Simple.

Your her emotional tampon.

Don't do it.

Don't call.

You've got to be strong - but believe me it's THE ONLY WAY.

Now fvck that b#tch - go out and have fun.
 

Paid Laid & Made

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Yeah, I talked 3 times with her after we broke up and always she would tell me about another guy or whatever, but she always called me to b1tch to about her friends. She has not called for a week and I am not going to crack on this. I felt like **** each time I talked to her and old memories got brought up. I dont want to deal with it, that's why I gotta stay away, no matter the cost.

Thanks guys for helping me. I love this forum and get alot out of the material ... I am growing as a person each passing day seeing that I go through the same exact stuff you guys experience.
 
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