squirrels
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 15, 2003
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- 45
Went out to a club for the first time in a little while...a popular place down at the beach. Normally, I used to place the success on a "club night" on whether I hooked up with a girl (something that rarely happened, given my lack of skill/experience), but tonight I gave myself a different objective: to just have fun and talk to as many cute chix as possible.
And I did it! By the end of the night, I was just approaching women without giving it a second thought. Most of them were cool, it seemed, even though some eventually left and others just lost my interest. But I see this as being "level one" of a complex game that I am just now entering into.
I try to let them talk about themselves and say as little as possible about myself, but here's a question: what do you do if you want to pick up a girl and you're trying to chat her up, but at some point one of you (usually me, but not always) has no interest with the topic? And there's that awkward silence where the girl goes off to find her friends? LOL.
Anyway, I hope this is progress. I guess I oughta try some # closes if I can keep the convo going long enough to build rapport.
I'm still confused, but it's getting easier, I think.
And I did it! By the end of the night, I was just approaching women without giving it a second thought. Most of them were cool, it seemed, even though some eventually left and others just lost my interest. But I see this as being "level one" of a complex game that I am just now entering into.
I try to let them talk about themselves and say as little as possible about myself, but here's a question: what do you do if you want to pick up a girl and you're trying to chat her up, but at some point one of you (usually me, but not always) has no interest with the topic? And there's that awkward silence where the girl goes off to find her friends? LOL.
Anyway, I hope this is progress. I guess I oughta try some # closes if I can keep the convo going long enough to build rapport.
I'm still confused, but it's getting easier, I think.